Mwana sakula yekha n’kukhala munthu, makolo ndi amene amapanga mwanayo kukhala munthu. Mwana amabadwa popanda chidziwitso cha moyo wamakono, iye ali pafupifupi chonyamulira choyera cha chidziwitso yemwe akuyamba kulemba ndikudzifotokozera yekha zonse zomwe zimachitika mozungulira iye. Ndipo ndi makolo aumwini omwe ndi anthu oyambirira omwe amaikidwa ndi munthu wamng'ono, ndipo kwa anthu ambiri ndi makolo awo omwe amakhala ndikukhalabe anthu ofunika kwambiri kwa mwanayo kwa moyo wonse.
Makolo amapereka mikhalidwe ya kupulumuka ndi chitonthozo kwa mwanayo. Makolo amalowetsa mwanayo kudziko lapansi, kumufotokozera pafupifupi malamulo onse a dziko lapansi. Makolo amaphunzitsa mwana wawo ndi mphamvu. Makolo amaika malangizo a moyo wa mwana ndi zolinga zoyambirira. Makolo amakhala kwa iye gulu lolozera lomwe amafanizira nalo moyo wake, ndipo pamene tikukula, timakhazikika (kapena okanidwa) kuchokera ku chokumana nacho cha makolo chomwe taphunzira. Timasankha mwamuna kapena mkazi, timalera ana, timamanga banja lathu pamaziko a zimene takumana nazo ndi makolo athu.
Makolo nthawi zonse amakhalabe m'maganizo mwa mwanayo, ndiyeno wamkulu, mu mawonekedwe a zithunzi ndi mawonekedwe a khalidwe. Mu mawonekedwe a maganizo, onse kwa iwe ndi ena, mu mawonekedwe a mkwiyo anaphunzira kuyambira ubwana, mantha ndi chizolowezi kusowa chochita kapena chizolowezi kudzidalira, chimwemwe cha moyo ndi amphamvu chikhumbo khalidwe.
Makolo nawonso amaphunzitsa zimenezi. Mwachitsanzo, bambo anaphunzitsa mwanayo modekha, popanda squeak, kukumana ndi mavuto a moyo. Abambo anamuphunzitsa kugona ndi kudzuka pa nthawi yake, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kudzithira madzi ozizira, kusamalira "Ndikufuna" ndi "Sindikufuna" mothandizidwa ndi "must". Anapereka chitsanzo cha momwe angaganizire kudzera muzochita ndikudutsa pazovuta za zoyamba zatsopano, kupeza "mkulu" kuchokera ku ntchito yabwino, kugwira ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kukhala wothandiza. Ngati mwana analeredwa ndi bambo woteroyo, mwanayo sangakhale ndi vuto ndi chilimbikitso ndi chifuniro: liwu la atate lidzakhala liwu lamkati la mwanayo ndi cholinga chake.
Makolo, kwenikweni, amakhala gawo la umunthu ndi chidziwitso cha munthu. M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, sitiwona nthawi zonse utatu woyera uwu mwa ife tokha: "Ine ndine Amayi ndi Abambo", koma nthawi zonse amakhala mwa ife, kuteteza kukhulupirika kwathu ndi thanzi lathu la maganizo.
Inde, makolo ndi osiyana, koma zirizonse zomwe iwo ali, ndi iwo amene anatilenga momwe ife tinakulira, ndipo ngati sitilemekeza makolo athu, sitilemekeza chotulukapo cha kulenga kwawo - tokha. Tikapanda kulemekeza makolo athu moyenera, sitidzilemekeza tokha. Ngati tikangana ndi makolo athu, timakangana, choyamba, ndi ife eni. Ngati sitipereka ulemu woyenerera kwa iwo, sitidziona kukhala ofunika kwa ife eni, sitidzilemekeza tokha, timataya ulemu wathu wamkati.
Kodi kutenga sitepe ku moyo wanzeru? Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, makolo anu adzakhala nanu nthawi zonse. Adzakhala mwa inu, kaya mukufuna kapena ayi, choncho ndi bwino kukhala nawo mwachikondi. Kukonda makolo ndi mtendere mumtima mwanu. Akhululukireni zomwe zikuyenera kukhululukidwa, ndipo khalani otero kapena monga momwe makolo anu amafunira kukuwonani.
Ndipo mwina kwachedwa kwambiri kusintha makolo anu. Makolo ndi anthu chabe, si angwiro, amakhala mmene amadziwira komanso kuchita zimene angathe. Ndipo ngati sachita bwino, chitani nokha. Ndi chithandizo chawo mudabwera kudziko lino lapansi, ndipo dziko lino ndilofunika kuyamikira! Moyo ndi wofunika kuyamikira, choncho - zabwino zonse zichita nokha. Mutha!