Milandu yochitidwa ndi opha anthu ambiri amawopseza anthu mamiliyoni ambiri. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Katherine Ramsland anayesa kufufuza momwe amayi a zigawenga amamvera pa milanduyi.
Makolo opha ana amakhala ndi maganizo osiyanasiyana pa zimene ana awo anachita. Ambiri a iwo amachita mantha: samamvetsetsa momwe mwana wawo angatembenukire kukhala chilombo. Koma ena amatsutsa mfundozo ndipo amateteza ana mpaka mapeto.
Mu 2013, Joanna Dennehy anapha amuna atatu ndikuyesa ena awiri. Atamangidwa, adavomereza kuti adachita zolakwa izi kuti "awone ngati ali ndi mphamvu zochitira." Mu selfie ndi matupi a ozunzidwa, Joanna adawoneka wokondwa kwambiri.
Makolo a Dennehy anakhala chete kwa zaka zingapo, mpaka amayi ake a Kathleen anaganiza zouza atolankhani kuti: “Anapha anthu, ndipo kwa ine kulibenso. Uyu si Joe wanga." Pokumbukira amayi ake, adakhalabe mtsikana waulemu, wansangala komanso womvera. Msungwana wokoma uyu adasintha kwambiri ali wachinyamata pomwe adayamba chibwenzi ndi mwamuna yemwe anali wamkulu kwambiri. Komabe, Kathleen sankaganiza n’komwe kuti mwana wakeyo adzakhala wakupha. “Dziko lidzakhala lotetezeka ngati Joanna sakhala mmenemo,” iye anavomereza motero.
"Ted Bundy sanaphe akazi ndi ana. Chikhulupiriro chathu mu kusalakwa kwa Tad sichidzatha ndipo chidzakhalapo nthawi zonse, "Louise Bundy anauza News Tribune, ngakhale kuti mwana wake anali ataulula kale kupha anthu awiri. Louise adauza atolankhani kuti Ted anali "mwana wamwamuna wabwino kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, wowona mtima, wodalirika komanso wokonda kwambiri abale ndi alongo."
Malinga ndi mayiyo, ozunzidwawo ndi omwe ali ndi mlandu: adanyoza mwana wake, koma ali womvera
Louise adavomereza kuti mwana wake wamwamuna anali wakupha pambuyo pololedwa kumvera tepi ya kuvomereza kwake, koma ngakhale pamenepo sanamukane. Mwana wake ataweruzidwa kuti aphedwe, Louise anatsimikizira kuti “adzakhalabe mwana wake wokondedwa kosatha.”
Atamangidwa chaka chatha, Todd Kolchepp adapempha kuti awone amayi ake asanasaine chivomerezo. Anamupempha chikhululukiro ndipo adamukhululukira "wokondedwa Todd, yemwe anali wanzeru komanso wokoma mtima komanso wowolowa manja".
Malinga ndi mayiyo, ozunzidwawo ndi omwe ali ndi mlandu: adanyoza mwana wake, koma ali womvera. Zikuoneka kuti waiwala kuti nayenso anamuopseza kuti amupha. Amayi ake a Colhepp akukana kuyitana zokopa. Amabwereza kuti zonse zidachitika chifukwa cha mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo, ndipo samawona mwana wake ngati wakupha, ngakhale kuti kupha anthu asanu ndi awiri kwatsimikiziridwa kale ndipo ena ambiri akufufuzidwa.
Makolo ambiri amayesa kupeza chifukwa chimene ana awo akhalira zilombo. Amayi a Kansas wakupha Dennis Rader, yemwe sanagwidwe kwazaka zopitilira 30, samakumbukira chilichonse chodabwitsa kuyambira ali mwana.
Makolo nthawi zambiri sazindikira zomwe anthu akunja amawona. Wopha seri Jeffrey Dahmer anali mwana wamba, kapena amayi ake akuti. Koma aphunzitsi ankamuona kuti ndi wamanyazi komanso wosasangalala. Mayiyo akutsutsa izi ndipo akunena kuti Geoffrey sankakonda sukulu, ndipo kunyumba sankawoneka ngati woponderezedwa komanso wamanyazi.
Amayi ena ankaona kuti chinachake sichili bwino ndi mwanayo, koma sankadziwa choti achite
M’malo mwake, amayi ena ankaona kuti chinachake chalakwika ndi mwanayo, koma sankadziwa choti achite. Dylan Roof, yemwe posachedwapa amulamula kuti aphedwe pa mlandu wopha anthu XNUMX pa mpingo wina wa Methodist ku South Carolina, wakhala akukwiya kwa nthawi yaitali ndi atolankhani ankhaninkhani zokhudza tsankho.
Amayi a Dylan, Amy, atadziwa za nkhaniyi, anakomoka. Atachira, adawonetsa ofufuzawo kamera ya mwana wake. Memory khadi munali zithunzi zambiri za Dylan ndi zida ndi mbendera ya Confederate. M’mabwalo amilandu, mayiyo anapempha chikhululukiro chifukwa chosaletsa mlanduwo.
Azimayi ena amakaperekanso apolisi opha ana. Geoffrey Knobble atawonetsa amayi ake kanema wakupha munthu wamaliseche, sanafune kukhulupirira m'maso mwake. Koma pozindikira kuti mwana wakeyo anapalamula mlandu ndipo sananong’oneze bondo ngakhale pang’ono, anathandiza apolisi kupeza ndi kumanga Jeffrey ndipo mpaka anachitira umboni womutsutsa.
N’zotheka kuti zimene makolo amachita atamva zoti mwana wawo ndi chilombo zimadalira miyambo ya m’banja lawo komanso mmene makolo ndi ana ankakhalira limodzi. Ndipo uwu ndi mutu wosangalatsa komanso wochulukirapo pakufufuza.
Za Wolemba: Katherine Ramsland ndi pulofesa wa psychology pa yunivesite ya DeSalce ku Pennsylvania.