Poyamba, ndikofunikira, ngati kuli kotheka kwathunthu, kuchotsa zomwe zidzakumbutsa maubwenzi akale. Izi zitha kukhala zithunzi wamba, mphatso, zinthu. Ndi bwino kuchotsa zonsezi popanda chisoni. Kupatula apo, kukopa maso nthawi zonse, zinthu zimadzutsa mayanjano omwe angakumane ndi mabala atsopano auzimu. Muyeneranso kuchotsa manambala a foni ndi kulankhula pa Intaneti (chabwino, kapena osachepera kuonetsetsa kuti nkhani yake amabwera kudutsa pang'ono momwe angathere).
Ngati n’kotheka, lekani kupita kumalo kumene munapita limodzi. Mwachitsanzo, yesetsani kuti musapite ku cafe komwe mudakhala nthawi yanu yaulere ndi kapu ya khofi; kanema komwe mumawonera makanema omwe mumakonda; paki yomwe mumakonda kuyenda madzulo, etc.
Panthawi imeneyi, mudzafunikira kwambiri chichirikizo cha banja lanu ndi mabwenzi. Choncho, musawakankhire kutali ndi inu, koma yesetsani kukankhira maganizo anu oipa kumbuyo ndipo, mwinamwake, kambiranani zomwe zinachitika, chifukwa chomwe ubale wanu ndi bwenzi lanu lakale linasweka ndipo linachititsa kuti muthe. Okondedwa anu, monga palibe wina aliyense, adzatha kumvetsera ndipo, mwinamwake, kupereka uphungu wothandiza pazochitika zamakono. Khalani ndi chidwi, mwinamwake okondedwa anu amafunikiranso thandizo lanu ndi chithandizo, kotero simungathe kuchoka ku nkhawa zanu, komanso kutenga nawo mbali m'moyo wa achibale anu.
Panthawi imeneyi ya "kudzikonda" (monga momwe ziwerengero zimasonyezera, anthu amadziimba mlandu kawiri, ngakhale ngati woyambitsa kupatukana anali mbali inayo) yesetsani kuti musadzitengere nokha, koma, m'malo mwake, onjezerani bwalo lanu. omwe mumawadziwa komanso zokonda. Inde, inde, munamvetsetsa bwino, simuyenera kugonjera ku blues ndikudya madzulo anu "masamba" pamaso pa TV, mukudzimvera chisoni. Sizikhala bwino, ndikhulupirireni. Zingakhale bwino ngati mutalowa molunjika kuntchito kapena kupeza zosangalatsa zosangalatsa.
Mukhozanso kuthera nthawi yanu yaulere ku masewera, kapena ndibwino kuti mulembetse ku kalabu yolimbitsa thupi, masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena yoga. Pano simungathe kumangokhalira nthawi yokwanira ya chiwerengero chanu ndi thanzi lanu lonse, komanso kupanga mabwenzi atsopano.
Lingaliro lalikulu lingakhale kukonza phwando la bachelorette ndi anzanu. Madzulo achimwemwe ndi aphokoso adzawuluka mosadziŵika. Kukambitsirana kwapamtima, nthabwala zambiri ndi mowa pang'ono (muyenera kusamala ndi mowa momwe mungathere, ndi bwino kuti mlingowo ukhale wochepa kwambiri) zidzakuthandizani kuti mupewe maganizo okhumudwitsa.
Mukhozanso kupita ku disco. Kusuntha kwanyimbo, malo omasuka, kusilira kuyang'ana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha - zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kuthana ndi kukhumudwa. Kuvina kudzakhala mtundu womasuka ku malingaliro oyipa.
Mukhozanso kuyesa kupita pa chibwenzi. Zochitika zosangalatsa, kukambirana kosangalatsa ndi munthu wosadziwikabe kudzakuthandizani kudzimasula nokha ku maunyolo akale ndipo, mwinamwake, kuyamba nkhani yatsopano ya chikondi.
Kusiyanasiyana m'moyo wanu "watsopano" kumatha kuyambitsidwa mopambanitsa pang'ono: kumeta kapena kudaya tsitsi lanu mumtundu womwe mwakhala mukuuganizira kwa nthawi yayitali, koma osayesa kupatsa tsitsi lanu mthunzi wotero, pitani kukagula ndikudzaza zovala zanu ndi zovala zatsopano, ndipo, ndithudi, sizingatheke kuti msungwana aliyense akhoza kukana nsapato zowonjezera zowonjezera. Phunzirani nthawi zambiri ndi kugula ndi zakudya zokoma ndi maswiti. Mukhoza kuphunzira kuphika mbale ina yachilendo, ndiyeno kukondweretsa okondedwa anu ndi izo.
Koma bwanji ngati kukonzanso kakang'ono kapangidwa m'nyumba? Mutha kupha mbalame zingapo ndi mwala umodzi nthawi imodzi. Izi, choyamba, zidzafuna khama lanu ndi nthawi, ndipo zidzalunjikitsidwanso mwa inu ndi m'malo mwako; chachiwiri, pakupanga kusintha mkati, nyumba yanu idzakhala yabwino; chachitatu, pambuyo pa zonse, mukadapanga kukonza posachedwa, ndiyeno panali chifukwa chachilendo.
Njira yabwino kwambiri ingakhale kusintha kwa maonekedwe. Mutha kupita ulendo wautali, kapena mutha kupita kunja kwa tawuni kumapeto kwa sabata (mpweya wabwino ndi chilengedwe ndi ochiritsa auzimu abwino kwambiri).
Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu yaulere mosangalatsa momwe mungathere, pitani paulendo ndi ziwonetsero zosiyanasiyana, pitani ku malaibulale, yendani m'misewu ndi m'mapaki, phunzirani kusangalala ndi zinthu zosavuta, ndipo mudzawona kuti dziko lapansi ladzaza ndi mitundu yowala ndi malingaliro, ndipo palibe. malo achisoni!