Phunzirani kukhala ndi mwana wa mnzanu

Banja losakanikirana: khalani pamalo anu akuluakulu

Pano mukuyang'anizana ndi mwana yemwe simukumudziwa ndipo mudzayenera kugawana naye moyo wanu wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Osati zophweka chifukwa ili kale ndi mbiri yake, zokonda zake komanso, ndithudi, zikumbukiro za moyo wabanja zomwe zangowonongeka. Zomwe amachitira poyamba ndi kukanidwa ndi dongosolo la zinthu, dziike nokha mu nsapato zake, samamvetsa zomwe zikuchitika kwa iye, makolo ake analekana, sakusangalala, wadutsa mayesero ovuta kwambiri pang'ono. m'modzi ndipo amawona mnzake watsopano wa abambo ake ali m'moyo wake. Ngakhale atakhala kuti akukwiyitsani, ngakhale atakhala ndi zingwe, ngakhale atayesa kukuchotsani, musaiwale zodziwikiratu: ndinu wamkulu, osati iye. Chifukwa chake muyenera kuchita ndi mtunda wokhazikitsidwa ndi momwe muliri komanso kukhwima kwanu ngati wamkulu ndipo makamaka osadziyika nokha pamlingo wofanana ndi iye ndikulakwitsa kumuona ngati wofanana naye.

Tengani nthawi kuti mupeze mwana wa mnzanu

Pamene simukumudziwa munthu, lamulo loyamba lofunika ndilo kupeza nthawi yodziwana. Zonse zikhala bwino ngati mutayamba kulemekeza mwanayu. Iye ndi munthu ngati inu, ndi zizolowezi zake, zikhulupiriro zake. Ndikofunika kuti tisayese kukayikira munthu wamng'ono yemwe ali kale. Mufunseni mafunso okhudza nkhani yake. Njira yabwino ndikutsegula ma Albums ake azithunzi ndi iye. Mumagawana naye ubwenzi ndipo mumamulola kuti alankhule za chisangalalo chake pamene anali wamng'ono, ndi makolo ake awiri pamodzi. Koposa zonse, musakhumudwe kuti akufuna kukuuzani za amayi ake, mkazi uyu ndi wakale wa bwenzi lanu, koma adzakhala mayi wamwanayu kwa moyo wake wonse. Kulemekeza mwanayu kumatanthauzanso kulemekeza kholo lake lina. Tangoganizani kuti munthu wakunja amakulankhulani zoipa za amayi anu, amadzudzula momwe anakulererani, mungakwiye kwambiri ...

Musamachite mkangano ndi mwana wa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu

Pachiyambi, ndife odzala ndi zolinga zabwino. Timadziuza tokha kuti kudzakhala kosavuta kukonda kamwana kameneka, popeza timakonda atate athu amene tidzakhala nawo monga okwatirana. Vuto ndilakuti mwanayu akuyimira nkhani yachikondi yomwe idakhalapo komanso chipatso chake. Ndipo ngakhale makolo ake atapatukana, kukhalapo kwake kudzakhala chikumbutso kwamuyaya cha unansi wawo wakale. Vuto lachiwiri ndiloti mukamakonda kwambiri, mumafuna winayo nokha! Mwadzidzidzi, kamnyamata kakang'ono kameneka kapena kamkazi kabwino kameneka kamakhala wolowerera yemwe amasokoneza tête-à-tête. Makamaka pamene iye (iye) ali ndi nsanje ndipo amafuna chidwi ndi chikondi cha abambo ake! Apanso, ndikofunikira kuti mubwerere mmbuyo ndikukhala bata chifukwa mukamawonetsa kukwiyitsidwa kwanu, mpikisano umakula!

Musamufunse kuti akukondeni kachiwiri

Imodzi mwa misampha yomwe muyenera kupeŵa ndiyo kufulumira. Mukufuna kusonyeza mnzanuyo kuti ndinu “apongozi” wabwino kwambiri komanso kuti mumadziwa kuchita ndi mwana wake. Ndizovomerezeka, koma maubwenzi onse amafunika nthawi kuti apite patsogolo. Gawani mphindi limodzi, mukangomva kuti zakonzeka, osawakakamiza. Mpatseni ntchito zosangalatsa, kuyenda, kuyenda komwe kungamusangalatse. Komanso mupangitseni kuti adziwe zomwe mumakonda, nyimbo zomwe mumakonda, ntchito yanu, chikhalidwe chanu, zomwe mumakonda… Muzitha kukukhulupirirani ndikukhala bwenzi lake.

Osamuimba mlandu chifukwa cha mmene zinthu zilili

Munkadziwa mmene zinthu zinalili, munadziwa kuti mnzanuyo ali ndi mwana (kapena kuposerapo) asanakhazikike naye ndipo muyenera kugawana nawo moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku. Kukhala pamodzi sikophweka, nthawi zonse pamakhala mikangano, nthawi zovuta mwa okwatirana. Mukadutsa m'malo ovuta, musamunene mwana wanu chifukwa cha vuto lanu laubwenzi. Kusiyanitsa pakati pa banja ndi banja. Konzekerani zoyendera ndi mphindi ziwiri, kuti mulimbikitse mgwirizano wachikondi womwe banja lililonse limafunikira. Mwachitsanzo, mwana akakhala ndi kholo lake, zimachepetsa zinthu. Ndipo pamene mwanayo akukhala ndi inu, vomerezaninso kuti akhoza kukhala ndi mphindi imodzi ndi imodzi ndi abambo ake. Kuti chilichonse chiziyenda bwino, muyenera kuganizira za kusinthana pakati pa nthawi yomwe mumayika patsogolo komanso nthawi yomwe iye ali patsogolo. Kulinganiza kobisika kumeneku (kaŵirikaŵiri kumakhala kovuta kupeza) ndiko mkhalidwe wa kupulumuka kwa okwatirana pakupanga.

Banja losakanikirana: musapitirire

Tinene moona mtima, si inu nokha amene muli ndi malingaliro osagwirizana ndi mwana wa mnzanu. Ndizomveka ndipo nthawi zambiri, kubisa malingaliro anu okanidwa, mumadzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa ndikuwonjezera mu "apongozi angwiro" kalembedwe. Osagwa chifukwa cha zongopeka za banja labwino losakanikirana, kulibe. Mwinamwake mukudabwa momwe mungalowerere mu maphunziro a mwana yemwe si wanu? Malo anu ndi ati? Kodi mungatani kapena muyenera kuyikapo ndalama zingati? Choyamba, yambani kupanga ubale ndi mwanayo polemekezana. Khalani nokha, khalani owonamtima, monga inu muliri, ndiyo njira yokhayo yopitira kumeneko.

Mphunzitseni molingana ndi bambo ake

Chikhulupiriro chikakhazikitsidwa pakati pa inu ndi mwanayo, mutha kulowererapo mu gawo la maphunziro, mogwirizana ndi atate, ndithudi. Ndipo popanda kuweruza zomwe kholo lina linamuika mwa iye. Akakhala pansi pa nyumba yanu, muzimufotokozera modekha malamulo oyendetsera nyumba yanu komanso amene mwasankha ndi bambo ake. Muthandizeni kumvetsa ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Ngati pali mkangano pakati panu, muloleni Mnzanuyo atsogolere. Kulera mwana yemwe si wake kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse chifukwa timakhulupirira kuti sanaphunzirepo zomwe amafunikira, timakhulupirira nthawi zonse kuti tikadachita bwino, apo ayi ... zilibe kanthu, chofunikira ndikupeza mgwirizano.

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