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Momwe mungakondere mwana wanu; ndimadana ndi ana anga
A reader of healthy-food-near-me.com wrote a frank letter to the editor. The woman is sure that many mothers share her point of view and live the same way, they just do not speak about it openly.
“N’chizoloŵezi chake kulankhula za ana anu mwamantha, mofunitsitsa ndiponso mwachikondi chosatha. Bwanji ngati simukonda mwana wanu? Ayi. Simutopa nazo, ndipo iyi si "nthawi yochepa". Simumamukonda basi, nthawi. Tsoka ilo, ine ndekha ndidatha kuvomereza izi patatha zaka 10 kuchokera pamene mwana wanga wamkazi anabadwa. Poyamba ndinkaganiza kuti maganizo oipa amayamba chifukwa cha mimba yovuta, kenako ndi kubereka kovuta, ndiyeno chifukwa cha kugona usiku ndi matenda osatha a mwanayo, koma kenako ndinazindikira kuti zonsezi zinali chifukwa cha kusowa chikondi kwa iye. Mwina zomwe ndakumana nazo zidzakhala zosangalatsa komanso zothandiza kwa wina, kotero ndikuwuzani zonse moona mtima, "Natalya anatilembera.
“Sitinakhale nthawi yaitali ndi bambo omubala mwana wathu wamkazi (tikhululukireni mawuwa). Ndi corny kuti sanagwirizane wina ndi mzake. Panali chikondi chowala ndipo, chifukwa chake, mimba, ndiyeno - kukhumudwa kowawa ndi kulekana. Chilichonse chokhudza mwamuna wanga wamba chinandikwiyitsa: momwe amadyera ndi kutsuka mano, momwe amanunkhira komanso mawu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito, momwe amatsuka makutu ake ndi thonje komanso amamwaza masokosi mnyumba ... ndi mpumulo, kenako ndidayamba chilichonse kuti ndiziwone mwa mwana wanga. Iye anachita chimodzimodzi! Ndipo ngakhale m'mphuno mosalekeza kutola ngati iye! Ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndikawona, sindinathe kukana, kunena kuti: "Monga apapa!" kapena “Ndinatenga zinthu zonse zoipa kwa atate wanga.” Ndipo, ndithudi, iye anachita izo ndi mkwiyo. Nanga bwanji, ngati tsoka, ngati monyodola, lidayika makhalidwe onse oipa a mwamuna wanga wolephera mwa mwana wanga wakhanda?!
Chimbudzi chosatha ndi kulira koopsa usiku kumabweretsa munthu wina kuti agwire
Mwana wanga wamkazi atabadwa, sindikukumbukira nthawi zowala komanso zosangalatsa. Mwinamwake, iwo anali kokha pamene achibale anandilola kuchoka kunyumba kuti andipatse mwayi woyenda ndi kukhala ndekha. Aliyense ankaganiza kuti ndinali ndi vuto la maganizo pambuyo pobereka ndipo anayesa kundithandiza mwanjira ina. Nthaŵi ina ndinapita kunyanja kwa mlungu umodzi. POPANDA Mwana wamkazi. Koma nditabwerako, sizinali zophweka. Chimbudzi chosatha ndi kufuula koopsa usiku kumabweretsa munthu wina, ndipo mwana wamkazi nthawi zambiri ankalira. Tsopano m'mimba imapweteka, mano amadulidwa, ndiye wonyowa amagona. Amatero kwa aliyense, koma kwa ine zinkawoneka kuti mwana wanga amakhala wosasangalala nthawi zonse. Pambuyo pake, dokotalayo ananena kuti mwana wake wamkazi analidi ndi vuto la minyewa ya m’mitsempha, n’chifukwa chake samagona bwino, amanjenjemera komanso akumwetulira pang’ono.
Sindinkafuna kunyamula mwana wanga m’manja mwanga, kukhala naye nthawi yambiri, ngakhalenso kungomugwira. Kuti mumvetse, sindine wotsutsana ndi anthu kapena "mayi wa cuckoo", ndipo m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku mwana wanga wamkazi anali ndi zonse zomwe amafunikira. Panali chikondi chokha kumbali yanga. Komabe, ndidazibisa mosamala ...
Kenako adasokoneza ubale wanga
Pamene Eva anali ndi zaka zinayi, ndinali ndi mwamuna. Anali wachikondi, wokoma mtima komanso wosamala, ndipo ndinamvetsetsa kuti mzere weniweni wa anthu osakwatiwa ndi osudzulana tsopano ukupanga amuna oterowo, kotero ndinayesa kumukopa ndikumuzungulira mosamala momwe ndingathere. Sindinamuuze za mwana wanga, poganiza kuti ndidzamuuza mtsogolo. Zonse zidayenda bwino mpaka munthu wanga adadzipereka kuti ndipite naye kutchuthi lalitali. + XNUMX Nthawi yomweyo mwana wamkaziyo anagwa paphiri lalikulu ndipo nthawi yomweyo anathyoledwa mikwingwirima iwiri. Sizinafunikire chithandizo chokha, koma kuchipatala. Agogo anga anakana kupita kuchipatala, ndipo ndinayenera kumuuza mwamuna wanga zonse. Malingana ndi iye, adadabwa kuti, monga mayi, ndikubisa mwana wanga ndipo ndikufuna kumusiya kwa nthawi yaitali ndi "amalume achilendo". Zitatero, bamboyo anatsekereza nambala yanga n’kuthawa yekha. Wina anganene kuti Eva alibe mlandu pa izi, koma nthawi zina zimawoneka kwa ine kuti ali ndi malingaliro achisanu ndi chimodzi pamene ndingathe kumusiya ku moyo wina (kukwatiwa, kupita ku bizinesi, ndi zina zotero) ndikudwala mwadala, atavulala, kapena akuyamba kutulutsa mawu kuti andikwiye!
Wachinyamata wopsa mtima
Panopa Eva ndi wachinyamata. Amapita kusukulu, ndipo ali ndi zonse zomwe ana amsinkhu uwu amalota. Kangapo tinkapita kunyanja ndi mwana wanga wamkazi (madokotala adamupangira mpweya wa m'nyanja). Ndinalibe chikondi. Udindo - inde. Chidwi ndi zochitika zake ndizotheka. Koma si chikondi. Komanso, kwa zaka zambiri, pakhala pali mavuto ambiri ndi mwana wanga wamkazi. Pokhapokha, zovuta zosatha ndi maphunziro ndi kulakalaka kwamisala kwa intaneti (atha kukhala pamenepo kwa maola ambiri) zawonjezera kumunthu wosayanjana. Ndinayesera kulankhula naye - ndizopanda pake. Amatseka ndipo amakhala chete. Ndinapita kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo (ndekha ndi mwana wanga wamkazi) - sizinathandize. Ndiye ndinangoganiza zosiya momwe zilili.
Ndipo tsopano - chinthu chachikulu. To dot the i's ndipo osamva kuchokera kwa owerenga kuti sindingathe kukonda aliyense. Posachedwa ndazindikira kuti ndili ndi pakati. Ndipo chinali chisangalalo chenicheni !!! Tsopano ndinazindikira kuti ndinali wokonzekadi ndipo sindinaope kalikonse. Ndipo uwu ndi umayi wozindikira, ndipo ndidzakhala ndi mwana wofunika kwambiri, yemwe ndinamufunsa mwachinsinsi akuluakulu apamwamba. Ndipo iwo anamva. Ndipo adanditumiziranso mtsikana, ndipo sindimabisa kuti ndimamukonda kale kosatha. Ubale wachiwiri, ngakhale kuyambira tsiku loyamba, ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi woyamba. Ndipo ngakhale toxicosis yowopsya imakhumudwitsa ndi chinthu chimodzi chokha - kodi chidzavulaza mwana wamkazi wamtsogolo? Inde. Zadziwika kale kuti ndidzakhalanso ndi mtsikana. Izi zidzachitika m'miyezi isanu yokha, koma ndimasankha kale zovala ting'onoting'ono, zoseweretsa zokongola komanso zokwera mtengo kwambiri komanso zomasuka komanso zogona. Ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimawona mwana wanga m'maloto. Amawoneka ngati blonde ndi blonde. Patsogolo pa mafunso, ndinena kuti inenso sindinayambe kukhalira limodzi ndi bambo wa mwana wanga wachiwiri, koma zilibe kanthu ngati wandisiya kale chinthu chofunika kwambiri pamoyo. Mwana wokondedwa! “