Zamkatimu
Kuyamwitsa munthu wina ku conflictogens ndi ntchito yolenga, osati yophweka. Mutha kukwiyitsidwa ndi ma conflictogens mu adilesi yanu, koma ngati mutayamba kuwonetsa munthu ku zotsutsana zake ndikumuphunzitsa kulumikizana kwa syntonic motsutsana ndi chifuniro chake, mwina inu nokha mudzakhala munthu wotsutsana kwambiri.
Mipikisano yowopsya kwambiri ndi chizindikiro kwa anthu ena a mikangano yawo
Kuyamwitsa munthu wina ku conflictogens - apa mutha kusiyanitsa pakati pa ntchito zosiyanasiyana: kaya kumuletsa kuyamwa konse kuti asalankhule ndi aliyense wotero, chinthu china ndikuti samalumikizana ndi inu panokha. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, n’chinthu china kuyamwitsa alendo, chinanso kuyamwitsa okondedwa athu, pamene kuyamwitsa ana athu ndi china osati kuyamwa makolo athu.
Momwe mungayamwitse abwenzi ndi achibale ku mikangano
Njira yosavuta komanso yodalirika yochotsera abwenzi ndi achibale kuchokera kumagulu otsutsana ndikutembenukira kwa iwo kuti akuthandizeni, kuwafunsa kuti akutsatireni, chifukwa mukufuna kuchotsa zotsutsana. Ngati muli ndi ubale wabwino, ngati bizinesi siili yovuta, yosangalatsa komanso yopindulitsa - idzayamba kuchita, ndipo izi zidzatsimikiziranso kuti chinthu chachikulu - chidwi chawo chidzakopeka pamutuwu. Mwadzidzidzi, amayamba kudziyang'anira okha, ndipo pang'onopang'ono kalankhulidwe kawo kamakhala koyera komanso koyera.
Momwe mungayamwitse alendo kuchokera ku conflictogens mu adilesi yanu
Pali nthawi zina zomwe zimakhala zogwira mtima kuwonetsa zotsutsana mu adilesi yathu kwa munthu. Mwachionekere adzatimva ndipo izi zidzakhala ndi zotsatirapo zake. Ndipo pali nthawi zina pomwe kumuwuza za mikangano yake sikungapereke chilichonse koma kukangana ndi zovuta mu ubale. Choncho:
Nthawi yomweyo pamene munthu analola conflictogen mu adiresi yathu.
- Iyi ndi nthawi yothandiza kwambiri. Apa mutha kuyima, kuyimitsa. Yang'anani pa munthuyo. Bwerezerani mokweza zomwe zanenedwa, ngati kuti mukuyesa zomwe zanenedwa, ndikumvetsera zomwe zanenedwa: "Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti izi ndizosiyana kwambiri ... (mwankhanza)" - Ndipo mutha kuyankha mokoma mtima: "Ndikuganiza kuti mapangidwe otere ndi osayenera. fomu yolumikizirana ndi inu «. Koma kukanikiza, kufunafuna mgwirizano ndi kupepesa pano sikungakhale kothandiza: mutha kuthamangira kukana, mafotokozedwe, zotsutsa, ndi zina zotero, zomwe zimasokoneza mphindi yogwira ntchito. Ndi bwino kumwetulira, kuyang'ananso mosamala ndikupitiriza kukambirana.
Mphindi zochepa pambuyo poti ma conflictogens adafika, mudakumana nawo ndikuzindikira kuti zinali zowawa komanso zonyoza.
- Nthawi yatsoka, yosakwanira. Muli kale m'mphepete, ndipo mnzanuyo wasiya kale.
M'maola ochepa kapena tsiku lina, ngati n'kotheka.
- Nthawi yabwino yokambirana, koma muyenera kuigwiritsa ntchito modekha komanso popanda chokhumudwitsa.
Zokhumba zamtsogolo:
Nthawi yotsatira munthu amabwera kwa inu ndi pempho kapena chidwi (ntchito) kwa iye, ndipo akufuna kukambirana nanu.
- Nthawi yabwino! Ndinu okondwa kukambirana zomwe akufuna, koma kumbutsani kuti panali nthawi zomvetsa chisoni pazokambirana nthawi yatha, ndipo funsani zitsimikizo kuti nthawi ino kulumikizana kudzakhala kolondola.
Womasulira wa Intergalactic
Pali zilankhulo zosiyanasiyana zapadziko lonse lapansi padziko lathu lapansi. Kuwonjezera pa kusiyana kwa zinenero, palinso njira zolankhulirana zosiyanasiyana. Anthu amatha kuyankhula: modekha komanso moletsa, mokwiya komanso mosangalala, mokakamiza komanso molimba mtima. Wina amalankhula mwakachetechete, ndipo wina mokweza, modzidzimutsa komanso momveka bwino. Njira zolankhulirana zimakhala zaulemu, zonyoza, zoseweretsa, zozama, zokwiyitsa komanso zachifundo. Mawu omwe anthu amalankhula nawo amathanso kukhala osiyana.
Mwachitsanzo: mwanayo akuzungulira pa chakudya chamadzulo ndikuyankhula mokweza. Nanga ndimuuze bwanji kuti akhazikike mtima pansi?
— Chonde osalankhula patebulo;
— Siyani kulankhula msanga
— Khalani chete tsopano;
Wonena mawu adzakhala wopanda mphindi imodzi. Aliyense amene atchula mawu mokweza sadzalandira ngakhale compote;
- Tseka pakamwa pako msanga;
- Siyani kulankhula;
Kapena choyipa, "Khalani chete."
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