Kodi mukudziwa izi: simunali wosakhwima komanso wokhumudwitsa wina, ndipo kukumbukira chochitikachi kumakuvutitsani zaka zingapo pambuyo pake? Blogger Tim Urban amakamba za kumverera kopanda nzeru kumeneku, komwe adatulukira ndi dzina lapadera - «keyness».
Tsiku lina bambo anga anandiuza nkhani yoseketsa kuyambira ali mwana. Anali wachibale wa bambo ake, agogo anga aamuna, amene anamwalira, ndipo anali munthu wosangalala ndiponso wokoma mtima kwambiri kuposa wina aliyense.
Kumapeto kwa mlungu wina, agogo anga anabweretsa bokosi la masewera atsopano. Iwo ankatchedwa Clue. Agogo aamuna anasangalala kwambiri ndi kugulako ndipo anaitana bambo anga ndi mlongo wawo (panthaŵiyo anali ndi zaka 7 ndi 9) kuti azisewera. Aliyense anakhala mozungulira tebulo la kukhitchini, agogo anatsegula bokosilo, kuwerenga malangizo, kufotokozera ana malamulo, kugawa makadi ndi kukonza bwalo.
Koma asanayambe, belu la pakhomo linalira: ana apafupi anaitana bambo awo ndi mlongo wake kuti azisewera pabwalo. Anthuwo mosazengereza ananyamuka pampando wawo n’kuthamangira kwa anzawo.
Anthu amenewa sangavutike. Palibe choipa chomwe chinawachitikira, koma pazifukwa zina ndikudandaula kwambiri za iwo.
Atabwerera maola angapo pambuyo pake, bokosi lamasewera linali litayikidwa mu chipinda. Kenako adadi sanayike kufunika kwa nkhaniyi. Koma nthawi inadutsa, ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi ankamukumbukira, ndipo nthawi zonse ankavutika maganizo.
Ankaganiza kuti agogo ake angotsala okha patebulo lopanda kanthu, akudabwa kuti masewerawo atha mwadzidzidzi. Mwinamwake anakhala kwa kanthawi, ndiyeno anayamba kutolera makadi m’bokosi.
N’chifukwa chiyani bambo anga anandiuza mwadzidzidzi nkhaniyi? Adabwera patsogolo pakukambirana kwathu. Ndinayesetsa kumufotokozera kuti ndimavutikadi, ndipo ndimamvera chisoni anthu pazochitika zinazake. Komanso, anthu amenewa sangavutike ngakhale pang’ono. Palibe choipa chimene chinawachitikira, ndipo pazifukwa zina ndimada nkhawa nawo.
Bambo anati: “Ndamvetsa zimene mukutanthauza,” ndipo anakumbukira nkhani ya masewerawo. Zinandidabwitsa. Agogo anga aamuna anali atate wachikondi kwambiri, analimbikitsidwa kwambiri ndi lingaliro la masewerawa, ndipo ana adamukhumudwitsa kwambiri, akukonda kulankhula ndi anzawo.
Agogo anga aamuna anali kunkhondo pankhondo yachiŵiri ya padziko lonse. Ayenera kuti anataya anzake, mwina kuphedwa. Mwinamwake, iye mwiniyo anavulazidwa - tsopano sichidziwika. Koma chithunzi chomwecho chimandivutitsa ine: agogo aamuna akubwezeretsa pang'onopang'ono zidutswa za masewerawo m'bokosi.
Kodi nkhani zoterezi sizichitikachitika? Twitter posachedwa idawumba nkhani yokhudza bambo yemwe adayitana adzukulu ake asanu ndi mmodzi kuti adzacheze. Sanakhale limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo bambo wachikulireyo amawayembekezera, adaphika ma burger 12 yekha ...
Nkhani yofanana ndi ya Clue yamasewera. Ndipo chithunzi cha munthu wachisoni uyu ali ndi hamburger m'manja mwake ndi "kiyi" chithunzi chomwe mungachiganizire.
Ndinalingalira momwe mkulu wokoma uyu amapita kusitolo, kugula zonse zomwe amafunikira kuphika, ndipo moyo wake ukuimba, chifukwa akuyembekezera kukumana ndi zidzukulu zake. Ndiye amabwera bwanji kunyumba ndikupanga ma hamburgers mwachikondi, amawonjezera zonunkhira kwa iwo, amawotcha mabala, kuyesera kuti zonse zikhale zangwiro. Amadzipangira yekha ayisikilimu. Ndiyeno chirichonse chimalakwika.
Tangoganizani kutha kwa madzulo ano: momwe amakulunga ma hamburger asanu ndi atatu osadyedwa, kuwayika mufiriji ... Nthawi iliyonse akatulutsa imodzi mwa izo kuti aziwotha, amakumbukira kuti adakanidwa. Kapena mwina sangawayeretse, koma nthawi yomweyo amawaponyera m'chinyalala.
Chinthu chokha chimene chinandithandiza kuti ndisataya mtima nditawerenga nkhaniyi n’chakuti m’modzi mwa zidzukulu zake anafikadi kwa agogo ake.
Kumvetsetsa kuti izi ndizopanda nzeru sizimapangitsa kukhala kosavuta kukhala ndi "keyness"
Kapena chitsanzo china. Mayi wazaka 89, atavala mwanzeru, adapita kotsegulira chiwonetsero chake. Ndipo chiyani? Palibe wachibale amene anabwera. Anasonkhanitsa zojambulazo n’kupita nazo kunyumba, akumaulula kuti anadziona ngati wopusa. Kodi munakumana ndi izi? Ndi fungulo lalikulu.
Opanga mafilimu akugwiritsa ntchito «kiyi» mu sewero lanthabwala ndi mphamvu ndi zazikulu - kumbukirani osachepera wakale woyandikana nawo filimu «Home Alone»: okoma, osungulumwa, osamvetsetseka. Kwa iwo omwe amapanga nkhanizi, "kiyi" ndichinyengo chotsika mtengo.
Mwa njira, "keyness" sichimalumikizidwa ndi anthu okalamba. Pafupifupi zaka zisanu zapitazo zotsatirazi zinandichitikira. Nditatuluka m’nyumbamo ndinakumana ndi mthenga. Anapachikidwa pakhomo ndi mulu wa maphukusi, koma sanathe kulowa pakhomo - mwachiwonekere, wolembayo sanali kunyumba. Ataona kuti ndikutsegula, adathamangira kwa iye, koma analibe nthawi, ndipo adamumenya. Iye anafuula pambuyo panga kuti: “Kodi munganditsegulire chitseko kuti ndibweretse maphukusi pakhomo?”
Zokumana nazo zanga m’zochitika zoterozo zimaposa kukula kwa seŵerolo, mwinamwake kambirimbiri.
Ndinachedwa, maganizo anga anali oipa, ndinali nditapita kale masitepe khumi. Kuponya poyankha: "Pepani, ndafulumira," adasuntha, atakwanitsa kumuyang'ana ndi ngodya ya diso lake. Anali ndi nkhope ya munthu wabwino kwambiri, wokhumudwa chifukwa chakuti dziko lapansi ndi lopanda chifundo kwa iye lero. Ngakhale tsopano chithunzi ichi chiri pamaso panga.
"Keyness" kwenikweni ndi chodabwitsa. Agogo anga ayenera kuti anayiwala zomwe zidachitika ndi Clue pasanathe ola limodzi. Courier patapita mphindi 5 sanandikumbukire. Ndipo ndimamva «kiyi» ngakhale chifukwa cha galu wanga, ngati iye akufunsa kusewera naye, ndipo ine ndiribe nthawi kukankhira kutali. Zokumana nazo zanga m’zochitika zoterozo zimaposa kukula kwa seŵerolo, mwina kambirimbiri.
Kumvetsetsa kuti izi ndizopanda nzeru sikupangitsa kuti "keyness" ikhale yosavuta. Ndiyenera kumva "chinsinsi" moyo wanga wonse pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Chitonthozo chokha ndicho mutu wankhani watsopano m’nkhani yakuti: “Agogo achisoni salinso achisoni: pitani kwa iye kukacheza. zikwi za anthu ».