Lyudmila Petranovskaya, upangiri wa makolo

Katswiri wa zamaganizo Lyudmila Petranovskaya amadziwika kwa makolo onse amakono. Mabuku ake amatengedwa ngati mabuku a patebulo a amayi ndi abambo apamwamba, zolankhula zake zimasinthidwa nthawi yomweyo kukhala mawu. Tasonkhanitsa mawu 12 ochititsa chidwi.

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“Yang’anani mwana wanu. Ngakhale atakhala wodekha, wankhanza komanso wophunzira wosauka, ngakhale atangokwiya, adataya foni yam'manja yatsopano, wamwano kwa inu, ngakhale atatulutsa kuti ikugwedezeni. Ngakhale zili choncho, iye si mdani, si wowononga kapena bomba. Mwana ndi mwana. M'malo, mukasisita, mutha kupeza komwe mungapsompsone. “

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"Mwinamwala waukulu kwambiri, mwala wamphamvu wa mossy womwe umakhala panjira yolerera popanda kupsinjika, ndikudzimva wolakwa. Amayi ena amavomereza kuti amadzimva kukhala olakwa pafupifupi nthaŵi zonse. Chilichonse sichikuyenda momwe mukufunira, osati momwe chiyenera kukhalira, palibe mphamvu zokwanira, nthawi ndi kuleza mtima. Ambiri amadandaula kuti omwe ali nawo pafupi amawapangitsa kudzimva kukhala olakwa: achibale, mabwenzi, amayi ena. Aliyense akuwonekeratu kuti ndi ana ndikofunikira mwanjira ina: okhwima, okoma mtima, ochulukirapo, ochepera, koma osati momwe ziliri. “

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Sitinaone mmene zinthu zosasangalatsa zinkachitikira. Zomwe zidanenedwapo kale ndi liwu loti "zabwino" tsopano zimaganiziridwa kukhala zachizolowezi ndipo zimayikidwa ngati chizolowezi. "Chizolowezi" chatsopanochi ndi chosatheka kwenikweni, koma ngati aliyense amvetsetsa bwino zomwe sizingatheke, ndiye kuti chikhalidwe ndikuchichotsa ndikuchiyika. ”

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“Tisamenyeretu dzina la mayi wabwino. Tiyeni nthawi yomweyo, m'mphepete mwa nyanja, tivomereze kuti ndife opanda ungwiro. Ife sitiri omalizira. Tilibe gwero lopanda malire. Titha kukhala olakwa, ovulala, otopa komanso osafuna kutero. Sitidzakhala mu nthawi ya chirichonse, ngakhale titakhala ndi okonza chikwi. Sitidzachita zonse bwino, ndipo sitidzachitanso bwino mokwanira. Nthawi zina ana athu amasungulumwa, ndipo nthawi zina ntchito yathu siimaliza pa nthawi yake. “

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"Kulola nokha kuthetsa vuto ndi mphamvu ya thupi, mumafunsa chitsanzo ichi kwa mwanayo, ndiyeno zidzakhala zovuta kuti mumufotokozere chifukwa chake simungathe kumenya ofooka ndikumenyana ngati simukukhutira ndi chinachake. .”

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“Kuwopseza kwa kholo ‘kuchoka’, ‘kusiya’ kapena kunyalanyala, kusafuna ‘kuyang’ana kupitirira’, mofulumira kwambiri ndiponso mogwira mtima kumalowetsa mwanayo ku helo weniweni wamalingaliro. Ana ambiri amavomereza kuti angakonde kukwapulidwa. Makolo akakumenya amakumanabe ndi iwe. Inu mulipo kwa iye, iye amakuonani inu. Zimapweteka, koma osati zakupha. Makolo akamanamizira kuti kulibe, zimafika poipa kwambiri, zimakhala ngati chilango cha imfa. “

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"Chizoloŵezi chotulutsidwa m'maganizo mwa mwana - ngati mutaya nthawi zambiri - ndi chizoloŵezi choipa, mtundu wa kumwerekera. Ndipo muyenera kuthana nazo moyenera mofanana ndi chizolowezi china chilichonse choipa: osati "kulimbana", koma "phunzirani mosiyana," pang'onopang'ono kuyesa ndikugwirizanitsa zitsanzo zina. Osati "kuyambira tsopano, osabweranso" - aliyense amadziwa zomwe malumbiro oterowo amatsogolera, koma "lero ndilocheperako pang'ono kuposa dzulo" kapena "kukhala popanda tsiku limodzi lokha."

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“Pazifukwa zina, achikulire ambiri amaganiza kuti ngati mwana sasiya nthawi yomweyo chilichonse chimene anali kuchita ndiponso osathamanga kuti akwaniritse zimene anamuuza, ndiye kuti n’kupanda ulemu. Ndipotu, kusalemekeza kumatanthauza kulankhula ndi munthu osati ndi pempho, koma ndi dongosolo, popanda kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zolinga zake ndi zokhumba zake (zokhazo ndizo zochitika zadzidzidzi zokhudzana ndi chitetezo). “

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“Kuyesa kusintha khalidwe la mwana potengera msinkhu kapena mphindi chabe kuli ngati kulimbana ndi chipale chofewa m’nyengo yozizira. Mukhoza, ndithudi, kusesa chipale chofewa kuchokera pabedi lanu lamaluwa lomwe mumakonda nthawi zonse. Tsiku ndi tsiku osadziwa kupuma. Koma sikophweka kudikira mpaka chilichonse chisungunuke chokha m'masiku atatu mu Epulo? “

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“Ambiri aife, makamaka azimayi, timakula ndi kukhulupirira kuti kudzisamalira ndi kudzikonda. Ngati muli ndi banja ndi ana, palibe "za inu nokha" kuyenera kukhalaponso ... Palibe ndalama, palibe chitukuko, palibe maphunziro - palibe chomwe chingalowe m'malo mwa mwana wanu. Malingana ngati mukumva kuipa, sadzakhala wosangalala ndipo sadzakhala bwino. Zikatero, kuyika nthawi ndi mphamvu mwa iye, kuyesa kuwongolera khalidwe lake sikuthandiza. Zindikirani kuti pakali pano ndinu ofooka komanso ofunikira kwambiri. Chilichonse chomwe mumadzipangira nokha - nthawi, ndalama, mphamvu - chidzakhala chothandiza kwa ana anu. “

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“Mwanayo ali ndi zambiri zoti achite kuwonjezera pa kubweretsa akuluakulu dala. Amakumana ndi ntchito zazikulu, ayenera kukula, kukula, kumvetsetsa moyo, kudzilimbitsa yekha mmenemo. “

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“Musamafune chilichonse kwa inuyo ndi mwana nthawi imodzi. Moyo sumatha lero. Ngati tsopano mwanayo sakudziwa, sakufuna, sangathe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti zidzakhala choncho nthawi zonse. Ana amakula ndikusintha, nthawi zina mopitirira kudziwika. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti panthawi yomwe mwanayo ali wokonzeka kusintha kuti akhale wabwino, ubale pakati panu sunawonongeke mopanda chiyembekezo. “

Kodi mwanayo akufuna chiyani?

Mwanayo amafuna osati maswiti, zoseweretsa, makompyuta opanda malire ndi tchuthi masiku 365 pachaka. Iye, monga munthu wamba, amafuna:

• kumva bwino (osati kuvutika, kusachita mantha, kusachita zinthu zosasangalatsa);

• Kukondedwa, kulandiridwa, kukondedwa (ndi makolo anu, anzanu, aphunzitsi), kuphatikizapo kutsimikiza kuti simudzasiyidwa;

• kukhala wopambana (mu maubwenzi ndi makolo, muubwenzi, m'masewera, kusukulu, masewera);

• kumveka, kumvetsetsedwa, kulankhulana, kupanga mabwenzi, kulandira chidwi;

• kukhala wofunidwa, kudzimva kukhala wofunika, kudziwa malo anu m’banja;

• Kudziwa malamulo a masewera ndi malire a zomwe ziloledwa;

• kukula, kukulitsa, kuzindikira maluso.