Khalani bata kunyumba

Kunyumba ndi komwe kuli mtima wako. Makolo ena samalumpha ngakhale pang'ono mutawauza kuti simudya nyama. Palibe cholakwika ndi izi ndipo alibe mlandu pa chilichonse, iwo, monga anthu ambiri, amakhulupirira nthano za zamasamba:

odya zamasamba sapeza zomanga thupi zokwanira, mudzafota ndi kufa popanda nyama, simudzakula ndi mphamvu. Makolo amene alibe maganizo amenewa nthawi zambiri amagwera m’gulu lachiwiri − "Sindidzaphika chakudya chamasamba, sindikudziwa zomwe anthu amadya, ndilibe nthawi yopangira zinthuzi". Kapena makolo anu samangofuna kukumana ndi mfundo yakuti kudya nyama kumayambitsa zowawa zambiri ndi kuvutika kwa nyama, amayesa kubwera ndi zifukwa zosiyanasiyana ndi zifukwa zomwe sakufuna kuti musinthe. Mwina chinthu chovuta kwambiri kutsimikizira makolo omwe atsimikiza mtima kusalola mwana wawo wamwamuna kapena wamkazi kukhala wosadya zamasamba. Khalidwe lotere liyenera kuyembekezeredwa kwa abambo, makamaka omwe ali ndi malingaliro awoawo pamutu uliwonse. Bamboyo adzasanduka chibakuwa chifukwa chaukali, n’kumalankhula za “anthu ankhanza osaganizira kanthu,” koma sasangalalanso ndi anthu amene amasamala chilichonse. Ndizovuta kumvetsetsa apa. Mwamwayi, pali mtundu wina wa makolo, ndipo ambiri a iwo akukhala. Awa ndi makolo omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi chilichonse chomwe mumachita komanso chifukwa chake mumachitira, mukakayikira adzakuchirikizani. Khulupirirani kapena ayi, nthawi zonse pali njira zopangira ubale ndi makolo amitundu yonse, bola ngati simukuwa. Chifukwa chimene makolo amatsutsa ndi kusowa chidziwitso. Makolo ambiri, kapena si onse, amakhulupirira ndi mtima wonse zimene amanena kuti amasamala za thanzi lanu, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina amangofuna kulamulira. Muyenera kukhala odekha ndi kuwafotokozera zomwe akulakwitsa. Dziŵani ndendende zimene makolo anu akuda nkhawa nazo, ndiyeno afotokozereni zimene zingawachepetsere nkhaŵa. Sally Dearing wazaka XNUMX wa ku Bristol anandiuza kuti, “Nditayamba kudya zamasamba, mayi anga anayambitsa mkangano. Ndinadabwa ndi mmene anamvera zowawa. Ndinamufunsa kuti chavuta ndi chiyani. Koma zinapezeka kuti iye sadziwa kanthu za zakudya zamasamba. Kenako ndinamuuza za matenda onse amene munthu angadwale akamadya nyama ndiponso kuti anthu odya zamasamba sangadwale matenda a mtima ndi khansa. Ndinangotchula zifukwa zambiri ndi mikangano ndipo adakakamizika kuvomerezana nane. Anagula mabuku ophikira zamasamba ndipo ndinamuthandiza kuphika. Ndipo mukuganiza kuti chinachitika ndi chiyani? Pambuyo pa zaka ziŵiri, iye anakhala wosadya zamasamba, ndipo ngakhale atate wanga analeka kudya nyama yofiyira.” Inde, makolo anu angakhale ndi zifukwa zawozawo: zinyama zimasamalidwa bwino ndipo zimaphedwa mwaumunthu, choncho palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa. Tsegulani maso awo. Koma musayembekezere kuti asintha maganizo nthawi yomweyo. Zimatenga nthawi kuti mufufuze zatsopano. Kaŵirikaŵiri pambuyo pa tsiku, makolo amayamba kuganiza kuti apeza mfundo yofooka m’mikangano yanu ndipo ali ndi thayo la kukulozerani chimene mukulakwa. Mvetserani kwa iwo, yankhani mafunso awo ndikuwapatsa chidziwitso chofunikira ndikudikirira. Ndipo abwereranso ku zokambiranazi. Izi zitha kuchitika kwa masiku, milungu kapena miyezi.  

Siyani Mumakonda