Psychology

Nthawi zambiri ndimadzudzula ana (osati mokweza) kuti iwo eni nthawi zambiri sangathe kudziwa choti achite tsopano, akuyembekezera wina kuti adziwe zoyenera kuchita, sitepe iliyonse iyenera kuuzidwa. Kuti ndisawaganizire, ndinaganiza zowathandiza kuti azichita okha: Ndinabwera ndi masewerawo "Tembenuzani mutu wanu".

Asanayambe kadzutsa adalengeza za kuyamba kwa masewerawo. Iwo anabwera n’kuima n’kumadikirira malangizo pamene zonse zawakonzeranso. Ine ndimati, “Bwanji ife tikuyima, kutembenuzira pa mitu yathu, kodi ife tichite chiyani?”, “Ine ndikudziwa, ikani izo pa mbale”, ndiko kulondola. Koma kenako amatenga soseji mu poto ndi mphanda ndipo ali wokonzeka kutumiza ku mbale yomwe madzi akuyenda pansi. Ndikuyimitsa "Tsopano tembenuzirani mutu wanu, zikhala bwanji pansi pano?" Ntchitoyi yayamba… Koma chochita sichikudziwika. “Maganizo anu ndi otani? Momwe mungayikitsire soseji pa mbale kuti asafalikire komanso kuti zisakhale zovuta kuzigwira?

Ntchitoyi ndi yoyambira kwa munthu wamkulu, koma kwa ana sizidziwika nthawi yomweyo, kukambirana! Malingaliro! Mitu imayatsa, gwirani ntchito, ndipo ndimawatamanda.

Ndi zina zotero. Tsopano akungothamanga, tiyeni tisewerenso "Kodi mungatiganizire chiyani?" Ndipo ndimayankha mwachikondi, "Ndipo iwe ukutembenukira mutu wako," ndipo wow, adadzipereka kuti azithandiza okha kuzungulira nyumba!

Siyani Mumakonda