Zamkatimu
Nkosavuta kupanga mabwenzi muunyamata — tonsefe tiri m’mikhalidwe yofanana, ndi zikhumbo ndi mavuto ofanana. Koma m'kupita kwa nthawi, zoyamba zawo zimawonekera, ndipo nthawi zambiri njira zimasiyana. Mtolankhani Miriam Kirmeyer akuumirira kuti: zokonda zosiyanasiyana si chifukwa chosiya atsikana omwe kale anali abwenzi. Amapereka malangizo asanu ndi awiri okuthandizani kusunga maubwenzi pamodzi.
Moyo wauchikulire uli ndi zosintha zambiri: kusuntha, kuphunzira, ntchito, ukwati, kukhala ndi ana. Timakhala ndi nthawi yochepa yocheza ndi anzathu, maubwenzi ena amakopa chidwi chathu. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti tsopano pali zochepa zofanana ndi mabwenzi aubwana.
Sikophweka kukhala paubwenzi womwewo mukakhala ndi mikhalidwe yosiyana pa moyo, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti ubwenzi wakale watha. Ngati inu ndi anzanu muli "pa mapulaneti osiyanasiyana", mverani malangizo awa.
1. Kumbukirani chifukwa chake mudayandikira
Kukumbukira mmene ubwenzi unabadwira ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri youtalikitsira. Kambiranani za zochitika zomwe mudakumana nazo, kumbukirani nthabwala zokha zomwe mumamvetsetsa. Ngati muli patali tsopano ndipo simutha kuwonana pafupipafupi monga kale, izi zidzakufikitsani pafupi. Khalani ndi nthawi yokumbukira ndi kuseka nkhani zakale.
2. Pangani zikumbutso zatsopano
Ndizosangalatsa kukumbukira zakale, koma ubwenzi udzafota popanda zochitika zatsopano ndi zowoneka. Yesetsani kuchitira limodzi zinthu zomwe simunachitepo. Khalani ndi nthawi yabwino komanso nthawi yomweyo mudziwe zatsopano m'moyo wa mnzanu. Tsopano kuchita zinthu mwachisawawa sikumabwera mosavuta monga momwe zinalili muunyamata, choncho konzekerani misonkhano kuti isaumiridwe ndi bizinesi ndi maudindo ena.
Kuchita zinthu pamodzi kumathandiza kulimbikitsa maubwenzi, koma izi sizokwanira. Ndikofunikira kukonza zokambirana zapamtima - zimabweretsa anthu pamodzi. Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amathandiza kuti tizilankhulana, koma nthawi zambiri sitilankhulana nthawi zonse. Ndipo palibe kulemberana makalata pa intaneti komwe kungalowe m'malo mwa zokambirana zenizeni zapamtima.
Zilibe kanthu kuti mwakumana pamasom’pamaso kapena pafoni, kambiranani zomwe zikuchitika pamoyo wanu, zomwe zikukudetsani nkhawa. Khalani omasuka ndi oona mtima. Lankhulani za mavuto anu, gawani zopambana ndi ziyembekezo zamtsogolo. Khalani weniweni - izi zidzakuthandizani inu ndi mnzanu kumvetsetsana bwino.
3. Zindikirani malire
Kusowa nthawi yolankhulana si vuto lokhalo. Ubwenzi uli ndi zopinga zambiri mukamasiyana m'moyo. Mnzake wina ali wotanganidwa ndi ana, wina amapita kukachita bizinesi. Zinthu zakuthupi zimathanso kukhala zosiyana, izi zimayika zoletsa pamasewera ophatikizana.
Khalani owona ndipo musayembekezere zosatheka kwa anzanu ndi madeti. Ndiye kudzakhala kosavuta kupeza zosagwirizana - mwachitsanzo, kusankha mtundu wochepetsetsa wa zosangalatsa. Kuzindikira zofooka zanu kudzakuthandizani kupeŵa kusamvana ndi mikangano: mumakana kuitanidwa ku chakudya chamadzulo chifukwa chakuti ndalama zanu zimakhala zolimba, ndipo mnzanuyo akuganiza kuti simukufuna kumuwona. Kuchita kwanu kudzakhalanso kothandiza - perekani malingaliro pamisonkhano, koma yesani kuganizira momwe abwenzi anu alili. Adzayamikira chisamaliro chanu ndi chisamaliro chanu.
4. Konzekerani zodabwitsa
Timakonda kuganiza za ena. Akuti timadziwa momwe mnzako amachitira zinthu zinazake. Koma maganizo athu nthawi zambiri amakhala olakwika. Kulingalira kumasokoneza kuthetsa mavuto ndi kusokoneza.
Tiyerekeze kuti mnzako amalankhula za ana nthawi zonse, koma simukufuna kuyankhula za matewera ndi mizere ya sukulu ya mkaka. Mukuda nkhawa - mnzanu adzakhumudwa ngati zokambiranazo zikupita ku mutu wina. Mwina. Koma mosiyana ndizothekanso - adzakhala wokondwa kukambirana za tchuthi chanu chaposachedwa ndikuyiwala za ntchito zapakhomo kwa mphindi imodzi. Chifukwa chake musayese kusankha anzanu, yang'anani malingaliro anu.
5. Pewani Mpikisano
Nthawi ndi nthawi timadziyerekezera ndi anzathu. Koma tikakhala ndi moyo wosiyana, zimakhala zovuta kumvetsa amene anapita patsogolo. Ngati muli ndi zofunika zosiyana m'moyo, padzakhala malo omwe mungabwerere m'mbuyo. Kaduka ndi khalidwe losasangalatsa, koma ndi khalidwe lachibadwa.
Komabe, "kupikisana" kosalekeza sikuli kwabwino paubwenzi ndikuchepetsa zomwe mwakwaniritsa. Osamangoyang'ana zomwe muli kumbuyo kwa anzanu, ndipo musatengeke ndi kudzidzudzula. Kumbukirani, aliyense amakhala ndi zokwera ndi zotsika ndipo simudziwa zomwe wina akukumana nazo.
6. Sinthani kawonedwe kanu
Tsopano muli pa magawo osiyanasiyana a moyo - yesani kugwiritsa ntchito mwayiwu. Gwiritsani ntchito zomwe abwenzi anu amakumana nazo popanga zisankho pamoyo wanu. Mwina mukufuna kuyamba kukhala ndi mwamuna, kukwatiwa, kukwezedwa pantchito, kapena kukhala ndi mwana. Yang'anani mnzanu amene ali nacho kale. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuunika zomwe zidzachitike m'tsogolo ndikumvetsetsa momwe mwakonzekera kusintha.
7. Pezani zibwenzi zatsopano
N’zomveka kuti moyo wathu ukasintha, mabwenzi athu amasinthanso. Mumayesa kuluka zibwenzi zakale m'moyo watsopano ndikusunga mabwenzi - ndizabwino kwambiri. Koma bwanji osakulitsa macheza anu?
Lankhulani ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi inu malinga ndi zomwe amakonda komanso zochitika: ogwira nawo ntchito, amayi achichepere, akazi osakwatiwa. Ndi iwo, mutha kukambirana nkhani zokhudzana ndi udindo wanu. Izi zichotsa kukakamizidwa kwa atsikana akale omwe akukumana ndi zovuta zina.
Sikophweka kukhala ndi ubwenzi pamene moyo wanu uli wosiyana. Koma ndichifukwa chake ubwenzi, womwe, chifukwa cha kuleza mtima ndi kumvetsetsana, umakhala kwa zaka zambiri, ndi wofunika kwambiri.