Makolo amalota kupita ku Costa Rica kukalera ana awo awiri "kunja kwa dongosolo".

Kusuntha kwa kubwerera ku chilengedwe kukukula ndikukula m'magulu amakono. Zoona, mlingo wa kubwerera uku kungakhale kosiyana: wina amakana katemera, munthu maphunziro kusukulu, munthu mankhwala ndi kubala m'chipatala, ndi munthu zonse mwakamodzi.

Adele ndi Matt Allen amatcha njira yawo yolerera No Bars. Zimabwera ku chilengedwe - chokwanira, chotheratu komanso changwiro. Allens amakana maphunziro ndi mankhwala amakono, koma amakhulupirira kwambiri kuyamwitsa. Adele adayamwitsa mwana wake woyamba, mwana wamwamuna Ulysses, mpaka atakwanitsa zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi. Kenako, malinga ndi kunena kwa mkaziyo, iye mwiniyo anakana. Mtsikana wamng'ono kwambiri dzina lake Ostara ali ndi zaka ziwiri. Akuyamwitsidwabe.

Adele anabala ana onse kunyumba. Ndi mwamuna wake yekha amene analipo. Monga akunena, adadana ndi lingaliro lomwelo lopita kuchipatala kukabereka. Choyamba, ankaopa kuti madokotala angayese kusokoneza njira yachibadwa yobereka mwana. Chachiwiri, sanakonde kuti munthu wina panja amuyang'ane pa nthawi ngati imeneyi.

Komanso, Adele ankachita kubadwa kwa lotus - ndiko kuti, chingwe cha umbilical sichinadulidwe mpaka atagwa yekha. Kholo linkawazidwa mchere kuti lisawonongeke, komanso maluwa amaluwa kuti abise fungo. Patatha masiku asanu ndi limodzi, chingwe cha umbilical chinagwera chokha.

“Unali mchombo wabwino kwambiri,” Adele akusangalala. "Mumangofunika kusunga placenta kukhala yoyera."

Makolo amatsimikiza kuti kubadwa kunyumba ndi kotetezeka. Komanso, amanena kuti sadziwa za milandu pamene chinachake chalakwika.

Ulysses nthawi zonse ankalemera mwa kudyetsa mkaka wa m'mawere. Pamene mlongo wake anabadwa, mnyamatayo sanasangalale - pambuyo pake, tsopano anali ndi mkaka wochepa. Ndipo patapita zaka ziwiri, anaganiza kuti watopa.

Ana a Adele ndi Matt anali asanapiteko kuchipatala. Sanalandire katemera. Chimfine chimachiritsidwa ndi madzi a mandimu, matenda a maso - mwa kuwaza mkaka wa m'mawere m'maso, ndi matenda ena onse amathandizidwa ndi zitsamba.

“Sindikuona chifukwa choikira zinthu zachilendo m’mwazi wa ana. Muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zomera, zitsamba, - ndiye thupi lanu lidzatha kugonjetsa mabakiteriya oipa osati kuvulaza abwino, "Adele ndi wotsimikiza.

Amayi ali otsimikiza: sadzasowa kukaonana ndi dokotala. Malingaliro ake, palibe matenda omwe sangathe kuthana nawo popanda chithandizo chamankhwala ovomerezeka.

“Ngakhale nditakhala ndi khansa, ndikanalimbana nayo ndi mankhwala achilengedwe. Ndikukhulupirira kuti akhoza kuchiza chilichonse. Zitsamba zandithandiza kangapo. Thanzi la ana ndi lofunika kwa ine monganso langa. Chifukwa chake, ndiwachitira monga momwe ndimadzichitira ndekha, "akutero Adele.

Mfundo ina ya dongosolo Allen analeredwa ndi kugona pamodzi. Tonse anayi timagona pabedi limodzi.

"Ndizothandiza kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri timagoneka ana kaye. Ulysses amagona mochedwa, koma popeza safunika kupita kusukulu, ili si vuto - amadzuka akagona, "akutero Allen.

Ndipo tinafika pa mfundo yachisanu kuchokera pamndandanda wa njira zophunzitsira za banja lino - palibe sukulu. M’malo mokhala pa madesiki awo, Ulysses ndi Ostara amathera nthaŵi panja ndi kuphunzira zomera. Kupatula apo, iwo ndi ma vegans, ndikofunikira kuti adziwe zomwe angadye ndi zomwe ayi.

“N’kofunika kwa ife kuti ana azilankhulana ndi chilengedwe, zomera ndi zinyama, osati ndi zoseŵeretsa zapulasitiki,” makolowo akutsimikizira motero.

Adele amanyadira kuti mwana wake wamkazi wazaka ziwiri amatha kale kusiyanitsa chodyedwa ndi chomera chosadyedwa.

Mayi ake anati: “Amakonda kutchera pansi, kuseŵera ndi masamba.

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Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, makolo amazindikira kuti luso la kuŵerenga ndi kulemba n’lothandiza kwa ana. Koma sangaphunzitse Ulysses ndi Ostara mwachikhalidwe: "Amakonda kale zilembo ndi manambala. Amawawona pazikwangwani zamsewu, mwachitsanzo, amawafunsa kuti ndi chiyani. Zikuoneka kuti kuphunzira kumabwera mwachibadwa. Ndipo chidziwitso chimakakamizika kwa ana kusukulu, ndipo izi sizingalimbikitse kuphunzira. “

Njira yosankhidwa ndi makolo, ngati ikugwira ntchito, siili yochenjera: pofika zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, Ulysses amadziwa zilembo ndi manambala ochepa chabe. Koma zimenezi sizimavutitsa makolo n’komwe: “Ana amene anaphunzitsidwa kumudzi amayenera kuchita bwino monga amalonda m’tsogolo. Izi zili choncho chifukwa amamvetsetsa kuyambira pachiyambi kuti akufuna kumanga bizinesi yawo, osati kukhala kapolo wa munthu wina. “

Malingaliro a Adele adziwika kuti ndi otchuka ku England: ali ndi blog yopambana kwambiri yokhudza ubereki wake. Banja losazolowerekalo linaitanidwa kuti lilowe m’nkhani ya pa TV. Koma zotsatira zake zinali zosayembekezereka: ana "achilengedwe" sanakhudze omvera konse. Ulysses ndi Ostara anali osalamulirika kwenikweni, amakhala ngati ankhanza ang'onoang'ono - adapanga phokoso la nyama, adathamangira kuzungulira studio ndipo pafupifupi kukwera pamitu ya makamu. Makolowo analephera kuwakhazika mtima pansi. Ndipo zonse zidatha ndi mtsikanayo atadzinyowa pothawa - omvera adawona kuti chithaphwi chikufalikira momuzungulira ...

“Ndizowopsa. Pambuyo pake, ndi osalamulirika, samamvetsetsa kuti chilango ndi kuleredwa ndi chiyani, "- omwe analipo sanakondwere konse" ndi "ana".

Zikuoneka kuti Ulysses ndi Ostara sankazolowera kuona anthu ambiri mozungulira, ndipo sanathe kulimbana ndi mantha aakulu. Ndipo maphunziro popanda zoletsedwa ndi chinthu chotsutsana.

Ana timawalemekeza ngati ofanana nawo. Sitingathe kuwayitanitsa - titha kuwapempha china chake, "adatero Adele.

Zinafika pamene omvera anapempha akuluakulu oyang'anira kuti amvetsere banja la Allen. Iwo, komabe, sanapeze chilichonse chodandaula - ana ali athanzi, okondwa, nyumba ndi yoyera - ndipo anasiya makolo awo okha.

Tsopano a Allens akupeza ndalama kuti apite ku Costa Rica. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti kumeneko kokha kumene angakhoze kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana kotheratu ndi mapulinsipulo awo.

“Tikufuna kukhala ndi gawo lalikulu lolimako chakudya. Tikufuna malo ambiri pozungulira, tikufuna kukhala ndi nyama zakuthengo momwe zimakhalira, ”akutero Allens.

Banja lilibe ndalama zosamukira kumalekezero ena a dzikolo. Ntchito yolemba mabulogu ya Adele sikubweretsa ndalama zokwanira. Chifukwa chake, a Allens adalengeza zopereka: akufuna kukweza mapaundi zana. Zowona, sanapeze yankho - sanathe kusonkhanitsa ngakhale khumi peresenti ya ndalamazi.

Siyani Mumakonda