Sutukesi ya amayi oyembekezera: Abambo ayenera kutenga chiyani m'thumba lawo?

Sutukesi ya amayi oyembekezera: Abambo ayenera kutenga chiyani m'thumba lawo?

Nthawi yowerengera yopita ku msonkhano waukulu ikuchitika. Mayi wam'tsogolo wakonzekera bwino sutikesi yake ndi mwana wake. Ndipo papa? Angathenso kutenga zinthu zingapo kuti azikhala m'chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera kukhala bwino momwe angathere. Ndithu, thumba lake lidzakhala locheperapo kusiyana ndi la amayi. Koma m'dera lino, kuyembekezera kungapangitse masiku oyambirirawo kukhala ndi mwana kukhala kosavuta. Langizo: chitani izi masabata angapo tsiku lomaliza lisanafike. Nthawi zambiri mwana amaloza nsonga ya mphuno yake msanga kuposa momwe amayembekezera. Ndipo palibe choipa kuposa kunyamula sutikesi yanu pamene mkazi wanu wataya kale madzi, kapena kukhala ndi maulendo opsinjika maganizo kuti mukatenge zomwe mwayiwala kunyumba. Mukatero mudzakhala ndi china chake m’maganizo. Timakuuzani zonse zomwe muyenera kuganizira kuti mukhale - ochulukirapo - okhazikika pa D-Day.

Foni

Ndi charger yake. Izi ndi zofunika kudziŵitsa okondedwa anu za kufika kwa mwana wanu wakhanda, kotero mudzafunika batire ... Komanso, mukhoza kukonzekera mndandanda wa anthu onse kudziwitsidwa, ndi manambala awo.

Ndalama zina

Ndalama zasiliva zambiri. Zomwe mungawonjezere mafuta kuchokera kwa ogulitsa khofi - omwe salandira matikiti kapena makhadi a ngongole - ndipo khalani tcheru pamene wokondedwa wanu ndi wachikondi adzafuna thandizo lanu lonse ... Chifukwa ngati mukudziwa mukafika, simudziwa kuti mukhala nthawi zingati. Mukhozanso kuika zakudya m'chikwama chanu, monga chokoleti, zipatso zouma, makeke, maswiti ... Chifukwa inu mosakayikira mudzafuna akamwe zoziziritsa kukhosi. Ino si nthawi yoganizira zakudya.

Kusintha kwa zovala

Konzani zovala ziwiri. Kuti mukhale omasuka, komanso kuti musamve thukuta pamene wolowa wanu afika. Nsapato zina zofunika, zomasuka poyenda. Kuti mpweya ukhale wabwino, tenganinso mswachi ndi mankhwala otsukira mkamwa.

Kamera

Wojambula mwina abwera kudzakupatsani kuti musafe nthawi zonse zosatha. Koma ife tikhoza amalangiza kuti inunso kubweretsa kamera yanu, kuchulukitsa zithunzi ndi agogo ndi achibale onse. Onetsetsani kuti mwatenganso charger, batire limodzi kapena awiri, ndi ma SD khadi (ma) amodzi kapena awiri. Mutha kugwiritsabe ntchito foni yanu yam'manja kuti musonkhanitse zokumbukira, koma pazithunzi zazithunzi, palibe chomwe chimamenya chida chenicheni.

Mabuku, masewera apakanema, playlist…

Mwachidule, zomwe muyenera kuzisamalira panthawi iliyonse yopanda phokoso. Mabuku, kapena ntchito zomwe mungatengeko uphungu wamtengo wapatali, kapena maumboni odzaza ndi chikondi: "Ndine bambo - masiku 28 kuti ndipeze zizindikiro zanu", Yannick Vicente ndi Alix Lefief-Delcourt, ed. Delcourt; "Sindinkayembekezera izi - zinsinsi zachikondi komanso zosadziwika za abambo odzipereka", ndi Alexandre Marcel, ed. Larousse; kapena “Le cahier jeune papa” lolemba Benjamin Muller, Woyamba ed. Mabuku othandiza kwambiri ngati uyu ndi mwana wanu woyamba. Ponena zamasewera apakanema ndi nyimbo, ngati mutha kuzigwiritsa ntchito popanda intaneti, ndizabwino. Izi zikuthandizani kuti musakhale odalira wifi ya chipatala cha amayi ...

Anti-nkhawa

Kufika kwa mwana, ngakhale kuli kokongola monga momwe kulili, sikumakhala kovutirapo. Ngati mumaganizira zotsitsa magawo osinkhasinkha kuti mumvetsere popanda intaneti, izi zikuthandizani kuti mudutse nthawiyi momwe mungathere. Headspace, Mind, Small nsungwi, etc. Zambiri zoganizira bwino zosinkhasinkha zomwe mudzapeza chisangalalo chanu.

Mphatso kwa amayi

Mutha kumubwezera kunyumba kapena mwana wanu akangowonetsa kankhope kakang'ono kokongola m'chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera. Zili ndi inu. Kuti muganizire za wokondedwa wanu komanso wachifundo, mukhoza kutenga mafuta odzola ndi inu, kuti mumupatse kupaka phazi, ngati akukonda.

Gel ya Hydroalcoholic

Amayi amayenera kuganizira za izi, koma ndi bwino kutenga botolo, kuonetsetsa kuti achibale omwe amabwera kudzakuchezerani ali ndi manja oyera asanawaike pa mwana wanu.

Ndipo ena onse

Mndandandawu, osati wokwanira, uyenera kuwonjezeredwa ndi zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu. Phukusi la ndudu ndi zopepuka, ngati ndinu wosuta. Fodya ndi woipa pa thanzi lanu, amadziwika bwino. Koma kusiya kusuta tsiku limene mwana wanu afika sikungakhale nthawi yabwino kwambiri.

Nawa, chifukwa cha zida zopulumutsirazi, mwakonzeka. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikusangalala ndi mphindi izi.

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