Ntchito zapakhomo: ndi liti pamene muyenera kuphatikizira Mwana?

Phunzitsani Mwana ntchito zazing'ono zapakhomo

Kuphatikizira mwana wanu ntchito zapakhomo ndi zotheka. Poyeneradi, wamng'ono wanu amatha kutenga maudindo ena. Mwachitsanzo, akangoyenda, musazengereze kumulimbikitsa kuti aike zoseŵeretsa zake m’binyo akaleka kuzigwiritsanso ntchito. Koposa zonse, mutamande kuti mumulimbikitse, adzadzimva kukhala wofunika. Pafupifupi zaka 2, mwana wanu amayang'anitsitsa omwe ali pafupi naye ndikutengera manja a omwe ali pafupi naye: iyi ndi nthawi yotsanzira. Amapanganso zochitika zomwe amawona pozungulira iye. Ana, atsikana ndi anyamata, amakonda kusewera ndi tsache kapena vacuum cleaner. Ngati ndi masewera chabe poyambira, zimamuthandiza kutengera zochitika zenizeni zomwe amawona. Pamsinkhu uwu, mwana wanu adzatha kukuthandizani pang'ono mukabwera kuchokera kusitolo kukakonza zinthu kapena kutenga zomwe mwagula m'matumba. Komanso, angakhale woyamba kuchitapo kanthu. Osadandaula: akhoza kuchita! Ndi ntchito yomukhulupirira, ndipo ali wotsimikiza mtima kuti asakukhumudwitseni. Ngati apatsidwa ntchito "yaikulu", ayenera kuchita "monga wamkulu". Apanso adzaona kuti ndi wofunika. Inde, panalibe funso lomulola kusunga mazira, kapena mabotolo agalasi. Akhoza kudzivulaza yekha kapena kusandutsa khitchini kukhala bwalo lankhondo. Pazochitika zake zonse, mwana wanu adzaloweza malo a pasitala, mkaka, ndi zina zotero. zodabwitsa kudzutsidwa ntchito kwa mwana wanu, komanso mphindi complibility kugawana naye. Ntchito yamtunduwu imamupangitsa kuti pang'onopang'ono ayambe kudzilamulira, bwanji osamvetsetsa kuti "ntchito" ndi zosangalatsa zimayendera limodzi. Komanso, musazengereze kuvala nyimbo ndi kuvina pamene mukukonza pamodzi. Kuphunzira modekha kumeneku kudzamulepheretsa kuyerekezera ntchito yaing’ono iliyonse ndi chilango.

Banja: ali ndi zaka 3, mwana wanu amakhala wothandizira weniweni

Kuyambira wazaka zitatu, mutha kufunsa mwana wanu kuti akuthandizeni kukonza chipinda chake, malinga ngati mabokosi ndi maalumali ali pamtunda wake. Akangovula, muphunzitsenso kuyika zovala zake pamalo odetsedwa kapena kuyika nsapato zake m'chipinda, mwachitsanzo. Asanatuluke, amathanso kupachika malaya ake pachoyikapo malaya, ngati angathe kufikako. Pa tebulo, amatha kubweretsa mbale yake ndi chikho chake cha pulasitiki patebulo kapena kukuthandizani kubweretsa mkate, botolo la madzi ... muthanso kugawana nthawi zabwino kukhitchini ndikupangitsa mwana wanu kukhala wophika pang'ono. Popanga keke ndi inu, adzakhala ndi malingaliro akuti chifukwa cha iye, banja likhoza kudya! Zingathenso kukuthandizani kuchotsa zovala kuchokera mu makina ochapira ndikupachika zinthu zing'onozing'ono monga masokosi kapena zovala zamkati pa chowumitsira. Kwa miyezi ingapo, musazengereze kumpatsa maudindo ambiri. Izi zidzamuphunzitsa kulinganiza nthawi yake ndikupeza maluso atsopano. Ndipo kumbukirani, kuphunzira uku kumatenga zaka. Choncho ndi bwino kuchita bwino usanafike msinkhu.

Siyani Mumakonda