Makhalidwe a m'badwo Y omwe angawaphe

Generation Y, yomwe imadziwikanso kuti NEXT generation kapena millennials, yobadwa kuyambira 1984 mpaka 2003, ndi omwe amapanga miyoyo yawo. Okonda kugwira ntchito mofunitsitsa amadzipangira okha zenizeni. Komabe, pansi pa chiwonetsero cha kupambana ndi chisangalalo pali mantha aumphawi ndi kulephera kukhala ndi moyo wowala. Mu anamnesis - makolo omwe mwakachetechete amakula peonies m'dzikoli. Mu maloto - olemera ndi otchuka, omwe ayenera kukhala ofanana. Wotsatsa ntchito Jeanne Lurie wazindikira mikhalidwe ya Generation Y yomwe ingawapweteke.

1. Kudalira ndalama

Zaka za m'ma 90 zinali nthawi yogawanitsa anthu m'magulu, ndi Union of Republics kukhala mayiko odziyimira pawokha. Oimira m'badwo WOTSATIRA, ndithudi, adakali aang'ono kwambiri kuti asatenge nawo mbali pokhazikitsa malire atsopano, koma adamvetsetsa kuti pakali pano ali ndi mwayi wopanga tsogolo lawo ndikupanga ndalama mwakufuna kwawo.

Chuma chakuthupi mwadzidzidzi chinasiya kukhala chamanyazi ndipo chinayamba kutenga malo ofunika kwambiri m’maganizo a tsogolo la munthu. Mantha aakulu a "ochita masewera" ndi umphawi. Kugwira ntchito mpaka kutaya mphamvu, popanda maholide ndi tchuthi (makolo adaphunzitsa kuti ndalama ziyenera kupezedwa mwa khama), mpikisano wopanda malire kuchokera ku polojekiti kupita kuntchito, kusowa kwathunthu kwa nthawi yaumwini - izi ndizo mizati itatu yomwe ingawononge thanzi la munthu wamakono wangwiro.

2. Kuyesetsa kuti mukhale ndi maonekedwe abwino

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa American Psychological Association, Generation Y inaposa Generation X yapitayi pofunafuna chithunzithunzi choyenera chakunja komanso, ngakhale mongoganizira, m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, komabe chipambano cha anthu. Mlingo wa exactness kwa wekha chawonjezeka ndi 30%, ndi ena - ndi 40%.

Apa ndi bwino kukumbukira mwambo wowonda, ndi nkhope zabwino za atsikana ndi anyamata kuchokera ku zophimba za magazini onyezimira, mafilimu a Hollywood, malonda a malonda a opanga katundu ndi ntchito zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti chimwemwe chiri mu ungwiro wakuthupi. Chifukwa chake - kukhala olimba mpaka kutopa komanso kuyambika kwa anorexia pakati pa ana m'ma 90s.

M'malo mokhala ndi thupi labwino, lomwe silinakhazikike m'nthaka yaku Russia, pali kudana kwathunthu ndi thupi "lamafuta", limodzi ndi gulu la neuroses, zakudya ndi mapiritsi okayikitsa.

3. Kuvutika maganizo ndi kumwerekera

M'badwo wa Y: "Moyo wanga ndi malamulo anga, kupambana ndiye chinthu chachikulu, ntchito ndi mpikisano, ndikufuna zonse nthawi imodzi." Ndipo kwenikweni, n'chifukwa chiyani munthu amakonda kukhala ndi malamulo a munthu wina ndi «sakufuna kalikonse ndipo tsiku lina pambuyo pake»? Komabe, ndi m'badwo WOTSATIRA womwe umakonda kuvutika maganizo, kudzipha komanso zizolowezi zamtundu uliwonse, kuyambira kutchova juga kupita ku shopaholism, ndipo izi sizikuwerengera kuledzera.

4. Neurotic perfectionism

Ungwiro monga "kuphatikiza kwa miyezo yapamwamba kwambiri yaumwini ndi chizoloŵezi chodzidzudzula" chimabwera muzaka zikwizikwi chifukwa cha kukakamizidwa - kuphatikizapo iwo okha. Zimawakakamiza kuti "agwirizane" ndi moyo wawo ku chiwerengero chochulukirachulukira cha njira zopambana. Simungathe kumubisira kulikonse, amasokedwa mu pulogalamuyo, ndipo kusayeruzika kwabwinobwino ndiye injini yachitukuko.

Komabe, ngati mipiringidzo sikutheka, ndipo palibe malo olakwika, munthu amene akuyesetsa kuti apambane amakhala wosokonezeka maganizo. Ndi pafupi kukhumudwa ndi nkhawa. Zakachikwi amakhalanso odwala a psychotherapists, omwe amizidwa kwambiri m'dziko lachinyengo komanso kuchita bwino mongoyerekeza kotero kuti asiya kuzindikira zenizeni.

5. Chisangalalo kuchokera ku zotsatira, osati kuchokera ku ndondomekoyi

Zakachikwi sadziwa momwe angakhalire ndikusangalala ndi mphindi. Nthawi zonse amakhala kwinakwake mtsogolo. Amatsegula bizinesi, amakhala ndi udindo wapamwamba mukampani yayikulu, amasindikiza buku lawo. "Masewera" amapeza mlingo wa endorphins kokha pamene bokosi loyang'ana kutsogolo kwa cholinga liri ndi chizindikiro, ndipo, tsoka, amaiwalatu kuti njira yopita ku chisangalalo imakhalanso phokoso. Chokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndichakuti kumverera kosangalatsa kuchokera pazotsatira sikukhalitsa, monga kugula mtundu waposachedwa wa smartphone. Tsiku limodzi kapena awiri - ndipo cholinga chatsopano chikufunika. Apo ayi - blues ndi kutopa.

Siyani Mumakonda