Ngakhale kuti n'zosavuta kupeza ndi kutengera mwana wa mphaka, kaya kuchokera kwa bwenzi, malo ogulitsira ziweto, kapena pa intaneti, ndi udindo waukulu womwe suyenera kutengedwa mopepuka. Kupeza nthawi yophunzira zomwe mwana wa mphaka akufunikira kuti akule kukhala wamkulu wathanzi, wozungulira bwino adzakupulumutsirani nkhawa zambiri ndi zokhumudwitsa m'kupita kwanthawi.

Kusankha mphaka wanu kudziwa komwe akuchokera ndikofunikira kwambiri. Oweta abwino amatenga nawo gawo pocheza ndi mphaka akadali nawo, kuwonetsetsa kuti adzakula kukhala mphaka wamkulu wochezeka komanso wosamala. Ana amphaka amachotsedwa kwa amayi awo ndi abale awo ali ndi masabata asanu ndi anayi (osakwana miyezi iwiri), ndipo masabata ndi miyezi yawo yoyamba ya moyo ndizovuta kwambiri.

Kuyanjana kwa mphaka kumatha msanga kuposa galu, nthawi zambiri pakati pa milungu iwiri kapena isanu ndi itatu ya moyo. Panthawi imeneyi, ziyenera kusinthidwa, kuyanjana ndi masewera, ndi kusonkhezeredwa ndi chilengedwe. Ayenera kuwonetseredwa kwa nyama zina komanso kwa anthu amisinkhu yonse. Popanda izo, iwo amaopa anthu ndipo zimawavuta kukhala bwino ngati ziweto m'nyumba.

Mukangoganiza kuti muli ndi nthawi yokwanira, malo, ndi njira zopezera mphaka, ndi nthawi yokonzekera nyumba yanu. Ngakhale amphaka sasamalidwa bwino, pali zinthu zingapo zofunika zomwe amafunikira.

Bedi labwino

Ana amphaka, amanyazi kwambiri, nthawi zina amakonda kuthawira pakama wokhala ndi denga ndi makoma. Kwa mausiku angapo oyambirira zingakhale zothandiza kukhala ndi t-sheti kapena zobiriwira kuchokera ku nyumba ya obereketsa kuti azigona ndi fungo lodziwika bwino. Kuwonjezera pa kupeza zofunika zimenezi, ndi bwino kusankha malo enieni m'nyumba momwe mwana wa mphaka amatha kugona ndi kumasuka pamene akufuna kupuma kuti asavutike nawo.

Zakudya ndi madzi

Madzi ayenera kutayidwa kutali ndi chakudya chifukwa, mwachilengedwe, madzi opezeka pafupi ndi chakudya sangamwe ngati aipitsidwa. Pachifukwa ichi, amphaka ambiri amakonda kupewa mbale zamadzi ngati ali pafupi ndi chakudya chawo.

Chakudya cha mphaka

Moyenera, khalani pachiyambi pa mtundu ndi mtundu womwe woweta wapatsidwa, kuti mupewe kupweteka kwa m'mimba. Ndiye mukhoza kusintha kwa masiku angapo.

Bokosi la zinyalala za mphaka ndi zinyalala

Pali mitundu yonse ya mapangidwe a bin ndi zinyalala kunja uko, ndipo nthawi zina zimatha kutenga nthawi kuti mupeze zoyenera. Pewani machubu okhala ndi mkombero wautali (kapena malo olowera pamwamba) omwe ana amphaka angavutike kulowamo.

Burashi yofewa

Ngakhale amphaka atsitsi lalifupi angafunike kumeta ndipo ndikofunikira kuti azolowerane nawo kuyambira ali aang'ono, motero burashi yofewa ndiyogula mwanzeru.

Zoseweretsa zosankhidwa

Izi siziyenera kukhala zokongola kapena zodula, ngakhale makatoni ndi mapepala akale a chimbudzi amatha kupereka maola osangalatsa.

Mtengo wamphaka

Mwana wanu wamng'ono sangadziwe choti achite nazo poyamba, koma akamakula ndikuyamba kufufuza, akhoza kufuna kukanda. Kuti muthandizire izi ndikuteteza mipando yanu, cholembera ndichothandiza kwambiri.

Mkanda

Ngati mukufuna kutulutsa mphaka wanu akadzakula, zingakhale bwino kuti azivala kolala kuyambira ali wamng’ono kuti azolowerane nazo. Samalani, komabe, posankha mkanda womwe umatsetsereka mosavuta ngati ukhalabe wokokedwa, kupewa ngozi yowopsa.

Inshuwalansi ya umoyo

Ngakhale kuti palibe aliyense wa ife amene amakonda kuganiza za izi, amphaka amatha kuvulala kapena kudwala. Kukhala ndi inshuwaransi ya ziweto kumapereka mtendere wamumtima kuti ngati chilichonse chingachitike, mudzatha kuchiza popanda mtengo wamankhwala kukhala vuto.

Mofanana ndi ana aang’ono, ana amphaka amakonda kufufuza ndi pakamwa, ndipo m’pofunika kuonetsetsa kuti nyumba ndi malo otetezeka asanafike. Palinso zinthu zina zomwe zidzafunikire kuchotsedwa chilombo chamiyendo inayi chisanafike powonekera.

Chotsani zinthu zapoizoni ndi zoopsa

Muyenera kuchotsa zinthu zonse zoopsa zomwe zingawazinga, monga zobzala m'nyumba (makamaka maluwa), mankhwala a anthu, ndi zinthu zoyeretsera.

Ana amphaka ena amakonda kutafuna ulusi, ubweya, kapena nyali zolendala, choncho yesetsani kuti musalole zinthu zokopa zimenezi kwa miyezi ingapo yoyambirira.

Yang'anani mawindo otsegula ndi zimbudzi

Ngakhale simunazindikire, nyumba yanu mwina ili ndi njira zochepa zothawirako, monga zenera laling'ono lomwe nthawi zonse limasiyidwa lotseguka m'bafa kapena chitseko cha patio chomwe nthawi zambiri chimasungidwa m'chilimwe. Ana amphaka amathawa msanga m'malo aliwonse omwe alipo ngati atapatsidwa mwayi ndipo sangadziwe momwe angabwerere.

Ngakhale zikumveka zoseketsa, tsekani chitseko cha bafa ndikutseka zitseko za chimbudzi. "Mbale" zazikulu zamadzi zingakhale zokopa kwambiri, ndipo furball yomwe mumakonda ndi yabwino kuti musayese kusamba m'chimbudzi.

Sungani zinthu zanu zamtengo wapatali komanso zosalimba

Chilichonse chamtengo wapatali, monga chiguduli chamtengo wapatali kapena vazi lagalasi, chiyenera kuikidwa m'chipinda chosungiramo mpaka mutadziwa kuti mungakhulupirire kuti mwana wanu sangakanda, kutafuna, kapena kugwetsa zinthu. Nthawi yomwe izi zingatenge ndi yosiyana kwambiri.

Pewani kuchita mopambanitsa, ndi bwino kupeŵa kukhala ndi phwando laling’ono lolandiridwa. Ana amphaka amawopsezedwa mosavuta ndipo amatha kuchita mantha ngati anzanu onse abwera kudzakumana nawo. Kumbukirani, angochoka panyumba yokhayo yomwe akudziwapo ndipo mwina aka kanali koyamba kuti atalikirane ndi amayi, azichimwene ndi alongo awo. Chilichonse chikuwoneka ndi kununkhiza mosiyana, ndipo kwanthawi pang'ono achoka pamalo awo otonthoza.

Alekeni apume, kuwalola kuti abwere kwa inu osati kuwathamangitsa ndi kuwagwira. Ngati akusowa nthawi yokhala okha, mwina ali pabedi, apatseni mwayi umenewo. Ndibwino kuti ziweto zina ndi ana ang'onoang'ono adikire masiku angapo asanawadziwitse. Ganizirani kukhala ndi mankhwala a pheromone m'chipinda, monga Feliway, omwe angathandize kuchepetsa nkhawa zawo.

Ana amphaka amakhala odziyimira pawokha ndipo safunikira kuti agone nanu usiku (chizolowezi choyipa chomwe chingayambitse ngozi). Amatha kugona kunja kwa chipinda chanu chogona, ndipo akadali aang'ono, ayenera kutsekeredwa m'chipinda kuti asachite chilichonse chopusa pamene simukuwayang'ana.

Popeza anali kugona ndi abale awo, amasangalala kukhala ndi bedi lofunda ndi zoseŵeretsa zofewa zoti agonepo. Zingakhale zabwino kukonzekera botolo la madzi otentha kwa iwo atakulungidwa mu thaulo; onetsetsani kuti sikutentha kwambiri.

Ana amphaka ena amatha kulira usiku woyamba kapena wachiwiri atazolowera kukhala okha. Malingana ngati muwapatsa malo otetezeka ndi otentha kuti agone, adzapeza mwamsanga kuti palibe chifukwa chodandaula.

Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, poyamba muyenera kupereka chakudya chomwecho chomwe mwana wa mphaka ankadya, monga kusintha kwadzidzidzi kwa zakudya kungayambitse kusanza, kutsegula m'mimba ndi kutupa. Ngati chakudyachi ndi chakudya chokwanira chomwe mwana wa mphaka amakonda, akhoza kupitiriza. Komabe, ngati mukufuna kusintha zakudya zake, kutero pang'onopang'ono kwa masiku 5-7, kusakaniza pang'onopang'ono chakudya chatsopano ndikuchepetsa gawo la chakudya chakale tsiku lililonse.

Mutha kusankha kugwiritsa ntchito chakudya chonyowa, chowuma kapena chosakanikirana. Zakudya zonyowa ndi zabwino ku thanzi la impso ndi chikhodzodzo, pomwe zakudya zowuma ndizotsika mtengo, zosavuta kusunga, komanso zaukhondo wamano.

Madzi ayenera kusiyidwa pambali nthawi zonse ndikusinthidwa kamodzi patsiku. Ngakhale kuti ali ndi chikhulupiriro chokhazikika, ana amphaka samasowa ndipo sayenera kulandira mkaka akasiya kuyamwa.

Eni ake ambiri amasankha mphaka kuposa galu chifukwa amagwira ntchito ndipo sangathe kukhala ndi ziweto zawo tsiku lonse. Ngakhale amphaka akuluakulu amakhala odzidalira komanso odziimira okha, ana amphongo amafunika nthawi yambiri ndi chisamaliro. Ichi ndichifukwa chake zingakhale bwino kutenga nthawi pang'ono pamene mphaka wayamba kufika.

Ana amphaka amatha kusiyidwa okha kwakanthawi kochepa, koma osapitilira maola angapo. Pambuyo pake, amatha kutopa ndikuwononga, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti m'nyumba mwanu mudzapeza sofa yokhala ndi zipsera zokandapo! Akamakula, m’pamenenso angakhulupirire kuti ali okha chifukwa sadalira inuyo kuti muwathandize.

Masiku ano pali zinthu zatsopano pamsika zomwe zimakulolani kuti muziyang'anira ndi kuyankhulana ndi chiweto chanu mukakhala kutali. Zomwe zimafunika ndi kamera kapena ziwiri ndi pulogalamu pa foni yanu yam'manja.

Ana amphaka amaseweretsa modabwitsa ndipo amawakonda kuposa china chilichonse mukamakwera ndikuyamba masewera openga. Safuna zoseweretsa ndi zida zamtengo wapatali, ndipo amatha kusewera mosavuta ndi zinthu zomwe zimapezeka pakhomo, monga zonyamula katundu, mipira ya ping-pong, zingwe, ndi nthenga.

Nawa malingaliro abwino omwe satenga ndalama zambiri:

• Mwachibadwa amakonda kusaka ndi kudumpha, kotero kuwawona akutsamira cholozera cha laser kapena mbewa yamakina kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa. Ngati mugwiritsa ntchito laser pointer, nthawi zina muloze nyama yodzaza, kulola mphaka wanu kuti agwire nyama yake. Kenako apatseni chakudya chokoma kuti athe kumva kukhutitsidwa ndi kusaka "kopambana";
• Amphaka ndi ofufuza zachilengedwe, bwanji osasintha khalidweli? Bisani kibble m'mabokosi osiyanasiyana a makatoni mozungulira pabalaza kuti aphunzire kununkhiza ndi kugwira zisangalalo;
• Ponyani mpira wa ping-pong (kapena mpira uliwonse wopepuka) kuzungulira chipindacho ndikuwayang'ana pamene akuyesera kuugwira ndikuuletsa kuti usasunthe. Mutha kupeza kuti mumakonda masewerawa monga momwe amachitira.

Kaya mukukonzekera kusunga mphaka wanu wamkulu panja kapena ayi, amphaka onse osakwana miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ayenera kusungidwa m'nyumba. Izi zili choncho chifukwa alibe nzeru zopewera magalimoto ndi utali. Zilinso chifukwa chakuti sakhala otsekereza ndipo motero amakhala pachiwopsezo chotenga matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso, kuyambira miyezi inayi yokha, kutenga pakati kwa akazi.

Ngati mukufuna kuwazoloŵera kuwona ndi kununkhiza kapena ngati akuyesera kukutulukani ndikukuchititsani misala, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito hani ndikuwalola kuti aziyendayenda moyang'aniridwa ndi inu. Sikuti iyi ndi njira yabwino yowazolowera dziko lalikulu loipali, koma nthawi zambiri amayamikira mwayi wopeza mpweya wabwino ndikupeza ulendo watsopano.