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1. Muyenera kumupulumutsa nthawi zonse
Amamwaza zinthu ndikumwaza ndalama: muyenera kusonkhanitsa masokosi kuchokera m'nyumba zonse ndikulipira ngongole zake. Pamene ali ndi mavuto ndi anzake kapena abwenzi (zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse), ndi inu, monga Chip ndi Dale, omwe amathamangira kukapulumutsa. Ngati munthu sanakhale wamkulu, amaphunzira kusamutsa ntchito zake mwaluso kwa omwe ali pafupi naye.
Izi zitha kuchitika mosavutikira, koma ndikofunikira kuganizira chifukwa chake mwadzidzidzi munakhala nanny kwa mwamuna wanu.
2. Kukambitsirana za ukwati ndi ana kumamuchititsa mantha
Patapita nthawi, mwachibadwa mumayamba kukonzekera zam'tsogolo. Koma powatchula, mukuwona kuti wosankhidwayo akuyamba kuchita mantha ndipo akuyesera kuti achoke pa zokambiranazo. Nthawi ina mumangoseka zosintha ana matewera. “Pamene tidzakhala ndi ana, ndidzakuikirani izi,” mukutero. Koma wokondedwa wanu sakhala ndi nthabwala, komanso amamva kufunikira koyenda ndi abwenzi.
Ngati patapita miyezi ingapo inu simunapite patsogolo kulankhula za olowa tsogolo, n'kutheka kuti mwakumana ndi «infantil». Khalidwe lake ndi lopanda nzeru: pambuyo pake, kuyankhula za tsogolo palokha sizikutanthauza kuti mwajambula kale mpaka mphindi imodzi, ndipo sikukukakamizani kuchita chilichonse. Muli ndi ufulu wokambirana za chiyembekezo cha ubale wanu ndi okondedwa wanu kuti mupange mgwirizano wa momwe tsogolo lidzakhalire. Koma sizikopa amuna akhanda, koma zimawaopseza.
3. Mumadandaula nthawi zonse
Mumazindikira kuti mumangomudzudzula mosalekeza, koma simungasiye. Mumaona kuti ngati simum’kumbutsa ntchito zake, sangachite kalikonse. Mnzako amakugwetsa pansi ndikukhumudwitsa, mawu ake sangadalirike. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, monga makolo a ana aang'ono, zodandaula zanu sizigwira ntchito ndipo zimakhala chifukwa cha zifukwa: chabwino, kodi inu, wobala, mudzasiya liti kumuwona?
4. Amapewa nkhani zazikulu
Pamene simukung’ung’udza ndi kuyesa kukambirana naye za chilondacho modekha, iye amaseka, kusintha nkhaniyo, kapena kutembenukira ku foni. Koposa zonse, iye sakonda ziwonetsero ndipo achita zonse zotheka kuti izi zisachitike. Angakhale ndi maganizo oipa kapena mutu. Zotsatira zake, zomwe zikukudetsani nkhawa mudzapita kumbuyo.
5. Amawonetsa zokonda zakusukulu ndi machitidwe
Akamakumana ndi anzake, amakhala ngati wachinyamata. Sadziwa kumwa konse, samasamala kusuta udzu, amakonda nthabwala zothandiza komanso nthabwala pansi pa lamba. Chitsiru sichimamusiya pafupi ndi inu, ndipo mumachita manyazi kuti simukuthanso kuyamikira chisangalalo chake.
Masiku ano "Peter Pans" sindikudziwa momwe angayankhulire ndi amayi akuluakulu. Amachita manyazi chifukwa chogwirizana kwambiri, ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito khalidwe lopusa ngati chitetezo. Mzanuyo akamakhala khanda, m’pamenenso mumachita zinthu ngati mayi ndipo mumamva kusasangalala chifukwa chakuti pa awiriwa ndinu nokha amene mumaganiza bwino.