Kuberekera kumalo obadwirako: amachitira umboni.

Iwo anaberekera kumalo obadwirako

Kodi malo obadwirako ndi chiyani?

Ndi nyumba yoyendetsedwa ndi azamba komanso pafupi ndi chipatala cha amayi oyembekezera. Akazi okha ndi non-pathological mimba akhoza kubala pamenepo. Mayi sayenera kukhala oyembekezera mapasa, kapena kuti anachitidwa opaleshoni pa nthawi yobereka m'mbuyomu, mimba iyenera kukhala pa nthawi yoyembekezera, ndipo mwanayo abwere kudzera m'mutu. Mwana akabadwa, mayi akhoza kupita kunyumba patatha maola 6 mpaka 12, ndipo akalandira chithandizo chamankhwala kutsata kunyumba. Pezani mndandanda wa malo obadwa 9 otsegulidwa poyesera pa webusaiti ya Haute Autorité de Santé. 

Hélène: “Poopa kubereka, ndinachoka pa 10 mpaka 1!”

“Kubadwa kwanga komwe kunalakwika. Amayi anachita mantha, ndipo anaona kuti akugwiriridwa ndi madokotala. Choncho chipatalacho chinatichititsa mantha pang’ono. Nicolas anafunsa chaka china pa intaneti, ndipo adapeza Wodekha. Pano, mfundo yamphamvu ndi yakuti mzamba wathu, Marjolaine, amaika maganizo athu pa mafunso athu. Ndinkaopa kulowetsedwa, kuopa kuchitidwa opaleshoni ya opaleshoni. Ndi tattoo yanga kumunsi kumbuyo, epidural sanali wotsimikizika. Sindinadziwe kalikonse, ndinaphunzira zonse apa. M’miyezi yoŵerengeka, pamlingo wa mantha obala, ndinachoka pa 10 kufika pa 1! Nicolas anali ndi ndalama zambiri; anafika pafupifupi kukambilana kulikonse. Marjolaine anatithandiza kukhala odzidalira: anatifotokozera mmene mnzawoyo angachitire kuchepetsa contractions ndi kutikita minofu kumunsi kumbuyo ndi malo pa mpira. Ndinadutsa nthawiyo, ndikuopa kuyambika. Marjolaine anafotokoza mwatsatanetsatane njira zachilengedwe zoyambira ntchito: kuyenda, kukwera masitepe, kupanga chikondi, kudya zakudya zokometsera, kusisita mimba ndi mafuta ofunikira. Ndinachita zonse, ngakhale gawo la osteopathy.

Patangotha ​​​​masiku atatu, ndinali ndi ultrasound ku Bluets. Pakupimidwa, adokotala adataya chithunzicho. Aka kanali kukomoka kwanga koyamba kolimba. Anali masana. Ndinapita kunyumba kukachita chiyambi cha ntchito. Ndinayikidwa pa bedi langa mumdima, ndinali bwino, ndinalandira kukomoka. Marjolaine ankandiimbira foni ola lililonse. Pondimvetsera ndikupuma, ankadziwa kumene ndinali. Cha m’ma 18 koloko masana, anandipempha kuti ndibwere ku Calm. Ndinakhala m'bafa, kukhala pamenepo kuyambira 20:30 pm mpaka 23:30 pm ndinatuluka kukayesa kaimidwe pabedi, kukhala, kuyimirira, kusuntha, chammbali… Nicolas ankandiperekeza mosalekeza, akusisita msana wanga. Tsiku lotsatira, anali atatopa! Ola lililonse, ndinali kuyang'anira. Mzamba sanali pafupi nane nthawi zonse, koma ndimamva kuti ali nawo. Adanditsogolera muzomverera.

Lero, ndikukumbukira bwino za kubadwa

Cha m'ma 3 koloko m'mawa, adandiyang'ana ndipo ntchito yanga inali patali. Kolala yanga inali yotsekedwa, mpaka Marjolaine, ndi chilolezo changa, anayamba ntchito yosinthira. Ndinapita kumalo osungirako amayi oyembekezera (yomwe ili pamwamba), ndipo zonse zinayamba. Choncho ndinatha kukhala ndi azamba anga ku Calm. Garance adatuluka mwachangu, mumphindi 30, nthawi ya 4:30 am pa Epulo 9. Nditamumva akubwera, ndinasambitsidwa ndi chisangalalo. Tinatsikira ku Calm kuti tikagone, ndi Garance pakati pathu. Tinagona mpaka 9:30 am ndipo tinadya chakudya cham’mawa chabwino. Amayi anabwera kudzatitenga 12:30 pm Marjolaine anatichezera tsiku lotsatira. Anandifotokozera zambiri za kuyamwitsa. Ndinali ndi nkhawa pang'ono, kupatula kupweteka kwa coccyx kwa masiku 10. Lero, ndikukumbukira kubadwa kwa Garance. Kuchepetsa, sizimapweteka kwambiri kuposa momwe munthu angaganizire. Zili ngati a funde lamphamvu momwe mungadumphiremo. Ndisanabwere kuno, pamene ndinali kukonzekera kubereka, ndinalingalira za ululu, kuopa kufa! ” ndi

Mafunso ndi Christine Cointe

Julia: "Ndinaberekera m'madzi ndipo pafupifupi popanda thandizo ..." 

"Ndinabelekera ku Calm pa Epulo 27. Ndinkafuna a kubadwa kwachilengedwe kwambiri. Ndinali ndi chidaliro mu thupi langa. Kunena zambiri, sindimakonda chipatala cha thupi. Ndinali ndi polojekiti yoti ndikhale ndi a kwambiri zokhudza thupi kubala komanso bambo amtsogolo. Anali mlongo wanga amene anandiuza za malo obadwirako. Tinkafufuza pa Intaneti, kenako tinapita kumisonkhano yachidziwitso. Ndipo tinalimbikitsidwa, tinapeza kuti anali malo abwino opatsa moyo. Simungathenso kulamulira thupi lanu kapena ntchito yanu kuyambira pamene mudapita kuchipatala… Ndinkafuna kubereka mwachibadwa. Mayi anga nawonso anali ndi chilakolako choberekera m'madzi, koma sanachite bwino kuti izi zitheke. Ndikukhulupirira kuti panali kufalikira kwachikhumbochi. Madzi ndi chinthu chomwe chimandikopa. Sindinachite mantha kubereka popanda epidural. Ndinali nditawerenga zinthu zambiri zomwe zinandilimbikitsa… Ndinkaona kuti kukomoka kwabwino kwambiri, ndinali ndi chiyembekezo. Ndikuganiza kuti ngakhale tsopano ndinalibe mantha okwanira.

Pamapeto pake, zinali zowawa kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimaganizira. Ndinali ndi masiku awiri athunthu asanayambe ntchito, mausiku awiri osagona ndi kukomoka mobwerezabwereza. Ndinafika kumalo obadwirako nditatambasuka pang'ono. Mzamba anandiuza kuti sindinali mu ntchito yeniyeni ndipo anandiuza kuti ndipite kwa maola awiri kuti zinthu zisamavutike. Ndinapita kokayenda. Ulendo wakunja unayenda bwino, koma pobwerera, zinali zoopsa, ndinakuwa pa imfa yanga. Kubwerera ku malo oberekera, mzamba anandiyika m'bafa kuti ndipumule. Anandiyeza nyini, yokhayo panthawi yonse yobereka. Khomo langa lachibelekero linali litatambasuka 2cm. “Mwina upite kunyumba n’kubwerako ukakhala kuti sulinso kuntchito, kapena ukakhala komweko kuti tiwone mmene zikuyendera,” anandiuza motero. Ndinabwerera m’galimoto, koma ululu unali wochuluka: ndinalira mosalekeza. Ndipo potsiriza, ntchitoyo idachitika mwachangu, chifukwa ntchito isanayambe inali yaitali kwambiri. Sindinapangidwe kukankhira, ndinauzidwa kuti ndichite pamene ndikumverera kuti ndikufuna kutero. Pa gawo lotsiriza, pamene ndinamva kuti mwana wanga akupita patsogolo, ndinapempha kupita ku bafa. Ndipo pa 1:55 am, ndinabala mwana wamkazi, m’madzi ndi pafupifupi osathandizidwa.

Ndikadatha kuchitanso, ndikadatero!

Mkazi wanzeru sanalowererepo nthawi iliyonse,anangoyeza kugunda kwa mtima wamwana wanga ola lililonse. Mnzangayo ankandikonda kwambiri, ankandisisita komanso kunditonthoza. Chomwe chili chabwino pa malo obadwira ndikuti mutasankha ntchito yanu, simungasinthe malingaliro anu, pokhapokha ngati mwadzidzidzi. Mwa njira, nthawi ina ndinanena kuti ndikufuna epidural, koma adandilimbitsa mtima mzamba, chifukwa anaona kuti ndinali ndi chuma chambiri. Ndinabereka cha mma 2 am tinagona usiku wonse atatu kuchipinda tinadya masana ndipo 15pm tinanyamuka. Ndinapeza kutulutsidwa kumeneku msanga… Koma ndine wokondwa kuti ndabereka chonchi. Ndipo ngati ndikanati ndichitenso, ndikanachitanso. ” ndi

Mafunso ndi Hélène Bour

Marie-Laure: “Nditangobadwa, ndinadzimva kuti sindingathe kundigonjetsa.”

 "Ndinabereka 2:45 m'mawa. kugwada mumphika, Lolemba May 16, nditazunguliridwa ndi Marjolaine, mzamba wanga ndi mwamuna wanga. Elvia, 3,7 kg pa kubadwa, sanakuwa. Zinangotengera kukomoka kanayi kuti amutulutse. Ndipo masana tinali titafika kunyumba. Zinakhala momwe ndimaganizira. Pa nthawi yothamangitsidwa, mphamvu ya thupi ndi yochititsa chidwi! Ndawerenga zambiri za kuthamanga kwa adrenaline pamene khanda likukankha; kwenikweni, amayaka kwambiri. Nditangobadwa ndinamva wosagonjetseka, ngati wankhondo. Ndine wokondwa kukhala ndi moyo, zinali zomveka. Ululu umapilira pamene mwakonzeka.

Ndinkafuna kubereka kwachipatala kochepa

Ndimakumbukira zoipa za kubadwa kwanga koyamba mankhwala choyambitsa. Pamene nthawiyo imayandikira, ndidayenda pang'ono ndipo ndidapanga acupuncture kuti khomo lachiberekero liche. Zotsatira ? Elvia anabadwa tsiku lisanafike nthawi yachidziwitso. Sindimadziwa aliyense amene anaberekera pano. Ndinafunsa pa intaneti. Mu 2011, ndinapita kumsonkhano wodziwitsa anthu za Calm (1). Tsiku limenelo, ndinadziuza ndekha kuti: malotowo alipo! Apa pali ubale weniweni wa kukhulupirirana. Marjolaine anandifunsa nthawi yomweyo ngati ndikugwirizana kapena ayi chifukwa chopimidwa kumaliseche, mwachitsanzo. Pano, tikuphunzira kuti kubereka ndi a physiological process, kuti ndizotheka kukhala okangalika panthawiyi. Kupatula ma ultrasounds, omwe amatengedwa mwachinsinsi, sindinawone dokotala ndili ndi pakati. Ndi azamba a Calm, zokambirana sizili pafupi koma zazitali, 1 ola 30 mpaka 2 hours! Ndinayamikira makonda awa. Pakukambirana kulikonse, timamva kulandiridwa, m’banja. Pa kubadwa, Marjolaine analipo kwambiri. Iye anali kumvetsera kugunda kwamtima nthawi zonse, adandisisita pamwamba pa chiuno, adazolowera nthawi zonse. Pamene ntchito inkapitirira, m’pamenenso ndinaona kuti ndimamufuna. Ndinadzithandiza potulutsa mawuwo kuti ndikhazikitse chiuno. Poyimba, ndidakwera kwambiri mu treble ndipo adandibwezeranso ku ma bass. Ndinachita mantha ndi kudekha kwake, monganso ine kuthedwa nzeru ndi mphamvu yakukokera chiberekero. Aliyense atafika, mwamuna wanga anandigwira dzanja! Ndikulankhula ndi Elvia, ndikumulimbikitsa kuti atsike. Panthawiyo, sitiganiza, tili mu kuwira, ndi nyama kwambiri. Ngati tili ndi ludzu, tikhoza kumwa, ngati tikufuna kutuluka m'madzi, timachita. Panthawi ina, sindinathenso kumwa madzi! Ndinapita kukachita zoyimitsidwa. Ndasinthana ndi maudindo angapo. Pa nthawi ya ntchito, sindinafunse za dilation. Marjolaine anayang'ana kamodzi. Paulendo wina woyembekezera kubadwa, anandiuza kuti patangotsala maola atatu kuti abadwe nditangotsala pang’ono kubadwa, ndinali ndi zaka 6 zokha. Patangopita tsiku lobadwa, ndinabwera kudzacheza ndi Marjolaine, kenako Lachinayi ndi Loweruka. Ndimamva kutopa kwambiri poyerekeza ndi kubereka koyamba. Timachira bwino kwambiri popanda mankhwala m'thupi! ” ndi

Mafunso ndi Christine Cointe

(1) Kuti mudziwe zambiri: http://www.mdncalm.org