Zamkatimu
- 1. Sangathe kuugwira mtima.
- 2. Sawerenga zakukhosi kwanu popanda mawu.
- 3. Alibe anzake
- 4. Nthawi zonse amakhala wakufa
- 5. Mawonekedwe ake amalingaliro ndi osayenera.
- 6. Amapewa anthu omwe amafunikira chithandizo chamaganizo.
- 7. Sadziwa kusonyeza chifundo
- 8. Samvetsetsa kamvekedwe ka mawu ako.
- 9. Alibe mphamvu pa liwu lake
- 10. Makanema ndi mabuku okhala ndi chiwembu chochititsa chidwi samamukhudza.
- 11. Amakhulupirira kuti kutengeka mtima ndi zomverera zimaperekedwa kukhala zofunika kwambiri.
- 12. Iye alibe chidwi ndi agalu;
Mnzako watsopano ndi wanzeru, wowerenga bwino, wophunzira. Sanganene kuti alibe nzeru. Komabe, atha kukhala ndi vuto lake m'dera lofunikanso lamayendedwe opitilira XNUMX. Sizingatheke kumanga ubale wapamtima ndi munthu wotero momwe onse awiri amatha kumvetsetsana popanda mawu. Mmene mungadziwire munthu woteroyo, anatero katswiri wa zamaganizo Ronald Riggio.
Anthu omwe ali ndi nzeru zapamwamba zamaganizo amatha kumvetsera ndikumva anansi awo, kuzindikira bwino maganizo awo, kumvetsetsa zolinga zawo, zolinga zawo ndi zokhumba zawo. Ndi munthu wotero kuti mwayi womanga ubale wozama komanso wokhazikika ndi waukulu. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, ngati mnzako maganizo nzeru ndi otsika, konzekerani kuti kudzakhala kovuta kwa inu kupeza chifundo ndi ulemu kwa inu kuchokera kumbali yake. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amamvetsera zizindikiro za 12 zomwe munthu sangathe kudzitamandira chifukwa cha nzeru zapamwamba zamaganizo.
1. Sangathe kuugwira mtima.
Anthu amene amatha kumvetsa bwino ena amakonda kulimbana ndi maganizo awo oipa. Ngati kanthu kalikonse kangakhumudwitse bwenzi lanu (msungwana) kukwiyitsa ena, ndiye kuti samakonda kulolera komanso kutha kuvomereza anthu monga momwe amachitira pamikhalidwe ina yofunika.
2. Sawerenga zakukhosi kwanu popanda mawu.
Kutha kuona ndi kutanthauzira molondola zizindikiro za dziko lathu, zomwe timapereka kwa interlocutor popanda mawu: maonekedwe a nkhope, manja, maonekedwe, ndi gawo lofunikira la nzeru zamaganizo. Ngati mnzanuyo, popanda kufotokozera kwanu, sangathe kudziwa zomwe ziri zovuta kwa inu tsopano ndipo mungafunike kusonyeza chidwi chake: mawu ofunda, kukumbatirana, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zovuta kuti mupange mgwirizano wodalirika wamaganizo ndi iye.
3. Alibe anzake
Anthu anzeru m'maganizo amalimbikitsa chikondi ndi chidaliro. Monga lamulo, akuzunguliridwa ndi abwenzi omwe amasunga nawo maubwenzi. Ngati mnzako alibe anthu ocheza nawo ndipo akudandaula kuti sakuyamikiridwa kuntchito komanso kuti sakhala ndi ubale ndi anzake, izi zimasonyezanso kuti sangathe kupereka maganizo ake.
4. Nthawi zonse amakhala wakufa
Osati kokha kutha kuwerenga maganizo a anthu ena, komanso kutha kufotokoza moona mtima nokha kumakhala chinthu chofunika kwambiri cha nzeru zamaganizo. Ngati polankhulana ndi munthu nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kuti muganizire zomwe akumva panthawiyi (makamaka ngati nthawi zambiri mumawerenga bwino maganizo a anthu ena), ndiye kuti, kukhudzidwa kwamkati sikuli mbali yamphamvu kwambiri ya interlocutor yanu.
Mawonetseredwe achisoni ndi kuwonongeka kwamkati kumawopsya anthu omwe ali ndi nzeru zochepa zamaganizo
5. Mawonekedwe ake amalingaliro ndi osayenera.
Anachita nthabwala pamaliro, m’gulu la anthu osakhala ndi maganizo oti asangalale. Amanena nkhani zomwe palibe amene amawoneka wamatsenga, ndipo omvera amapirira chifukwa cha khalidwe. Ayi, safuna kukhumudwitsa kapena kulowerera, samangomva mmene ena amawaonera.
6. Amapewa anthu omwe amafunikira chithandizo chamaganizo.
Kuwonetseredwa kwachisoni ndi kusweka kwamkati kumawopseza anthu omwe ali ndi nzeru zochepa. Iwo sadziwa mmene angakhalire ndipo amakonda kupeŵa misonkhano yoteroyo.
7. Sadziwa kusonyeza chifundo
Kaŵirikaŵiri mkhalidwe wa kupsinjika maganizo wa munthu wina suŵerengedwa ndi iwo. Ngakhale kuti pamapeto pake azindikira kuti winayo ndi woipa, sangathe kusonyeza chikondi ndi chifundo. Nthaŵi zambiri, iye samamva chosoŵa choterocho, koma ngakhale atafuna kunena chinachake, sadziwa chimene kwenikweni.
8. Samvetsetsa kamvekedwe ka mawu ako.
Timaperekanso chidziwitso cha momwe tikumvera mumtima mwathu kudzera mu kalankhulidwe kathu. Ngati wokondedwa wanu, akulankhula ndi inu pa foni ndipo osakuwonani, sangathe kukugwirani mkwiyo wanu kapena, m'malo mwake, kumverera kwachisangalalo, izi zimamuwonetsanso ngati munthu yemwe sakonda kuzindikira malingaliro anu.
9. Alibe mphamvu pa liwu lake
Nthawi zina kufotokoza mokweza komanso mokweza kwa malingaliro - zabwino kapena zoipa - kumatanthauza kuti munthu sadziwa bwino komanso akuwongolera zamkati mwake. Izi, pambuyo pake, zimakhala chisonyezero cha chifundo chochepa.
10. Makanema ndi mabuku okhala ndi chiwembu chochititsa chidwi samamukhudza.
Zojambula zomwe zimaphatikizapo chifundo nthawi zambiri zimasiya anthu oterowo kukhala opanda chidwi. Sangayerekeze kugawana zakukhosi kwanu pafilimu yomwe idakukhudzani, yomwe mudawonera limodzi. Ndipo izi zimagwiranso ntchito pamtundu uliwonse.
Anthu oterowo amanena kuti kutengeka mtima n’kovulaza ndipo kumalimbikitsa kusamvana.
11. Amakhulupirira kuti kutengeka mtima ndi zomverera zimaperekedwa kukhala zofunika kwambiri.
Anthu omwe ali ndi nzeru zochepa zamaganizo amadziwabe kuti kuthekera kwawo kumverana chisoni ndi kugwirizana maganizo ndi ena ndikotsika. Amayesa kutsutsa kufunikira kwa malingaliro mwa kulimbikitsa kufanana, luso la kulingalira ndikuchita mogwirizana ndi kulingalira kokha, monga mikhalidwe yopindulitsa kwambiri yaumunthu. Simuyenera kutsata chitsogozo chawo: kutengeka ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la maubwenzi athu, ndikofunikira kuti mupange zisankho zogwira mtima.
12. Iye alibe chidwi ndi agalu;
Galu wanu akhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha momwe nzeru za mnzako zilili. Agalu ndi amodzi mwa ziweto zokonda kucheza kwambiri, zomwe zikuwonetsa poyera malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Ngati munthu sakulingalira mkhalidwe wa chiweto chanu ndikunyalanyaza kwathunthu zizindikiro zomwe galu akupereka, ganizirani kuti ili ndi chenjezo lamtundu wina kuchokera kwa bwenzi la miyendo inayi.