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Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinakhala mayi ndinali ndi zaka 24. Tsopano ndili ndi zaka 36, ​​ndipo ndikukonzekera kukumana ndi mwana wathu wachisanu ndi chimodzi kuti ndikhale mayi wabwino koposa. Ndi kubadwa kwa mwana, malingaliro onse ndi moyo wonse amasintha. Kuyambira pamene inu zindikirani aliyense tsitsi, ulusi pansi kuti mwana akhoza kukokera mkamwa mwake, kuphatikizapo onse kudzutsidwa chibadwa umalimbana kuteteza ndi kusamalira mwanayo.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Amayi athu ndi okoma mtima kwambiri choncho sanatilange, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri ankatiopseza ndi zilango: Ndidzaika pakona, simudzapita ku disco, sindidzagula siketi yatsopano. Ndipo ndili mwana, ndinamvetsetsa mfundo yolerera ana: Ndinati - chitani! Ndimayesetsa kuchita izi ndi atsikana ndi anyamata anga. Timaika malire ndi mfundo za makhalidwe abwino ndipo timazitsatira.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Tikamalankhula za maonekedwe, ndiye kuti ana athu amafanana ndi abambo. Ndipo kufanana kwake ndikuti tonse timakonda kukhala mochedwa ndikudzuka m'mawa. Ana anga aakazi sakonda mkate, monga ine, koma timakonda kwambiri zikwama zokongola ndipo nthawi zina timazisintha. Timakondanso kukumbatirana ndi kulankhulana, kukwera njinga palimodzi, ngakhale kuti sindine wokangalika monga iwo aliri - ali osakhazikika!

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Ulemu ndi ulemu kwa okalamba. Timaphunzitsa ana aang’ono kulemekeza akuluakulu. Kukhululuka - ngakhale zitapweteka, khululukirani ndikufunira zabwino munthuyo. Komanso kuti banja ndi gulu! Ndipo tiyenera kusamalirana wina ndi mnzake.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… chitsanzo chaumwini.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Konzani nthawi yanu ndi bizinesi, phatikizani ana okulirapo mu bizinesi ndipo musakane thandizo la abambo. Ndipo chinthu chachikulu ndikupumula! Zimathandiza kuti nthawi zonse mukhale ndi maganizo abwino ndikuwoneka bwino.

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mayi wa mwana wamkazi Anfisa

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndinakhala mayi ndili ndi zaka 18 ndipo ndikusangalala kwambiri kuti posachedwapa. Tsopano takhala ngati azibwenzi-alongo. Tili ndi chikhulupiriro ndipo palibe zinsinsi mu ubale wathu. Anfiska wanga amandiuza chilichonse padziko lapansi ndipo amawona kuti ndimuthandiza nthawi zonse. Iyi ndi mfundo yofunika kwambiri mu ubale wa amayi ndi mwana wamkazi. Ngati izi siziri choncho kuyambira ali wamng'ono, ndiye kuti izi sizidzatheka.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Phunziro lalikulu. HM. Inde, alipo ambiri. Koma, kwenikweni, tili ndi malingaliro osiyana kwambiri pamaphunziro ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira zotsutsana. Mayi anga ndi okhwima, osonkhanitsidwa, ali ndi udindo. Ndipo kuyambira ndili mwana, nthawi zonse ndimadziwa kuti ngati sindichita kanthu, adzandichitira. Tinene kuti zinandisokoneza pang'ono. Ndimabweretsa Anfiska wanga mosiyana. Ndikufuna kuti aphunzire kudziyimira pawokha. Kotero kuti anamvetsa kuti iye anali mayi, koma ngati iye sanachite chinachake, palibe amene angamuchitire izo. Simunanyamule chikwama chanu chasukulu madzulo? Amadzuka m'mawa kwambiri ndikunyamuka kutsogolo kwa sukulu. Sagona mokwanira. Nthawi yotsatira sadzayiwala za "ntchito" zake.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Timafanana m’njira zambiri. M'malingaliro anga, kupatula mawonekedwe, iyi ndi kope langa, kumlingo wokokomeza. Zimandikhudza. Koma nthawi zina ndimavutika ndi makhalidwe enaake, ndipo makolo anga ankavutikanso ndi makhalidwe amenewa, kundilera. Ndipo tsopano ndikumvetsa bwino amayi ndi abambo anga.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Ndimaphunzitsa zonse nthawi imodzi. Ndikofunikira kuti mwana azikhala wochezeka, koma mopanda malire. Ndikofunika kukhala waubwenzi! Wodalirika komanso wofuna kutchuka. Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chochepa, popanda kutengeka. Ndine wonyadira momwe ndiliri tsopano ndipo ndinganene mosabisa kuti sichinapangidwe kwa zaka zanga!

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… Kutha kuyankhula, ndikuganiza. Zonse zitha kufotokozedwa modekha! Palibe kukuwa! Popanda "lamba" komanso opanda ultimatums (njirazi sindikumvetsa ndipo sindikuvomereza).

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Funso lalikulu. Sangalalani kukhala mayi! Ndipo pamene "ntchito" ndizosangalatsa - chirichonse chimayenda bwino chokha.

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Mayi wa ana atatu

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndinapeza chisangalalo cha kukhala mayi ndili ndi zaka 25. Ndikukumbukira ndi mantha omwe ndinayang'ana mphuno, maso, milomo, zala zazing'ono zala, kutulutsa ndi chisangalalo kununkhira kwa tsitsi lake, kupsompsona manja ake ang'onoang'ono ndi miyendo. Ndinachita mantha kwambiri ndi mwana wanga. Maganizo odziona ngati munthu wosiyana ndi mwanayo akusintha. Palibenso ine, pali "ife".

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Chinthu choyamba chimene makolo anga anandiphunzitsa chinali kukhala ndekha, izi ndi zomwe ndimaphunzitsa ana anga. Khalidwe lachiwiri ndi luso lachikondi, lachitatu ndi kukhala ndi khama pokwaniritsa zolinga.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Mwa aliyense wa ana, ndikuwona makhalidwe anga: kulimbikira, chidwi, chipiriro - ndipo izi zimatithandiza kukhala pafupi kwambiri. Ana anga aamuna amakonda masewera: mkulu akuphunzira mu nkhokwe ya FC Kuban, wamng'ono akutenga njira zake zoyamba mu masewera. Mwana wamkazi akupanga masewera olimbitsa thupi monyinyirika.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Kukoma mtima, luso lachifundo. Ndimayesetsa kuphunzitsa ndi chitsanzo changa, ndikuganiza kuti iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri, koma nthano ndi nkhani zophunzitsa zimathandizanso.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… Muzipeza nthawi yambiri yocheza ndi ana anu.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Ndikungofuna kuyankha: ayi! Koma mozama, muyenera kukonzekera zinthu, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri ndikutha kumasuka. Musayese kukhala mayi wapamwamba sekondi iliyonse. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuyimitsa, kusiya bizinesi ndikuganiza momwe kulili bwino kukhala ndi anthu apamtima, mutha kuwakonda ndi kuwasamalira, ndipo iwo ali za inu.

Kalonga wanga

“Nthawi zonse ndinkadziwa kuti ndidzakhala ndi mwana. Ndipo pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana wake wachiwiri, Princess-ballerina, iye analowa sukulu ya makolo olera, ndiye anayamba kufunafuna mwana. Pamene, patapita kanthawi, foni inalira: “Bwera, pali mwana wa zaka 3,” mtima wanga unagunda ndi chisangalalo. Ndimathamangira kumeneko, lingaliro limodzi lokha mmutu mwanga - ndikupita kwa mwana wanga wamwamuna, kwa Kalonga.

Msonkhano woyamba. Kalonga anakhala chagada, kenako anatembenuka, ndipo ndinaona mwana wachilendo, osati ngati ine kapena mwamuna wanga. Kalonga mwiniyo adandiyandikira, ndidamukhazika pachifuwa panga, adagwira dzanja langa, adangokhala chete, nthawi zina amandiyang'ana mosokonezeka. Ndasaina chilolezo. Msonkhano wachiwiri. Pamene zikalata zimakonzedwa tinabwera kwa Prince ndi mwana wathu wamkulu. Mwanayo ankasangalala kwambiri ndi ife moti ankalankhula mosalekeza, kunditchula mayi, ndipo pazifukwa zina anamutcha kuti bambo.

Pomaliza, tonse tikupita kunyumba. Kalonga akugona pampando wakumbuyo. Polowera pakhomo, ndikudutsa pafupi ndi concierge ndi Kalonga m'manja mwanga, ndinakhala ngati sindinamuzindikire kudabwa kwake ... namkumbatira iye. Koma idyll sinakhalitse. Ana anayamba kugawana gawo, zidole, chakudya, mitengo kunja kwa zenera ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, chidwi cha makolo awo. Ine, monga ndikanathera, ndinawatonthoza iwo, kufotokoza, kulankhula nawo.

Kusintha. Kalonga anazolowera pang'ono ndipo anayamba kuswa chilichonse. Atapenta khoma (lomwe tinapenta mlungu umodzi wokha wapitawo), ananditsogolera ndi mawu akuti: “Amayi, ndakukokerani chojambulachi!” Chabwino, munganene chiyani ... Nthawi zina ndimaganiza kuti sindidzakhala ndi chipiriro chokwanira, koma kenako ndimayang'ana kankhope kake kachimwemwe, ndipo malingaliro onse adakhazikika. Koma kusinthako sikunaoneke ngati kutha.

Wothandizira. Koma m’kupita kwa nthaŵi, ngodya zakuthwa zinafufutidwa. Kalonga wathu adakhala wolimbikira ntchito: nthawi yomwe amakonda kwambiri ndikuthandiza amayi kuyeretsa pansi. Ali ndi zaka zoposa zitatu, amasamala modabwitsa: "Amayi, ndikuphimba miyendo yanu", "Amayi, ndikubweretserani madzi." Zikomo, mwana. Tsopano sindingathe kulingalira zomwe zikanachitika akanakhala kuti sanawonekere m'banja mwathu. Iye ndi wofanana kwambiri ndi ine - amakondanso mafilimu akuda ndi oyera, timakhala ndi zakudya zofanana. Ndipo kunja akuwoneka ngati bambo ake. PS Prince m'banja kwa chaka chimodzi. “

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Zaka 37, loya, wapampando wa bungwe la Krasnodar "Mgwirizano wa mabanja akuluakulu" Kuban Family "

mayi wa ana aakazi awiri ndi ana aamuna awiri

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Pa July 5, 2001, mwana wathu wamkazi woyamba, Angelika, anabadwa. Ndinali ndi zaka 22. Kukoma mtima kotereku, chisangalalo chowawa chotere kuchokera ku fungo la korona wa mwana, misozi yachisangalalo kuyambira masitepe oyamba a mwana, kumwetulira kopita kwa inu kapena abambo anu! Kunyada kotereku kuchokera ku vesi loyamba la mtengo wa kindergarten. Kumva kofunda kwadzidzidzi kwa chisangalalo kuti wina akukutamandani osati inu, koma mwana wanu. Chodabwitsa kuti pa Chaka Chatsopano, pansi pa chimes, mumapereka kukwaniritsidwa kwa zokhumba zanu, koma zofuna za ana anu. Ndi kubadwa kwa ana otsatira Sophia, Matthew ndi Sergey, moyo unakhala wosangalatsa ndi watanthauzo!

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Ndinalandira chikondi, malangizo ndi miyambo yambiri kuchokera kwa amayi anga, zomwe ndinasamutsira ku banja langa. Mwachitsanzo, Lamlungu lililonse, tikabwera kuchokera ku tchalitchi, timakhala patebulo lalikulu, kukambirana zochitika zonse za sabata yotuluka, mavuto onse, chisangalalo, kupambana ndi zochitika, kudya masana ndikukonzekera zinthu za sabata yatsopano. Nthaŵi zina timakhala kunyumba ndi kukonzekera mlungu wa ntchito kapena kupita kokayenda m’paki.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ana athu onse ndi osiyana. Koma kholo lirilonse likufuna kuwona kupitiriza kwawo mwa munthu wamng'ono. Anthu onse ndi osiyana, ndipo chilengedwe chapanga mwanzeru, kupanga zosiyanasiyana. Muyenera kuvomereza kuti zingakhale zotopetsa kukweza ndi kuphunzitsa buku lanu lenileni.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Timaphunzitsa ana kukhala ochezeka, achifundo, omvera, okoma mtima, odalirika, odalirika, oona mtima, olemekeza anthu, amaona ubwino, kukhala olimbikira kukwaniritsa zolinga, odzichepetsa, olondola ndiponso odzipereka. M'mawu amodzi - muyenera kudziwa ndikusunga malamulo 10 opatsidwa kwa ife ndi Ambuye!

Mfundo yaikulu ya maphunziro ndi…chikondi. Kulera konse kumabwera pa zinthu ziwiri zokha: kukwaniritsa zosowa za mwana ndi chitsanzo chanu. Palibe chifukwa chodyetsa mwanayo ngati sakufuna, kapena kudyetsa pamene akufuna. Khulupirirani mwanayo ndi inu nokha, ndiyeno khulupirirani alangizi ndi mabuku ochenjera. Chitsanzo chanu chidzagwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Ngati mukunena chinthu chimodzi, ndikupereka chitsanzo chosiyana, ndiye kuti zotsatira zake sizikhala zomwe mumayembekezera.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Ngati mudzipangira nokha malamulo, apangitsa moyo kukhala wosavuta. Mwachitsanzo, muyenera kukonzekera tsiku lanu, sabata, ndi zina zotero. Chitani zonse pa nthawi yake, gawani maudindo a pakhomo kwa mamembala onse a m'banja. Chilichonse m'moyo chimayamba ndi banja! Ndipo ndine wokondwa kwambiri kuti posachedwapa chikhulupiliro cha makhalidwe a banja, kumene mkazi makamaka ndi mayi, wosunga moto, wayamba kutsitsimuka. Bambo amasamalira ana ake ndiponso ndi chitsanzo kwa ana ake. Ndikofunika kubwerera ku miyambo yathu ya mabanja akuluakulu. Pakhala pali ana atatu kapena kuposerapo m'mabanja a Kuban!

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mayi wa mwana

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndakhala ndikufuna ana ndi banja lalikulu. Ndine munthu woledzera, ntchito zantchito, maphunziro osatha anakankhira kumbuyo kubadwa kwa mwana pang'ono, koma patapita zaka 25 chinachake mkati adadina, ine sindingakhoze kuganiza za china chirichonse, chikhumbo kukhala mayi anakhala chinthu chachikulu. Sindikudziwa kuti maganizo anga anasintha bwanji mwana wanga atabadwa, mwinamwake ndinamva kuti tsopano munthu wina wokondedwa kwenikweni anafunikira, mantha a kusungulumwa anatha. Mfundo yanga yoyambira si kubadwa kwa mwana, koma kuzindikira kuti ndine wokonzeka kukhala mayi, ndimakonda kuuza anzanga momwe ndinakonzekera mimba, ndinaganizira momwe ndinasankhidwira ngati mayi. Ndinawerenga mabuku a obstetrician-gynecologist Luule Viilma, ndinali kukonzekera kukumana ndi moyo wa mwana wanga nthawi yomweyo, ndipo osati panthawi yobadwa, ndinasunga diary ndikulemba makalata a mwanayo nthawi yonse ya mimba, tsopano timakonda werengani ndi mwana wanga wamkazi.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Funso labwino. Ndili ndi amayi okonda kwambiri, odalirika, mwina adandiphunzitsa zinthu zofunika kuchita pasadakhale, kuti ndisadzikokere m'ngolo yomaliza, koma kunena zoona, sindinaganizire za maphunzirowa, ndidalandira chikondi chochuluka ndipo ndili. othokoza kuti ndili ndi wina woti ndimamukonda.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Kunja, sitili ofanana kwambiri, koma ena amanena kuti Zlata - kope langa, ndikuganiza, chifukwa iye amandikopera ine mu chirichonse: kulankhula, makhalidwe, intonation, makhalidwe, khalidwe, kuganiza, kulingalira. Ndipo momwe zimasiyana - mwina, sali wolimbikira monga momwe ine ndinaliri pausinkhu wake.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Tili ndi chipembedzo kunyumba m'mawonekedwe ake onse: payenera kukhala dongosolo, chakudya chopangira kunyumba chiyenera kukonzedwa, ndi zina zotero. Mikhalidwe yotereyi imayikidwa. Koma kawirikawiri, ndimaphunzira zambiri ndekha, ndimapereka chitsanzo, ndikukhazikitsa malamulo ndikufuna kuti mapangano akwaniritsidwe.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… mvetsetsa ndi kukhululuka… Tili ndi mikangano ndi zovuta zingapo, ndikofunikira kukumbatirana, kukambirana zakukhosi, kuvomereza zolakwa, kupempha chikhululukiro ndi kukhululuka.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Ndimalemba pa Instagram ndikugawana malamulo anga amoyo ndi olembetsa. Zina mwa zofunika, mwachitsanzo, ndi izi - sindimathera nthawi yochuluka pamsewu (ndimagwira ntchito kunyumba kapena muofesi pafupi ndi nyumba yanga), sindimawonera TV konse, ndimakonzekera tchuthi langa bwino.

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mayi wa awiri

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndili ndi ana aamuna awiri - wazaka 7 ndi 3. Miyoyo iwiri yosiyana kwambiri. Anabala mwana wake woyamba ali ndi zaka 26, ndipo chirichonse chinayamba kuzungulira mwanayo, panali mantha ambiri ndi tsankho la mayi wamng'ono wosadziwa zambiri. Ndinakhala moyo wa “kunyumba,” kusamalira mwana wanga ndi kuiŵalatu za ine ndekha. Chilichonse chinasintha ndikupita kuntchito kuchokera ku tchuthi cha amayi. Ndinamvetsetsa - mwana ndi mwana, koma uwu si moyo wanga wonse! Ndinayamba kutuluka, ndinasintha kwambiri chithunzi changa, ndinayambiranso maphunziro olimbitsa thupi. Ndiyeno mimba yachiwiri. Ndipo apa ndi pamene kusintha kwakukulu kumeneku kunachitika. Sindinabwerere ku moyo wanga wa zipolopolo ndipo ndinapitirizabe kukhala ndi moyo wokangalika. Mwachitsanzo, ndakhala ndikukonda zokongoletsa kwa nthawi yayitali, ndinayamba kutenga nawo mbali pachiwonetsero cha "Dziko la Mkazi".

Koma, mwachiwonekere, zonsezi sizinali zokwanira .... Ndipo ndinatsegula ntchito ya intaneti "Ana ku Krasnodar". Tsopano tili ndi zinthu zambiri zoti tichite pamodzi: kuyendera malo osungiramo zinthu zakale, kutenga nawo mbali m'maphwando a ana, mapulojekiti omwe ali ndi malo a ana. M'gululi, ndinatha "kudziulula" kuchokera kumbali yosayembekezereka kwa ine ndekha.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Amayi anandiphunzitsa kukhala wolimbikira ntchito, woona mtima ndiponso wosachita zinthu mosasamala. Ndimayesetsa kuphunzitsa ana anga makhalidwe amenewa. Ngakhale sizikuyenda nthawi zonse.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ndili ndi pakati, ndinakhala mwezi umodzi panyanja ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna wamkulu ndipo ndinatha kuwulukira kunja! Kumeneko ndinazindikira kuti ndife ofanana kwambiri ndi mwana wamng'ono kwambiri: tinapita kulikonse komwe timafuna, kupita ku malo odyera, malo osangalatsa.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Ndimaphunzitsa ana anga chinthu chomwecho chimene amayi anandiphunzitsa: kuona mtima, udindo, kugwira ntchito mwakhama.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… chitsanzo chake, chidwi chenicheni pazochitika ndi dziko lamkati la mwana wake ndi chikondi - zopanda malire komanso zopanda malire.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Choyamba, sindimapuma, ndipo kachiwiri, chinthu chachikulu ndikugawa nthawi! Mayi wamakono amafunikira kuwongolera nthawi, apo ayi mutha "kudziyendetsa nokha", ndipo chachitatu, mudapeza kuti lingaliro loti ndili ndi nthawi yochita chilichonse ...

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Wazaka 39, woyang'anira zaluso, Mphunzitsi wa zamalonda wa zisudzo ku St.

mayi wa awiri

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ana anga ndi amene amandithandiza kwambiri. Tsopano moyo waukatswiri uli pachimake. Koma sizinali choncho nthawi zonse. Pamene mwana wamkazi womaliza Vasilisa adakali wamng’ono, mwana wamwamuna Mishka, amene panthaŵiyo anali kusukulu ya pulaimale, analemba m’nkhani yonena za makolo kuti: “Bambo anga ndi omanga, ndipo amayi amakhala pabedi ndi kompyuta tsiku lonse.” Zinali zosayembekezereka komanso zoopsa kwambiri! Zikuoneka kuti ana anga sangandinyadire. Inde, panali intaneti yambiri, koma inali njira yokhayo yodzisungira ndekha monga katswiri, ndipo moyo wanga wonse, wodzazidwa ndi matewera, sopo, kuyeretsa, sikunatanthauze kanthu kwa ana anga! Kwa miyezi ingapo ndinayenda ngati kuti ndaphwanyidwa ndi nyimboyi ... .. Koma panalibe njira yotulukira. Ndinkafuna kuti ana azindinyadira. Ndipo ndidachita msonkhano wanga woyamba wotsatsa zisudzo. Malingaliro, malingaliro, othandizana nawo, anthu osangalatsa ndi mizinda - zonse zidagwa pa ine ngati mvula yagolide! Ndipo ndinazindikira kuti zinali chonchi nthawi zonse. Anthu onsewa anali pafupi, sindinawamve, sindinawaone. Masiku ano, muzochita zanga zonse, Mishka ndi Vasilisa nthawi zonse amakhala pambali panga. Amagawa timapepala, amakhazikitsa masitepe, amakongoletsa ziwonetsero, amakonza malipoti a zithunzi ndi mapaketi atolankhani, kuthandizira pakumasulira kwa anzawo akunja. Iwo sanakane kundithandiza. Anzanga onse amadziwa Vasilisa ndi Mishka, amadziwa kuti ndili ndi gulu lothandizira lamphamvu. Ndipo tsopano mwana wanga wamkazi, akuyankha funso lomwelo la sukulu lonena za makolo, anabweretsa phunziro ku kalasi, lomwe linayamba ndi mawu akuti "Mayi anga ndi woyang'anira luso. Ndikakula, ndimafunitsitsa kukhala ngati mayi. “

Kodi phunziro lalikulu la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndi liti lomwe mungaphunzitse mwana wanu Pali phunziro lotero. Mwamuna m’nyumbamo ndi mfumu, mulungu ndi mtsogoleri wankhondo. Chikondi, mkwati, mverani ndikukhala chete pakafunika kutero. Ndipo ndithudi, pachiyambi penipeni, sankhani zomwezo. Kuti tisakayikire kusayenerera kwake komanso utsogoleri wake wosatsutsika.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna timafanana kwambiri m'mawonekedwe, ndipo ndi mwana wanga wamkazi - mu khalidwe. Ndi Mishka tili ndi kulimbana kosatha, ngakhale timakondana kwambiri. Ndikumva Vasilisa ngati tili ndi dongosolo limodzi lamanjenje kwa awiri. Koma iye ali m'badwo wotsatira. Zowonjezereka komanso zacholinga.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Khalani ndi udindo. Kwa inu nokha, okondedwa anu, zochita zanu.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala osangalala. Khalani otsimikiza mu bizinesi yanu, m'banja lanu. Ana ayenera kuwona nkhani zenizeni zopambana za makolo awo, azinyadira nazo.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Simudzakhala ndi nthawi ya chilichonse! Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani mukufuna zonse? Sangalalani ndi zomwe mungakhale nazo munthawi yake.

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Wazaka 45, mkulu wa bungwe lachifundo la Blue Bird

mayi wa ana asanu ndi mmodzi

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndinabereka mwana wanga woyamba ndili ndi zaka 20 - monga mkazi wamakhalidwe abwino ku USSR. Koma ndinamvadi ngati mayi zaka 10 zapitazo, pamene mwana wanga wolera Ilyusha anawonekera m’moyo wanga. Kungokonda mwana yemwe ali ndi magazi omwewo ndi inu mwachibadwa, olondola, odekha kumverera: wokondedwa ndi wodziwika bwino. Kumverera kwa umayi kwa mwana wa munthu wina yemwe mumamuvomereza ndikopadera. Ndikuthokoza mwana wanga chifukwa ali m'moyo wanga, chifukwa adanditsegula ndekha.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Ili ndi phunziro lankhanza kwambiri, koma ndi iye amene adandipanga chonchi. Ili ndi phunziro losiyana - muyenera kukonda ana anu! Kukhala pafupi nazo zonse. Dzazani nyumbayo mosamala ndi chisangalalo, anthu okondwa ndi nyama, maphwando osangalatsa komanso kukambirana moona mtima.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ngati tilemba zonse zofanana ndi zosiyana ndi ana anga, sitidzakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira. Ndimakonda kuti tonse ndife Banja lokhala ndi chilembo chachikulu ndipo timakhalira limodzi. Chinthu chokhacho ndi chakuti ine, mwinamwake, ndikumverera kwambiri. Ndilibe chiweruzo cha ana anga.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Khalani olemekezeka komanso odalirika, nthawi zina ngakhale odzipereka. Ndikukumbukira nkhani yotsatirayi: pamene Ilyusha anali m'kalasi yoyamba, adagwa ndikugunda, mphuno yake inali kutuluka magazi (ndipo popeza Ilyusha akudwala, kutaya magazi kungakhale koopsa kwambiri). Chinthu choyamba chimene anachita, pamene mphunzitsiyo anathamangira kwa iye, anamuimitsa ndi dzanja lotambasula ndi kunena kuti: “Usandiyandikire! Izi ndi zoopsa!” Kenako ndinazindikira: ndili ndi mwamuna weniweni kukula.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… chikondi chosanyengerera kwa ana anu. Chilichonse chomwe achita, chilichonse chomwe achita, amadziwa - ndiwalandira.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Sizingatheke! Ndikanakonda ndikanakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka yochitira banja langa, ana anga.

Nkhani ya mwana mmodzi

Anapeza Igor mwangozi - mu dzenje lakuda. M'chipinda chosiyidwa chopanda mazenera. Panali khomo lokhala ndi kapeti chabe. Kwa zaka zambiri osalipira, gasi, madzi ndi magetsi zidazimitsidwa kalekale. Pakatikati mwa "chipinda" panali zotsalira za sofa yomwe Igor, amayi ake, anthu ena omwe anabwera ku "dose" ndi galu anali kugona. Chinthu choyamba chimene chinachitika kwa munthu amene adawona chipinda ichi: mwana angapulumuke bwanji muzochitika izi, makamaka m'nyengo yozizira. Igor anadyetsedwa kokha ndi mkate ndi madzi.

Apolisi atabwera kunyumbako, mnyamatayo adapita naye kuchipatala cha matenda opatsirana. Kumakhala phokoso nthawi zonse m'chipinda cha ana osiyidwa: wina akusewera, wina akukwawa, wina akufuula mokweza kwa nanny. Pamene Igor adayambitsidwa, adagwidwa ndi mantha: anali asanawonepo kuwala kochuluka, zidole ndi ana. Iye anaima modabwa pakati pa chipindacho pamene mapazi ankamveka mukhonde. Chitseko chinatsegulidwa ndi mkazi wovala malaya oyera, ndipo Igor anamuyang'ana ndi maso ake amantha. Onse anali asanadziwe kuti moyo wawo udzasintha bwanji kuyambira nthawi imeneyo.

Anali kale ndi zaka ziwiri ndi theka, koma adayenda moyipa, osalankhula mawu, amawopa kugona mu crib, marigolds adakula pakhungu, makutu adatsukidwa ndi yankho lapadera, panalibe manambala. zokopa za purulent. Mwanayo atamva dzina lake, anakwera mpira n’kumadikirira kumenyedwa. Mwanayo sanazindikire dzina lake ngati dzina, mwachiwonekere, ankaganiza kuti ndi mfuu.

Pokhala m'chipatala nthawi zonse chifukwa cha ntchito zake zamaluso, adawona mnyamatayo tsiku ndi tsiku, amalankhula ndipo penapake mukuya kwa moyo wake adadziwa kuti sakanathanso. Madzulo, atatha kudyetsa banja, kuika ana pabedi, anawulukira kuchipatala kuti akawone Igor. Tsiku lina ndinaganiza zolankhula ndi mwamuna wanga. Kukambirana kunali kwautali komanso kovuta: mwanayo akudwala kwambiri, mavuto a nyumba, ana ake, kusakhazikika kwakuthupi - adanena chinthu chimodzi chokha: "Ndimamukonda."

Panopa mnyamatayo amakhala ndi banja lake. Tsopano ali ndi azichimwene ake, amayi, abambo, wonenepa, wovuta pug Yusya, akamba awiri Mashka ndi Dasha, komanso Aromani omwe amakuwa nthawi zonse. Pa Ubatizo Woyera, Amayi ndi Abambo anamupatsa dzina latsopano - malinga ndi kalendala - ndipo tsopano iwo anabatiza Ilya mu nyumba ya amonke.

Malinga ndi dongosolo lopewera, kuyezetsa kachulukidwe ka matenda a chiwindi kunachitika. Zozizwitsa sizinachitike - zizindikiro zikukula. Matenda a chiwindi C ndi okhawo mwa mitundu isanu ndi umodzi ya matenda a kutupa chiwindi, amene madokotala amawatcha kuti “wakupha munthu wachikondi” chifukwa chakuti nthendayo sioneka, koma kwenikweni ndi imfa yapang’onopang’ono. Palibe zitsimikizo. Ngati mumakumbukira nthawi zonse, mukhoza kupenga, ndipo Ilya safuna cholengedwa cholira ndi mikwingwirima pansi pa maso ake pafupi, koma mayi wachikondi yemwe angatonthoze ndi kupsompsona. Ndipo chilichonse chomwe chidzachitikire mwana wa blond uyu ndikumwetulira kwa mngelo woyipa - amayi amakhala pamenepo!

Lina Skvortsova, mayi wa Ilyusha.

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wazaka 27, General Director wa Corporation for Good.

mayi wa ana aamuna awiri

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Mwana wanga woyamba, Edward, anabadwa ndili ndi zaka 22, ndikumaliza maphunziro a yunivesite. Ndimakumbukira zochitika zambiri zomwe ndinali nazo: kukayikira za luso langa la makolo, mantha a kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo, nkhawa za tsogolo langa la ntchito. Koma mwanayo atangobadwa, nkhawa zonse zinazimiririka! Mwana wanga wina wamwamuna, Albert, posachedwa adzakhala ndi chaka chimodzi, ndipo ndimayembekezera kuti adzakhala munthu wosiyana kwambiri: wamkulu, wodekha komanso wodzidalira. Umayi ndi chochitika chapadera m'moyo momwe, monga momwe ziliri m'ntchito iliyonse, gawo la ntchito zachizoloŵezi ndi lalikulu kwambiri. Kwa ine ndekha, ndinapanga mfundo yofunika kwambiri: mayi wosangalala kwambiri, mwanayo amakhala wosangalala. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndinapanga kampani yangayanga momwe ndingatukule mwaukadaulo popanda kulumikizidwa ndi ntchito yamuofesi.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Sindikuganiza kuti n'zomveka kufotokozera mfundo za moyo wanga kwa mwana wanga: pambuyo pake, izi ndi zomwe ndinapanga chifukwa cha zochita zanga. Mu moyo wake zonse zikhoza kukhala zosiyana.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Sindinayesepo kupeza zofanana ndi zosiyana ndi ana anga.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Ndimalota kwambiri ndi ana ndikuwona ana akupanga luso ndi masewera awo. Ndikuwona ntchito yanga monga kholo kukhala pafupi ndi mwana momwe ndingathere malinga ngati kutengapo gawo kwanga ndi chithandizo chikufunika. Akamakula, ana anga amaphunzira kuchita ntchito zawo paokha, n’kumandiuza ngati kuli kofunikira.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… kukhala wodekha ndi wowona mtima m'malingaliro anu.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mayi athe kuika patsogolo molondola: zinthu zina ndizofunikira kwambiri, kukhazikitsidwa kwake kuyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale, chinachake chikhoza kuchitika ndi mwanayo, kuchepetsa chizolowezi. Amayi sayenera kukhala ndi nthawi yochita zonse okha, koma ayenera kuphunzira kupeza njira zothetsera mavuto: kukopa othandizira, kupatsa ena ntchito, kukana chinachake (mwinamwake kutsuka pansi kawiri pa tsiku sikofunikira, koma mphindi zisanu zokha ndi zamtengo wapatali). Diary imandithandiza m'moyo wanga, momwe ndimalemba ntchito ndi dzanja ndikulemba kuti zatha. Kuthandiza amayi - mapulogalamu a m'manja ndi mautumiki, makalendala ndi zikumbutso. Khalani okondwa ndi ogwirizana!

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Wazaka 36, ​​wamkulu wa dipatimenti yotsatsa

mayi wa mwana

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndinakhala mayi ndili ndi zaka 28! Mayi ndi munthu yekha padziko lapansi amene amatsagana ndi mwanayo kuyambira kubadwa mpaka imfa, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina amapatukana ndi mtunda wautali. Panthaŵiyi, ndimakumbukira mawu a m’nyimboyo: “Ngati amayi akadali ndi moyo, mukusangalala kuti padziko lapansi pali winawake, wodandaula, woti akupempherereni ...”. Moyo pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana umasintha mwachibadwa. Ndipo kuchokera ku zomverera - kwa nthawi yoyamba ndinamva ngati mkazi weniweni atangobereka kumene. Kumvetsetsa kunabwera kuti tsopano ndife banja lenileni, ndife omwe tsopano titha kupatsa kamwana kakang'ono kameneka padziko lonse lapansi, kudziwa zonse zomwe tikudziwa tokha - makamaka, panali ndipo tikhalabe ndi chidwi chachikulu pamoyo.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Khalani okonzeka pachilichonse ndikuchita zonse ndendende (m'lingaliro labata komanso molunjika, osati mosasamala). Yoyamba ndi yofunika kwambiri kuti munthu, kapena m’malo mwake, zisadalire mmene moyo wake ulili. Ndikofunika kukhala okonzekera zabwino ndi zoipa, zothandiza ndi zovulaza, zokondweretsa ndi zosasangalatsa, chifukwa anthu samapatsidwa kuti asankhe zomwe ayenera kukhala nazo. Anthu amapatsidwa ufulu wosankha zochita ndi zimene ali nazo. Komabe, si aliyense amene ali wokonzeka kuvomereza mmene zinthu zilili pamoyo wake. Kukhala ndi maganizo odekha ndi anzeru pa moyo kungathandize kupeza mayankho a mafunso ofunika kwambiri ndiponso kupewa kulakwa koopsa.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ana amatengera zonse zomwe zimachitika mozungulira: amatengera mawu, mayendedwe, manja, zochita. Ndipo kholo nthawi zonse limakhala ndipo lidzakhala chitsanzo chimenecho, munthu amene mwanayo amamuwona nthawi zonse za kukula kwake, akusonkhanitsa chidziwitso ndi zomveka.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Khalani malo otetezeka - pangani malo otetezeka kwa mwana wanu ndikuwonetsetsa kuti ubale wabwino ndi wokhalitsa wakhazikitsidwa pakati panu, konzani mwanayo ku moyo weniweni - mupatseni zomwe akufuna, osati zomwe akufuna, ndipo muthandizeni kumvetsa zomwe akufunikira. kumatanthauza kukhala mbali ya gulu lalikulu.

Mfundo yaikulu ya maphunziro - Izi… chitsanzo chaumwini.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? M'dziko lamakono, mkazi amafuna kudzizindikira yekha ngati mayi ndi mkazi wabwino, komanso kugwira ntchito, pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake zonse zopanga. Si chinsinsi kuti timasangalala tikatha kugwirizanitsa mbali zonse za moyo wathu ndikupereka nthawi yofunikira kwa aliyense wa iwo. Kuchokera pazochitika zanga ndikhoza kunena kuti mukhoza kuchita chirichonse ngati mukufuna. Ndili ndi mwana wamkazi mmodzi, ndipo sindinakhalepo mkazi wapakhomo m’lingaliro lachikale la mawuwa, kupatula patchuthi chakumayi. Chofunikira kwambiri ndikuyika zonse zomwe mumachita.

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Zaka 26, dokotala wa opaleshoni, mlangizi woyamwitsa

mayi wa ana aamuna awiri

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Nditangokumana ndi mkazi wanga, nthawi yomweyo ndinayamba kulota za banja lalikulu. Atangokwatirana, tinali ndi mwana wamwamuna, Gleb. Pamene Gleb anali ndi miyezi 8, ndinazindikira kuti ndinali ndi pakati. Ndipo ngakhale kuti tinamvetsetsa mmene zingakhalire zovuta kwa ife ndi ana a nyengo, nkhani imeneyi inalidi yosangalatsa! Choncho tili ndi mwana wina wamwamuna, Misha. Inde, moyo umasintha ndi kubadwa kwa ana. Sindikhala wochenjera, umayi sikophweka. Lingaliro la udindo wa makolo, nkhawa imabwera. Makhalidwe atsopano akubwera. Koma palinso mabonasi ambiri omwe amamveka kwa makolo okha: kumva fungo lachilengedwe la tsitsi la mwana wanu, kukhala ndi malingaliro osaneneka pakuwona kokha kwa mwana, kumva kukoma mtima panthawi yodyetsa. Ana amapereka fulcrum m'moyo - mumayamba kuzindikira kuti ndinu ndani, zomwe mwadzikundikira pazaka za moyo wanu komanso kuti zonsezi ndi chiyani.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Ndili ndi zaka 16, ine ndi amayi tinayamba kukambirana za ukwati. Amayi anandifunsa ngati ndikufuna kukwatiwa ndi mmene ndingasankhire mwamuna wanga. Ndinamuuza kuti ndikufuna kukwatiwa ndi mwamuna wolemera. Kenako anafota, mawu ake anasintha ndipo anafunsa kuti: “Koma nanga chikondi? Bwanji osanena kuti mukufuna kukwatira wokondedwa wanu? ” Kenako ndinamuuza kuti sindimakhulupirira za chikondi. Mayi anga atamva zimenezi analira n’kunena kuti chikondi ndi chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri chimene munthu angachipeze. Patapita zaka zingapo pamene ndinazindikira kuti anali wolondola. Ndinachita mwayi kuti ndimve maganizo amenewa nditakumana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanga. Ndimalota kuti ana anga amakondadi ndipo chikondichi chinali chapakati. Ndipo ndikuthokoza kwambiri amayi kuti adapeza mawu olondola omwe adasintha malingaliro anga adziko lapansi.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ndi mwana wamkulu (ndi molawirira kwambiri kuweruza za kufanana kapena kusiyana ndi wamng'ono), tili ndi psychotypes osiyana kotheratu - iye ndi tingachipeze powerenga introvert, ndipo m'malo mwake, ndine extrovert. Ndipo izi zimabweretsa zovuta pakumvetsetsa kwathu. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwa ine ndi iye. Koma ndimayesetsa kukhala mayi wabwino kwambiri kwa iye, kumvetsetsa ndi kuthandizira kuzindikira maluso ake onse, omwe, ndikutsimikiza, pali misa yonse. Koma ponena za kuyenda, mu izi ana anga aamuna awiri ndi ine ndi kopi - eni ake a mtengo wosatha wa mphamvu. Ndizomveka, zaphokoso, zachangu, koma zosangalatsa nafe!

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Ndikanena kuti timabweretsa mikhalidwe ina mwa ana athu azaka 2 ndi miyezi XNUMX, sizingakhale zoona. Ndimakhulupirira kuti makolo ayenera kudziphunzitsa okha, chifukwa ana amangowona chitsanzo ndikutengera khalidwe la makolo.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… chikondi chopanda malire. Mwana amene amakula ndi chikondi mumtima mwake amakhala munthu wamkulu wosangalala. Kuti tichite zimenezi, ife, makolo, tiyenera kukonda mwana mmene alili, limodzi ndi ubwino wake ndi kuipa kwake.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Pokhala patchuthi chakumayi ndi ana awiri a nyengo, ndimachita zambiri: Ndinamaliza maphunziro a kuyamwitsa, tsopano ndikuthandiza amayi kuthetsa mavuto okhudzana ndi kuyamwitsa, ndimapita kukachita masewera, ndimaphunzira zilankhulo zakunja, ndimaphunzira pasukulu yapaintaneti yojambula zithunzi. , ndimatsogolera gulu la amayi a Krasnodar ndi m'mphepete mwa instagram (@instamkr), kukonza misonkhano ndi zochitika ndikusunga mwachangu tsamba langa la Instagram @kozina__k, komwe ndimagawana zomwe ndakumana nazo paubwana wanga, kufalitsa zolemba zanga zoyamwitsa, kuchititsa mipikisano yopumira ya ana komanso zambiri. Ndipanga bwanji?! Ndi zophweka - ndimayesetsa kuika patsogolo molondola, kukonzekera zonse mosamala (diary ndi wothandizira wanga wamkulu) ndikukhala ndi kupuma pang'ono.

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Wazaka 31, wazamankhwala, wophunzitsa zolimbitsa thupi

mayi wa mwana

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndinkagwira ntchito pakampani ina yaikulu yopanga mankhwala. Ndipo inali ntchito yosangalatsa kwambiri: anthu atsopano, maulendo okhazikika abizinesi, galimoto yoyamba m'moyo wanga yomwe kampaniyo idandipatsa. Inde, ndipo ine ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanga sitili okonda misonkhano yapakhomo: osadikirira kumapeto kwa sabata, ndinatolera PPP (* zofunika) ndikuthamangira kwinakwake ngati chipolopolo. Koma zaka 2 zapitazo, moyo unasintha kwambiri. Mwana wathu Ilya anabadwa, anasintha ukwati wathu kukhala banja lenileni. Kodi ndasintha? Inde, anatembenuza maganizo anga madigiri 360! Maonekedwe ake adandigwedeza ndipo adawonetsa kuthekera kwanga. Moyo watsopano wayamba, wodzazidwa ndi mphindi zowala komanso "zosangalatsa"! Ndikuthokoza kwa Ilya komanso kutenga nawo mbali mwachindunji kuti polojekiti yathu ya @Fitness_s_baby insta iwonekere: pulojekiti yokhudzana ndi momwe mayi angakhalire owoneka bwino pamene mwana wamng'ono ali m'manja mwake.

Kodi phunziro lalikulu la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kuchokera kwa amayi anu ndi liti lomwe mungaphunzitse mwana wanu. Pali moyo umodzi wokha. Khalani ndi moyo mphindi iliyonse! Osadziikira malire, musakhale odzipatula mkati mwa malire anu. Yang'anani mokulirapo: dziko lapansi ndi lalikulu komanso lokongola! Khalani otseguka ku chilichonse chatsopano - pokhapokha mutapuma mozama ndikutha kukhala ndi moyo wokongola, wowala, weniweni!

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ndikuganiza kuti mayi aliyense amasangalala kunena kuti mwanayo ndi kamwana kake. Ndipo inenso ndine wosiyana ndi ena! Mwana wathu wamwamuna ali ngati ine ndi mwamuna wanga: mawonekedwe ake ndi kumwetulira kwake kuli ngati abambo. Koma akamagwedera ndikukweza nsidze yake yakumanja mwamachenjera - sindingathe kumwetulira - pambuyo pake, ichi ndi chithunzi changa chenicheni!

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Pakalipano, mwina kuleza mtima kokha. Komanso, zimagwirizana ndi makolo awo. Chifukwa pokhudzana ndi anthu ena komanso makamaka ana, Ilya ndi wololera: mwachitsanzo, sadzachotsa chidole kwa mwana wina. Mukuganiza kuti samamufuna? Inde, ndithudi! Komabe ngati pakufunika. Koma ali ndi njira yakeyake yopanda vuto: amangondigwira dzanja ndikundikokera ku chidole cha wina. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mayi ayenera kumwetulira ndipo m'njira iliyonse amayesa kukopa mwiniwake wa chidolecho, kuti "aloledwe kusewera."

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… chikondi, kuleza mtima ndi kukhwima koyenera. Koma chofunika kwambiri ndi chitsanzo chathu. Kodi mukufuna kuti mwana wanu ayambe kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse pamoyo wake? Choncho yambani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi!

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Nkhani yomwe ndimakonda kwambiri! Amayi sayenera kuganiza kuti "mwanayo agona ndipo ndipita kukachita bizinesi." Izi zimadzadza ndi kutopa, kupsinjika maganizo komanso kutopa kosatha. Pamene mwanayo akugona, gonani pafupi naye, khalani omasuka, werengani buku, onerani kanema. Ndipo yesani kuchita zinthu limodzi ndi mwana wanu. Pamene Ilya anali wamng'ono, ndinamuyika pafupi naye m'chipinda chochezera ana ndipo ndinachita ntchito yanga pamaso pake. Ngati anapempha manja ake, ankatenga n’kumachita zimene akanatha m’manja mwake. Mwa njira, kulankhulana pa Instagram ndi zikwi za amayi, ndinazindikira kuti ambiri amachita izi! Inde, mwana sangayankhe nthawi zonse ndikumvetsetsa zomwe "mukufunikira". Yesani kulankhula naye. Mwanayo sangamvetse mawuwo, koma mawu anu okhutiritsa adzamukhudza. Ndipo ngati sichigwira ntchito, chabwino, ndiye kuti sichikukhutiritsa. Zikatero, pumirani mozama, pumulani, chotsani zinthu zanu zonse ndikupeza chisangalalo chenicheni polankhulana ndi munthu wokondedwa kwambiri padziko lapansi!

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Zaka 31, katswiri wa zamaganizo kwa amayi, wofufuza za ubale wa makolo ndi ana, wotsogolera ntchito ya SunFamily ndi forum ya amayi achichepere (adzachitikira ku Krasnodar pa Novembara 29, 2015), akukonzekera misonkhano, masemina, makalasi ambuye a amayi apakati.

Mayi wa ana awiri

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndili ndi zaka 23, pamene mwana wanga wamkazi adawonekera pansi pa mtima wanga, ndinawerenga zambiri za momwe ndingakhalire ndi mwana mosavuta komanso mosangalala, ndikudziwonetsera ndekha osati ngati mayi. Ndinawerenga, kuphunzira, kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri kotero kuti umayi unakhala ntchito yanga yapadera. Kotero zikuwoneka kuti kwa zaka zoposa 8 ndakhala ndikuchita ndikukonzekera misonkhano, masemina, maphunziro a MAM, aliyense payekha ndikulangiza ndi kuthandizira mayi aliyense panjira ya amayi ake, mantha ake, kukayikira, nkhani za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku mpaka kulera. Ndimagawana zomwe ndili nazo. Ndipo ndimapeza chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo m'moyo wanga: Ndimasilira mwamuna wanga, ubale wathu, ndikulera ana awiri (tikukonzekera zambiri), ndimalankhulana, ndimachita ntchito zamanja ndi anzanga, ndimadzizindikira ndekha m'ntchito zamagulu ndi zamalonda, ndi zina zotero. .

Kodi phunziro lalikulu la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndi liti lomwe mungaphunzitse mwana wanu Mayi anga anasiya moyo umenewu kalekale, koma ndimawakumbukira kuti anali wachikondi, wachifundo komanso wolimbikira ntchito. Kuchita kwake kunali kodabwitsa kwa ine: adadzuka m'mawa kwambiri, adakwanitsa kuphika chakudya cham'mawa, kudyetsa aliyense, kupita kukagwira ntchito molimbika, ndipo madzulo adayang'anira nyumba yayikulu. Pamene ndinali wachinyamata, sindinathe kuvomereza njira ya moyo wake - ndinawona momwe zinaliri zovuta kwa iye. Tsopano, zaka zambiri pambuyo pake, ambiri akudabwa ndi moyo wanga wokangalika. Inde, ndithudi, ndimachita zinthu zambiri m'nyumba, m'banja, m'moyo wamagulu, ndi kusiyana kumodzi kokha, ndimayesetsa kuchita zomwe ndimakonda, mokondwera, mokondwera, mumayendedwe anga. Izi ndi zomwe ndimapereka kwa ana anga.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Ndimakonda kunena kuti "ana ndi chithunzi chathu." Ndipo alipo. Ngati mutengabe zinthu zina, ndiye kuti ine ndi mwana wanga wamkazi timafanana kwambiri ngakhale pamawonekedwe. Ndiwokoma mtima, amafunitsitsa kuthandiza, kukonza zinthu, ndipo nthawi zina sakhala m'malingaliro, monga ine. Iye ndi wosiyana ndi kusinthasintha kwake, kupepuka, kusewera, zomwe ndikuphunzira m'moyo wanga. Ndi mwana wanga, ndimamva ubale wochulukirapo mu mphamvu ndi kuthekera kokwaniritsa cholinga changa.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Kwa ine, chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti ana anga azikhala osangalala. Kodi munthu angakhale bwanji wosangalala ngati pali zokwera ndi zotsika, chisoni ndi chisangalalo, mkwiyo ndi kukoma mtima? Ndimaona chisangalalo pokhala weniweni, kudzivomereza ndekha ndi ena momwe alili.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… lolani mwanayo kumva kuti ndi ife akhoza kukhala weniweni. Ndiye kuvomereza uku kumathandizira kukhala wathunthu, ndi pachimake, chogwirizana ndi iweyo ndi ena. Ndipamene ana athu ali ndi mwayi osakhala osangalala mwaubwana, komanso amakula kukhala munthu wosangalala, wokhwima, wopambana, wachikondi ndi wokondedwa.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? "Amayi Opambana" ndi dzina la imodzi mwa maphunziro anga a nthawi yosamalira amayi. 1. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti ndizosatheka "kugwira chilichonse". 2. Kutha kugawanso zofunika osati choncho. 3. Dzisamalireni nokha, mudzazidwe ndi malingaliro abwino. 4. Plan! Ngati simukukonzekera nthawi yanu, idzadzaza, koma osati ndi mapulani anu.

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Wazaka 24, manejala

mayi wa mwana

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Anakhala mayi ali ndi zaka 23. Pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwanayo, moyo unasintha kwambiri, unapeza mitundu yatsopano. Nthawi zonse sindinadzipeze ndekha, ndipo pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa Mark, chisokonezo chinabwera pamodzi. Iye ndiye wondilimbikitsa, zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti ubongo wanga supumula tsopano, malingaliro atsopano amawonekera nthawi zonse ndipo ndikufuna kubweretsa chilichonse kukhala chamoyo. Ndili ndi chokonda - kutengera dongo la polima. Ndi bungwe la misonkhano ya zithunzi kwa amayi a Krasnodar kuti akumane ndi amayi ndi ana.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Amayi anga nthawi zonse amandiphunzitsa kusangalala ndi moyo ndikupeza zabwino mu chilichonse, ndiyesetsa kufotokozera izi kwa mwana wanga.

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Zikuoneka ngati sitikukhala phee. Mark ndi munthu wamng'ono yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lankhanza, nthawi zonse amaumirira yekha, sakonda kukoma mtima konse. Ndipo ndine mtsikana wodekha, wosatetezeka, ndinganene chiyani.

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Ndimaphunzitsa kukhala wokoma mtima, wachifundo, kuthandiza okondedwa, kukhala wokhoza kugaŵana nawo.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… kusunga kulinganizika kwa chikondi ndi kukhwima m’banja.

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Kuti muchite zonse, muyenera kugawa bwino nthawi ndikusunga diary. Mwanayo atangotulukira, ndinayamba kuzolowerana naye. Anthu ambiri amandifunsa kuti: "Kodi mumatha bwanji kuchita chilichonse, mwina amakhala wodekha, amakhala yekha kusewera?" Chani? Ayi! Mark ndi mnyamata wokangalika kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse amafuna chidwi, ngati ndili wotanganidwa kwa mphindi zoposa ziwiri ndi chinthu china pamaso pake, ndi tsoka. Choncho, muyenera kugawa bwino mndandanda wa zochita.

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Zaka 33, wamkulu wa kampani yoyendayenda, mphunzitsi ku KSUFKST, woyambitsa

mayi wa awiri

Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu, moyo ndi maganizo zasintha bwanji mwana atabadwa? Ndinakhala mayi ndili ndi zaka 27 ndi 32. Izi zisanachitike, nthawi zonse ndimayang'ana mwachidwi anthu omwe amangosintha dzina langa ndi ife, koma nditatha kuwoneka mwana m'moyo wanga, ndinazindikira kuti ndiyenera kutero. gawo ndi ambiri a egoism wanga. Sizinali zovuta, ndinayamba kukondana naye poyamba, koma mungatani chifukwa cha mwamuna wanu wokondedwa?! Nthawi zambiri, moyo wanga wasinthiratu: Ndidakhala wodekha pa mafunso opusa komanso kulolera upangiri wanzeru. Kodi kukhala mayi kumatanthauza chiyani? Sindikudziwa! Ndikuganiza kuti ndilibe chidziwitso chokwanira. Tiyeni tikambirane izi pambuyo pa mwana wachitatu.

Kodi ndi phunziro lotani la moyo lomwe mwaphunzira kwa amayi anu ndipo mungaphunzitse mwana wanu? Mayi anga ankakhala chifukwa cha ana awo komanso ana awo. Msungwana wokongola komanso wanzeru kwambiri - sanaganizire za chisangalalo chake! Ndipo ndili mwana ndinali ndidakali wansanje! Ndikayang’ana m’mbuyo, mowonjezereka ndimafika potsimikiza kuti makolo abwino koposa ali makolo achimwemwe! Ndidzaphunzitsa ana anga kudzikonda ndi kusangalala!

Kodi mumafanana bwanji ndi mwana wanu, ndipo simufanana m’njira ziti? Kodi timafanana bwanji? Timakhalanso ndi nthabwala zofanana ndi mkulu. Nthawi zambiri timakonda kuseka wina ndi mnzake. Timachitanso masewera amodzi - kick boxing. Zokonda zathu zokha zimasiyana, tikamapita ku nkhomaliro Lamlungu, mwana wathu amalamula "pizza ndi tchizi" (ndipo ndikutsutsana ndi mtanda), ndipo ndine nsomba yake yokazinga, koma m'banja mwathu muli demokalase, chabwino, pafupifupi. Ndipo mwana wamng’onoyo ndi woopsa kwambiri, chibadwireni amatiyang’ana ngati kuti ndife amisala. Mwina mukuganiza kuti: “Ndikafika kuti? Ndipo zinthu zanga zili kuti? “

Kodi mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu makhalidwe ati? Sindiwauza ana anga zabwino ndi zoipa. Ndipotu, nthawi zina zovuta kwambiri kupeza 10 kusiyana. Ndimangolankhula nawo kuyambira tsiku loyamba la iwo, pamitu yosiyana. Mkulu (Timur) nthawi zambiri amandifunsa maganizo anga, koma amatengera maganizo ake. Masomphenya athu a dziko lapansi sali ofanana nthawi zonse, ndipo ndikusangalala nazo. Nthaŵi zina ndimasintha maganizo nditamvetsera zonena zake zosatsutsika.

Mfundo yayikulu yamaphunziro ndi… kulankhulana ndi ana mofanana!

Amayi angachite bwanji zonse? Sindili m’gulu la amayi amene amayesa kuchita chilichonse paokha. Pambuyo pake, ndimakhala pansi pa mawu akuti: amayi abwino kwambiri ndi amayi okondwa! Ndipo kwa ine, chisangalalo ndi chakudya cha zomwe ndimakonda, maulendo osangalatsa, kukumbatirana kwamphamvu kwa amuna komanso kutentha kwa manja a ana akubadwa.

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