Julia Gippenreiter: buku latsopano lonena za psychology kwa ana

Dzina la Yulia Borisovna Gippenreiter ayenera kuti anamva kwa kholo lililonse. Ngakhale munthu amene sanachitepo chidwi ndi mabuku okhudza maganizo a ana ndi wodziwika bwino kwambiri. Yulia Borisovna ndi pulofesa ku Moscow State University, okhazikika mu psychology yabanja, mapulogalamu a neurolinguistic, psychology of perception ndi chidwi. Iye ali ndi chiwerengero chodabwitsa cha zofalitsa, mapepala oposa 75 a sayansi.

Tsopano gulu lolembera la Vremena (ACT) latulutsa buku latsopano la Yulia Gippenreiter, loperekedwa kwa maganizo a ana, "Good and His Friends". Bukuli silinalembedwe kwa akuluakulu, koma kwa ana. Koma, ndithudi, kuli bwino kuliŵerenga limodzi ndi makolo anu. Gwirizanani, ndizovuta kwambiri kufotokozera mwana kuti kukoma mtima, chilungamo, kuona mtima, chifundo ndi chiyani. Ndipo m'buku, zokambirana zidzayenda ndendende za izi. Pogwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo cha zitsanzo zosavuta ndi nkhani zosangalatsa, mwanayo adzatha kumvetsa, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kumva zomwe zili pangozi.

Ndipo tikufalitsa nkhani ya m’bukuli, yokonzedwa kuti ithandize mwanayo kumvetsa tanthauzo la chikumbumtima.

"Chikumbumtima ndi bwenzi komanso mtetezi wa Zabwino.

Munthu akangopanda kumukomera mtima, mnzakeyo amayamba kumuvutitsa. Ali ndi njira zambiri zochitira izi: nthawi zina "amakanda moyo wake", kapena ngati chinachake "chotentha m'mimba," ndipo nthawi zina mawu amabwereza kuti: "O, ndizoipa bwanji ...", "Sindiyenera kukhala nazo! ” - zambiri, zimakhala zoipa! Ndi zina zotero mpaka mutadzikonza nokha, mupepese, muwone kuti mwakhululukidwa. Kenako Wabwino adzamwetulira ndikuyamba kukhalanso ndi anzanu. Koma sikuti nthawi zonse zimatha bwino. Mwachitsanzo, mayi wachikulire mu "Nkhani ya Msodzi ndi Nsomba" sanasinthe, iye analumbira ndi nkhalamba nthawi zonse, kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto kwa nkhaniyo, analamula kuti amumenye! Ndipo sindinapepese konse! Mwachionekere, Chikumbumtima chake chinali m’tulo, kapena chinafa! Koma pamene Chikumbumtima chili ndi moyo, sichimatilola kuchita zinthu zoipa, ndipo ngati tichita, timachita manyazi. Chikumbumtima chikangolankhula, m’pofunika kuchimvetsera! Moyenera!

Ndikuuzani nkhani ya mnyamata. Dzina lake anali Mitya. Nkhaniyi inachitika kalekale, zaka zoposa XNUMX zapitazo. Mnyamata mwiniyo analemba za iye atakula ndipo anayamba kulemba mabuku. Ndipo panthawiyo anali ndi zaka zinayi, ndipo m'nyumba mwawo munali nanny wokalamba. Nanny anali wokoma mtima komanso wachikondi. Anayenda limodzi, kupita kutchalitchi, kuyatsa makandulo. Nannyyo anamuuza nkhani, analuka masokosi.

Nthawi ina Mitya anali kusewera ndi mpira, ndipo nanny anali atakhala pa sofa ndi kuluka. Mpirawo unagubuduzika pansi pa sofa, ndipo mnyamatayo anafuula kuti: “Nian, tapeza!” Ndipo nannyyo akuyankha kuti: "Mitya adzipeza yekha, ali ndi kamwana kakang'ono, kosinthika ..." "Ayi," adatero Mitya mouma khosi, "wapeza!" M’baleyo akumusisita m’mutu n’kubwerezabwereza kuti: “Mitenka adzatenga yekha, ali wochenjera ndi ife!” Ndiyeno, tangolingalirani, “msungwana wochenjera” ameneyu akudzigwetsera pansi, kugunda ndi kukankha, kubangula ndi mkwiyo ndi kufuula kuti: “Pezani, landirani!” Amayi adathamanga, adamunyamula, ndikumukumbatira, ndikufunsa kuti: "Chavuta ndi chiyani, wokondedwa wanga?" Ndipo iye: "Izi ndiye zonse zomwe zimandikhumudwitsa, mpira ulibe! Mthamangitseni, mumuthamangitse! Moto! Ngati simumuchotsa ndiye kuti mumamukonda, koma simundikonda! ” Ndipo tsopano nanny wachifundo, wokoma mtima adachotsedwa ntchito chifukwa cha chipongwe chomwe mnyamata wobedwayu adapanga!

Inu mukufunsa, Kodi Chikumbumtima chikugwirizana ndi chiyani? Koma pa chiyani. Wolemba mnyamata ameneyu akulemba kuti: “Zaka makumi asanu zapita (tangolingalirani, zaka makumi asanu!), Koma chisoni cha Chikumbumtima chimabwereranso ndikangokumbukira nkhani yowopsya imeneyi ndi mpira!” Taonani, akukumbukira nkhaniyi mu theka la zana. Anachita zoipa, sanamve mawu a Good. Ndipo tsopano chisoni chinakhalabe mu mtima mwake ndi kumuzunza iye.

Wina anganene kuti: koma amayi anga adamvera chisoni mnyamatayo - analira kwambiri, ndipo inu nokha munati kudandaula ndi Ntchito Yabwino. Ndipo kachiwiri, za "Nthano ya Msodzi ndi Nsomba", tiyankha kuti: "Ayi, sichinali Ntchito Yabwino! Zinali zosatheka kugonjera zofuna za mwanayo ndikuthamangitsa nanny wakale, yemwe adabwera naye m'nyumbamo kutentha, chitonthozo ndi ubwino! ” Woyamwitsayo anachitiridwa zinthu mopanda chilungamo, ndipo zimenezi n’zoipa kwambiri!