Tsanzikani kulakwa!

Sindikanayenera kudya chitumbuwa chomaliza chija! “Sindikukhulupirira kuti ndakhala ndikudya maswiti usiku kwa masiku atatu otsatizana!” "Ine ndine mayi, choncho, ndiyenera kusamalira ana, kuphika, ndi kugwira ntchito, sichoncho?" Aliyense ali ndi maganizo amenewa. Ndipo ziribe kanthu zomwe tili ndi zokambirana zamkati zowononga: za chakudya, kasamalidwe ka nthawi, ntchito, banja, maubwenzi, maudindo athu kapena china chake, malingaliro oipawa samatsogolera ku zabwino zonse. Kulakwa ndi katundu wolemetsa kwambiri, kumatengera mphamvu zambiri. Zolakwa zimatitembenuza kukhala zakale, zimatilepheretsa ife kukhala ndi mphamvu panopa komanso sizimalola kuti tipite m'tsogolo. Timakhala opanda chochita. Kaya kulakwa kumayambitsidwa ndi zochitika zakale, zikhulupiriro zamkati, chikhalidwe chakunja, kapena zonse zomwe zili pamwambazi, zotsatira zake zimakhala zofanana - timakhazikika m'malo mwake. Komabe, n'zosavuta kunena - kuchotsa kulakwa, sikophweka kuchita. Ndikukupatsirani kachitidwe kamodzi kakang'ono. Nenani mawu otsatirawa mokweza pompano: Mawu oti "chilungamo" ndi ofanana ndi mawu akuti "ndiyenera!" ndipo “Sindiyenera kutero! Tsopano yambani kuyang'ana momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito mawu oti "muyenera" ndi "simuyenera" kufotokoza malingaliro anu ndi zochita zanu. Ndipo mukangopeza mawu awa, m'malo mwake ndi mawu oti "osavuta". Chifukwa chake, mudzasiya kudziweruza nokha, koma fotokozani zochita zanu. Yesani njira iyi ndikumva kusiyana kwake. Kodi malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu zidzasintha bwanji ngati, m'malo momati: "Sindikanayenera kudya mchere wonsewu!", munganene kuti: "Ndinadya mchere wonse, mpaka kuluma komaliza, ndipo ndinaukonda kwambiri! ” "Ayenera" ndi "osatero" ndi mawu achinyengo komanso amphamvu, ndipo ndizovuta kuwachotsa ku chidziwitso, koma ndi bwino kutero kuti asakhale ndi mphamvu pa inu. Kunena mawu awa (mokweza kapena kwa inu nokha) ndi chizoloŵezi choipa, ndipo zingakhale bwino kuyamba kuphunzira kuzitsatira. Mawu awa akawonekera m'maganizo mwanu (ndipo izi zakhala zikuchitika ndipo zidzachitika), musadzidzudzule nokha chifukwa cha izi, musadzinene nokha: "Sindiyenera kulankhula kapena kuganiza chonchi", ingofotokozani zomwe zikuchitika. kwa inu, kuti mumadzimenya nokha. Pakadali pano, zochita zanu kapena kusachita kwanu kwaperekedwa. Ndipo ndi zimenezo! Ndipo palibe mlandu! Mukasiya kudziweruza nokha, mudzamva mphamvu zanu. Monga yoga, monga chikhumbo chokhala ndi moyo mwachidziwitso, kuchotsa liwongo sikungakhale cholinga, ndikuchita. Inde, sizophweka, koma zimakulolani kuchotsa matani angapo a zinyalala m'mutu mwanu ndikupanga malo okhala ndi malingaliro abwino. Ndiyeno kumakhala kosavuta kwa ife kuvomereza mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo wathu, mosasamala kanthu kuti ziri kutali bwanji ndi zangwiro. Chitsime: zest.myvega.com Kumasulira: Lakshmi

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