Mayiyo akutsimikiza kuti matenda a chiwindi amtundu wa B aatali kwambiri ndi chinsinsi cha thanzi labwino ndi IQ yapamwamba ya ana.

Mira Dawson ndi namwino wazaka 36 wa ku Dorset, England. Ndi wokwatiwa ndipo mwamuna wake, Jim Dawson, wazaka 56, amagwira ntchito yogulitsa vinyo. Banjali lili ndi ana awiri. Mwana wamng'ono kwambiri, Ray Lee, ali ndi zaka ziwiri. Wamkulu, Tara, ali kale ndi zaka zisanu. Mira akuyamwitsa onse awiri ndipo sasiya. Sakufuna kuyimitsa GW mpaka Tara ali ndi zaka khumi. Ndiyeno, mwachiwonekere, Ray Lee adzayenera kukula mpaka khumi oyambirira popanda kuchoka pachifuwa. Komanso, onse amagona limodzi. Ndiko kuti, pafupifupi chilichonse: Mwamuna wa Mira amagona padera.

“Ndikuona kuti ndi bwino kuti mwana azikumbukira mmene amamvera akamayamwitsidwa. Kodi mukukumbukira ndondomekoyi? Ndipo ana anga adzakhala! Kuphatikiza apo, ndizopindulitsa kwambiri thanzi ndi luntha, - akutero namwino. - Kuphatikiza apo, pali maphunziro ambiri omwe amatsimikizira kuti ana omwe amayamwitsa ali ndi luntha lapamwamba. Ndili ndi chidaliro kuti kuyamwitsa kwa nthawi yayitali kudzalola ana anga kukwaniritsa zonse zomwe angathe. ”

Zimene Mira anachita zimadabwitsa anthu ambiri. Bwanji, abwenzi onse ndi achibale. "Ndikuganiza kuti chisankho changa sichikhudza aliyense. Mwina mungadabwe, koma ayi, akutero amayi. “Tonse timagona limodzi, ana ndimawadyetsa ngati akufuna kudya usiku, ndipo m’mawa tonse timadzuka limodzi.”

Malingana ndi Mira, chifukwa cha njira iyi, ana ake nthawi zonse ankagona bwino, sankayenera kudzuka okha usiku, mantha, kulira ndi njala kapena mantha. Kupatula apo, amakhala nawo nthawi zonse.

Mira akutsimikizira kuti mwamuna wake wasangalala ndi lingaliro lake. Koma a Dawson ali ndi maganizo osiyana pang’ono. Monga iye mwini adavomereza, kuyamwitsa kwa nthawi yayitali kwa ana kunasiya chizindikiro pa ubale wake ndi mkazi wake. “Ndikhoza kukhala wosungulumwa kwambiri,” anaulula motero Jim kwa atolankhani. – Mira sanakambirane nane pa nkhaniyi. Ndikhoza kumuthandiza kapena kusiya. “

Makamaka mwamuna amavutika maganizo ndi tulo padera. Jim ananena kuti amadzimva kuti wamusiyidwa mkazi wake ndi ana ake akapita kukagona m’chipinda china. Koma angakonde kuŵerengera mwana wake wamwamuna ndi mwana wake nkhani asanagone. Jim anadandaula kuti: “Zikuwoneka kuti chifukwa cha chosankha cha Mira, ndimakhala ndi nthaŵi yochepa ndi ana kuposa mmene ndikanafunira.

Panthawi imodzimodziyo, sangakakamize mkazi wake. Mwana wake wamkazi ndi mtsikana wowala kwambiri, waluso komanso wotukuka kuposa zaka zake. Ndipo chifukwa cha ubwino wa Tara, abambo ali okonzeka chilichonse.

Mira amangokhalira kudandaula za zomwe zidzachitike mkaka wake utatha.

Siyani Mumakonda