Psychology

Zimadziwika bwino komanso zimawerengedwa m'maola: pafupifupi okhala ku Russia amagwira ntchito zochepa kuposa ku Europe, America ndi Asia. Koma iye, zikuoneka, nayenso sadziwa kupuma. Amakangana, sangathe kukhazikika, kumasuka ndipo, chifukwa chake, sangathenso kugwira ntchito ndi kudzipereka kwathunthu kwa mphamvu. Choncho, tiyeni tiyambe kuphunzira kumasuka.

Kukhala waulesi ndi kukoma ndi zosangalatsa ndi luso. Gawo la ulesi likhoza kukhala lirilonse - chinthu chachikulu ndikuti likhale lanu. Malo ang'onoang'ono otere omwe mungathe kuthawa nkhawa.

Itha kukhala mpando wapampando womwe mumakonda, sofa, bedi, chiguduli cha TV kapena chopondapo pakona ya tebulo lakukhitchini. Ndikofunikira kuti mukhale omasuka pamenepo, kuti pali penapake kuti muyike zomwe mumakonda, zomwe mumazidziwa bwino: ikani kapu, ikani magazini. Ndipo ngakhale bedi akadali malo ogona, nthawi zina mukhoza kupanga momasuka chisa kumeneko. Idyani chakudya cham'mawa, gonani, werengani, guguda ma cookie a Chingerezi ...

Koma malo apamwamba a ulesi ndi, ndithudi, sofa. Ndipo ayenera kukhala ngati inu. Konzani molingana ndi malingaliro anu achitonthozo ndi kumasuka. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, kumbukirani za mapilo, chifukwa pilo ndi "chikhalidwe" chonse, chikhalidwe chamakono pamapangidwe ndi chinthu chabwino komanso chokongola.

Munthawi yotanganidwa yogwira ntchito, kumbukirani momwe sofa yanu, bulangeti, bokosi la chokoleti pansi pa pilo zikukuyembekezerani kunyumba.

Ma pillowcases okongoletsera a ma cushions a sofa akhoza kukhala chilichonse: mitundu yowala kapena ya pastel, patchwork, zoluka, velvet, chinsalu, chojambula (chachikulu ndichakuti muyenera kukondwera kuzigwira). Ndi ngayaye, zingwe, mawonekedwe amtima, mapulo ndi masamba a oak…

Masitolo ali odzaza ndi mapilo okonzeka, komanso nsalu ndi zipangizo kuti mupange pillowcases nokha. Chitani kamodzi - mudzapumula kwa nthawi yayitali. Payenera kukhala mapilo ambiri pa sofa. Malinga ndi kukoma kwanu, ndithudi, koma, mulimonse, oposa awiri. Ndipotu, ngati muli waulesi kuti mupindule ndi bizinesi yanu, ndiye kuti muyenera kugona pansi ndi mapilo, choyamba, pansi pa mutu wanu, ndipo kachiwiri, pansi pa mapazi anu. Miyendo iyenera kukwezedwa, pokhapokha atapumula kwathunthu.

Ena mwa mapilo amatha kusinthidwa ndi zoseweretsa zofewa. Zimbalangondo, agalu ndi nyama zina n'zosangalatsa kukhudza, kugwira m'manja, sitiroko osati ana. Lolani kuti mukhale ndi chidole chanu, chofewa kwambiri chomwe mungathe kuchiyika pansi pa mutu wanu, pansi pa mikono yanu, pansi pa mawondo anu, chomwe chingakuthandizeni kumasuka.

Mwa njira, amayi akubwera kwambiri kumasitolo ogulitsa zidole omwe amagula zidole, nkhumba zobiriwira, mbale zoseketsa ndi zinthu zina osati ana, koma okha. Ndipo iwo akulondola mwamtheradi.

Mwa njira, mabanja ayenera kudziwa kuti gawo ili ndi lodziyimira pawokha ndipo litha kutengedwa ndi chilolezo chanu.

Chisamaliro chapadera chimayenera kukhala chopingasa, chomwe chiyenera kuikidwa molunjika pafupi ndi sofa kapena armchair. Ikhoza kukhala tebulo laling'ono (mwachitsanzo, mafoni), tray kapena mpando wawung'ono wamatabwa.

Njira yosavuta komanso yotsika mtengo kwambiri yokonzekera gawo lanu ndikutenga benchi wamba yamatabwa, kupenta momwe mukufunira, kuyikapo kapu yokongola, mbale yokhala ndi malalanje odulidwa, apulo, maswiti, makeke ndikukhala pansi. kuti muwone mndandanda womwe mumakonda kapena maphunziro okhudza mbiri ya Middle Ages. Kapena kuwerenga buku kapena magazini.

Mutha kunyamula benchi iyi kapena tebulo kuti mupumule ndi inu kuzungulira nyumbayo. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti, ngakhale kukhala pansi (pa rug, pilo), mumamva kuti muli kunyumba, otetezeka. Kumene mungathe komanso muyenera kumasuka.

Munthawi yantchito yotanganidwa, kumbukirani momwe kunyumba kwanu sofa, bulangeti, bokosi la chokoleti pansi pa pilo ndi kapu ya khofi zikukuyembekezerani kunyumba. Ndiyeno tsiku lovuta kwambiri lidzadutsa osati mofulumira, komanso mogwira mtima.

Mwa njira, mabanja ayenera kudziwa kuti gawo ili ndi lodziyimira pawokha ndipo litha kutengedwa ndi chilolezo chanu. Ndipo nthawi yopuma yanu ikhale yopatulika kwa iwo. Ndikudziwa mabanja omwe, pambuyo pa mawu akuti "mayi ayenera kupuma" kapena "Sveta watopa," "ola labata" limabwera kwa mkazi, pomwe samapeza mafunso, samamukoka. Ndipo ngati iwo adutsa, ndiye pa tiptoe. Ndipo m’mabanja otere m’pamene mkazi amakhala wosangalala komanso wamphamvu.

Kukhala ndi malo abwino opumula ndikofunikira, koma kuti muphunzire kumasuka kwathunthu, izi sizokwanira. Kuzama kwa kumizidwa mu chikhalidwe chabata ndi ulesi kumadalira momwe mumalolera mkati kuti mupumule. Kodi mumaona kuti nthawi zina muli ndi ufulu wochita chilichonse?

Ndimagwira ntchito ndi zitsimikizo ndipo ndimakonda iyi: "Pamene ndili waulesi, moyo wokha umandithetsera mavuto anga" (mukhoza kulemba kapena kudziwuza nokha nthawi zambiri). Zimathandiza kuthana ndi liwongo, zomwe sizimalola amayi athu kukhala aulesi kwathunthu. Koma uwu ndi mutu wa zokambirana zosiyana.

Siyani Mumakonda