Psychology

Diana Shurygina wazaka 17 anakhala chandamale cha kuchitiridwa zachipongwe ataneneza bwenzi lake la kugwiriridwa chigololo. Ogwiritsa ntchito ma social media amagawidwa m'misasa iwiri. Ena anayamba kuthandiza mwachangu mtsikanayo, ena - mnyamatayo. Wolemba nkhani Arina Kholina akufotokoza chifukwa chake nkhaniyi idachititsa chidwi chotere komanso chifukwa chake anthu amakonda kuwonetsa nkhanza.

Wozunzidwayo ali ndi mlandu nthaŵi zonse. Mkazi ayenera kukhala wodzichepetsa. Mkazi woledzera amakumana ndi mavuto. Kugwiriridwa - kukwiya. "Hule" sichisoni.

zikhulupiriro zonse zodziwika bwino izi zidanenedwa ndi omwe amakhulupirira kuti Diana Shurygina wazaka 17 ndi "khungu" lodzikonda lomwe adabweretsa Sergei Semenov wazaka 21 pansi pa nkhaniyi. Diana adapita ndi Sergei (ndi abwenzi) kunja kwa tawuni, kupita ku kanyumba komwe adamugwirira. Kugwiriridwa kwatsimikiziridwa kukhoti.

Koma intaneti imatsutsana nazo - Diana savala choncho, sachita zinthu zotere, samachita choncho. “Kodi ankaganiza chiyani? intaneti ikufunsa. "Ndinapita kwinakwake ndi bambo, ndikumwa mowa wamphamvu." Intaneti ikukambirana mozama za vodka yomwe mtsikanayo adamwa. Ndilo funso lotsimikizika, sichoncho? Ndinamwa pang'ono - chabwino, chabwino. Zambiri - slut, choncho amafunikira.

Nkhaniyi, moona mtima, monga m'mafilimu a Lars von Trier. Amakonda khamu la anthu okhumudwa, lomwe limasankha wozunzidwa ndikumuwononga. Anthu amafunikira nsembe. Gulu likufunika «afiti».

Chaka chapitacho, Brock Stoker, wophunzira wa Stanford, adagwiririra mtsikana yemwe adaledzera ndikugwa penapake pa kapinga. “Mwana wanga sangapite kundende chifukwa cha zochita zomwe zinatenga mphindi 20 zokha,” anatero atate wa mnyamatayo.

Makolo Sergei Semenov amakhulupirira kuti Diana anathyola moyo wake. "Mwana wanga walangidwa kale," adatero abambo ake a Brock. Tsogolo lake silidzakhala lomwe ankalilakalaka. Wathamangitsidwa ku Stanford, wakhumudwa, samwetulira, alibe chilakolako. "

Stoker anapatsidwa nthawi yochepa. Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Chonyozekacho chinali choyipa chifukwa cha izi, koma adatuluka ndi chilango cha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi.

Chowonadi chowawa ndi chakuti anthu amakonda kuwonetsa nkhanza. Inde, si onse, ndithudi. Koma ambiri amakonda chiwawa. Osati pa inu nokha. Osati mwa ife tokha. Ndipo kutali, kochititsa chidwi

Sosaite, tiyeni tikhale oona mtima, timalolera kwambiri anthu ochita zachiwerewere. “Chabwino, chiyani? amatsutsana. - Kodi ndi zovuta kwa iye? Mnyamatayo anavutika, ndipo ngati akanamasuka konse, ndiye kuti adzalandira chisangalalo. Akuwonekabe ngati hule. "

Anthu nthawi zambiri amakhala ochezeka kwa anthu omwe amachitira nkhanza akazi. Kim Kardashian anabedwa, kumangidwa, kuopsezedwa ndi mfuti, kuopa theka la imfa. Ndipo intaneti imati: panalibe chilichonse chodzitamandira ndi zodzikongoletsera zanu pa Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia). Anafunsa. Kapena zonse ndi PR. Nanga bwanji ngati Kanye West adaberedwa? Kapena timakonda ndani? Tom Hiddleston. Pali chidaliro chakuti iwo angamumvere chisoni chifukwa chakuti iye si mkazi.

Chowonadi chowawa ndi chakuti anthu amakonda kuwonetsa nkhanza. Inde, si onse, ndithudi. Koma ambiri amakonda chiwawa. Osati pa inu nokha. Osati mwa ife tokha. Ndipo kotero, kutali, mochititsa chidwi.

Nkhanza kwa amayi zimawonedwa ndi ambiri ngati chinthu chogonana. Ayi, sakuganiza choncho nkomwe. Iwo amaganiza kuti "ali ndi mlandu" ndi zina zopulumutsa zampatuko. Koma kwenikweni, amasangalala ndi lingaliro lakuti "hule lidamupeza." Rocco Sifreddi akuwombera ngati zolaula wamba, osati kwa okonda BDSM, aliyense amawonera. Koma izi ndi zolaula zachiwawa, ndipo ochita zisudzo amavulala kwenikweni kumeneko.

Koma chodabwitsa ichi chikuwonedwa ndi mamiliyoni. Ndi chifukwa chakuti amuna amafuna kuchita nkhanza. Iyi ndi fiti yawo yogonana ya makolo akale. Akazi omwe amalekerera amuna oterowo amakhala ankhanza kwambiri kwa mtundu wawo, kwa iwo omwe amayesa kupandukira dongosolo.

Wozunzidwa wamkazi nthawi zonse amakhala kumbali ya wozunza. "Sakumvetsetsa." Iye amene anapanduka, iye ndi wachinyengo, amakayikira malingaliro onse awa. Ndiye? Timamuda

N’zomvetsa chisoni kuti padziko lonse pali amuna ambiri osimidwa, osasangalala, okwiya amene kugonana ndi chiwawa n’zofanana. Ndipo pali amayi ambiri omwe sadziwa dongosolo lina, omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti ubale pakati pa abwenzi ndi utsogoleri, nkhanza ndi manyazi.

Kwa amuna otere, mkazi wogonana amakhala wozunzidwa nthawi zonse, chifukwa sakhulupirira kuti mkazi amawafunadi. Ndipo mkazi wozunzidwa nthawi zonse amakhala kumbali ya wozunza. "Sakumvetsetsa." Iye amene anapanduka, iye ndi wachinyengo, amakayikira malingaliro onse awa. Ndiye? Timamuda.

Ndizodabwitsa mukazindikira kuti ndi azimayi angati omwe amakhala ndi ma sadists obisika (osati choncho). Ndi akazi angati amaona «chilango» kukhala chosapeŵeka. Kumlingo umodzi kapena imzake, pafupifupi aliyense ali nacho.

Ndizomvetsa chisoni kwa Diana Shurygin, koma ndi heroine, pafupifupi Joan wa Arc, yemwe adapangitsa aliyense kusonyeza zenizeni zake. Palibe ziwerengero zomwe zingachite zimenezo. Pakalipano, chigamulocho ndi chomvetsa chisoni - anthu akudwala kwambiri chifukwa chomanga nyumba. Pafupifupi 1:3 mokomera zachiwawa. Koma gawo ili ndilofunikanso. Akuti pali mayendedwe. Ndipo pali anthu omwe amadziwa motsimikiza kuti wozunzidwayo amakhala wolondola nthawi zonse. Iye alibe mlandu uliwonse. Ndipo sipangakhale lingaliro lina.

Siyani Mumakonda