Zamkatimu
Mukudziwa, mwana wanu amakutengerani nthawi zonse ! Kaya ndi Alizée amene amatsatira Atate ake ndi makina ake otchetcha udzu kapena Joshua amene amauza mng’ono wake amene akulira kuti: “Wokondedwa wanga, zikhala bwino, Joshua ali pano, ukufuna kuyamwitsa?” Mwana wanu wamng'ono amaberekanso khalidwe lanu lililonse. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani amafunitsitsa kukutsanzilani conco? Izi zimayamba atangotha kuwongolera zochita zake mwadala: kunena moni kapena moni, mwachitsanzo. Pafupifupi miyezi 18, gawo lamasewera ophiphiritsa limayamba. Pamsinkhu uwu, mwanayo amangoganiza za chinthu chimodzi: sinthaninso zomwe akuwona ndi zomwe amalemba, kaya ndi zoseweretsa, zoseweretsa kapena sewero, nthawi yonseyi akusangalala, inde!
Luso la mwana ngati wotsanzira
Kale kwambiri asanayambe sukulu, mwana wanu akugwira ntchito ubongo wake. Amaona gulu lake ndi chidwi chachikulu, ndipo kuphunzira kwake kumayamba. Kumayambiriro, amakopera zochita zomwe zimachitidwa pa iye, monga kuvala, kudyetsa, kuchapa. Kenako amatengera momwe mumatengera masewero ake, kuwatengera chimodzimodzi, ndipo potsiriza, amabwereza zochitika zomwe amaziwona mozungulira iye. Mwakutero, amawagwira, amawamvetsetsa, ndipo pang’onopang’ono amaphatikiza mfundo. Choncho mwana wanu amayesa kufufuza kuti aone ngati wamvetsa zimene waona. Ndipo ndi kudzera mu sewero kuti atengere zochitika zonsezi mapulojekiti okhazikika omwe amakhalapo.
Inu makolo ndinu mtundu wa chitsanzo, monga mmene azichimwene ake angachitire. Ngwazi zamakatuni komanso makamaka nkhani zankhani ndizofotokozeranso kwambiri komanso injini zotsanzira. Umu ndi momwe mwana wanu adzalimbikitsidwira ndipo pang'onopang'ono adzazindikira kuti ndi ndani. Adzayesa kutengera zomwe amawona akuchita kunyumba, kupaki, kumalo ophikira buledi… Choncho muli ndi kuwala kobiriwira kuti mubweretse masewera kuchipinda chake, zomwe zingamuthandize kuyika zomwe angawone.
Khalani okonzekanso kuwona milomo yanu ikutha mwadzidzidzi… kungoyipeza mubokosi lachidole la kamtsikana kako kokondeka, kumwetulira kochokera khutu mpaka khutu. Momwemonso, mwana wanu wamng'ono ayamba kugudubuza galimoto zake zoseweretsa mumsewu wanu, kutengera ndemanga za abambo ake (kapena a Noddy). Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, akhozanso kuphika bulangete lake, kapena ayironi, monga momwe amachitira amayi ake. Pa nthawi imeneyo, chofunika ndi kuyesa, pali zinthu zambiri zatsopano!
Kufunika kosewera masewero
Mwana wanu ndi wosewera yemwe amatha kuchita mbali zonse za moyo popanda malire a jenda kapena chikhalidwe. Kuyang'ana kumamupangitsa iye kukhala ndi chidwi chofuna kuwonetsa zonse zomwe zimabwera m'munda wake wamasomphenya komanso zomwe zimadzutsa chidwi chake. Kutsanzira kudzamulolanso kutero kumvetsetsa maubwenzi omwe angakhalepo pakati pa anthu, ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana a anthu: mbuye, apolisi, namwino, ndi zina zotero. Kuti mumuthandize pakuchita izi, musazengereze kuchulukitsa masewero, popanda kutsutsa zosankha zake.
Chofunda chamwana: chotulukira bwino
Potsanzira, palinso kutengeka! Mwana wanu adzachita nawo masewera ake kuti ayese kupanga zomwe angakhale akumva. Ndipotu amafunikirakuphatikiza zabwino ndi zoletsedwa, zomwe zimamusangalatsa kapena ayi ndipo chifukwa cha izi, ayenera kuyambiranso. Ngati wakumbatira bulangeti lake, ndichifukwa choti amakonda mukamamukumbatira, zimamukumbutsa nthawi yabwino. Ngati amadzudzula chidole chake, ndiko kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake mudamukalipira dzulo lake, komanso kudziwa zomwe angakwanitse kapena sangachite. Masewerawa ndi abwino kwambiri, chifukwa zimamulola kuti alowetse zoletsedwazo, kaya zidole, Lego, masewera a dinette, komanso masewera ochita masewera. Zowonadi, mimes ndi zobisika ndi gawo lalikulu la zosangalatsa kwa iwo: kadzidzi, uwu ndi mwayi wosintha umunthu wawo!
Nkhani zomwe mumamuuza komanso zojambulazo zimamulimbikitsa kwambiri. Konzekerani kumva msungwana wanu akudzitengera akorona, ndodo zamatsenga ndi madiresi achifumu "monga Kukongola Kogona" kwa inu. Ana aang'ono amakonda kuthera maola akusamalira chidole chawo, chofunda chawo, kunena ziganizo modabwitsa zofanana ndi zanu ndikubwereza miyambo yomwe amakumana nayo tsiku ndi tsiku. Zonsezi ndi mbali ya njira yotsanzira, cholinga chake sichinthu china koma kudzimanga pang'onopang'ono, podzisiyanitsa ndi wina.