Chilema chikakhumudwitsa abale
Kubadwa kwa mwana wolumala, maganizo kapena thupi, kwenikweni zimakhudza banja la tsiku ndi tsiku. Zizolowezi zasintha, nyengo imakhala yotanganidwa ... Nthawi zambiri amawononga mbale kapena mlongo wa wodwala, yemwe nthawi zina amaiwala.
“Kubadwa kwa mwana wolumala si nkhani ya makolo chabe. Zimakhudzanso abale ndi alongo, zomwe zimakhudza momwe amapangidwira, momwe amakhalira, chikhalidwe chawo komanso tsogolo lawo ” akufotokoza motero Charles Gardou *, mkulu wa dipatimenti ya maphunziro a sayansi pa yunivesite ya Lyon III.
N'zovuta kuzindikira vuto lomwe mwana wanu angakumane nalo. Kuti ateteze banja lake, iye amangoyendayenda chete. “Ndimadikirira mpaka nditakhala pabedi langa kuti ndilire. Sindikufuna kukhumudwitsa makolo anga ”, akutero Théo (wazaka 6), mchimwene wake wa Louise, akudwala matenda a Duchenne muscular dystrophy (wazaka 10).
Chisokonezo choyamba si chilema, koma kuzunzika kwa makolo, komwe kumawoneka ngati kodabwitsa kwa mwanayo.
Kuwonjezera pa kuopa kulemetsa nyengo ya banja, mwanayo amaona chilango chake chachiwiri. “Ndimapewa kulankhula za mavuto anga kusukulu, chifukwa makolo anga ali achisoni kale ndi mlongo wanga. Komabe, mavuto anga, ndi ochepa ”, akutero Théo.
Kunja kwa nyumbayo, kuzunzika kumakhalabe kosaneneka. Kudzimva kukhala wosiyana, kuopa kukopa chifundo ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuiwala zomwe zikuchitika kunyumba, kumakankhira mwanayo kuti asauze anzake aang'ono zakukhosi.
Kuopa kusiyidwa
Pakati pa kufunsira kwachipatala, kuchapa ndi chakudya, chisamaliro choperekedwa kwa wodwala wamng'ono nthawi zina chimakhala chowirikiza katatu poyerekeza ndi nthawi yomwe amakhala ndi abale ena onse. Wamkulu adzamva “kusiyidwa” kwambiri kuyambira asanabadwe, iye yekha ndiye ankalamulira chisamaliro cha makolo ake. Kuphulikako ndi koopsa ngati kuli koyambirira. Moti angaganize kuti samukondanso ... Funsani udindo wanu monga kholo: muyenera kudziwa momwe mungadzikhazikitsire nokha pamene muli ndi chilema, komanso ngati makolo opezeka kwa ana ena ...
* Abale ndi alongo a anthu olumala, Ed. Eres