Psychology

Mwa makalata 10 ofunsira kukambirana, 9 ali ndi pempho lolakwika: "momwe mungachotsere, momwe mungasinthire, momwe mungasinthire, momwe munganyalanyaze ..." Kukhazikitsa zolinga zolakwika ndi matenda omwe makasitomala athu amakumana nawo. Ndipo ntchito yathu, ntchito ya alangizi, ndikuzolowera makasitomala, m'malo molankhula zomwe sakonda, zomwe akufuna kuchoka, kupanga zomwe akufuna, zomwe akufuna kubwera, kuwazolowera. kukhazikitsa zolinga moyenera.

Ziyeneranso kuganiziridwa kuti zopempha zoipa za makasitomala zimawatsogolera mosavuta, kufunafuna zifukwa m'malo mofufuza njira zothetsera mavuto, kufufuza kosapindulitsa kwa mavuto mwa iwo okha.

Zitsanzo za mawu olakwika:

Ndikufuna kumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe ndalama zanga sizikukula

Makasitomala: Ndikufuna kudziwa chifukwa chomwe ndalama zanga sizikukula.

Mlangizi: Mukufuna kudziwa chifukwa chomwe ndalama zanu sizikukula, kapena mukufuna kuyamba kuchitapo kanthu kuti ndalama zanu zikule?

Wothandizira: Inde, ndiko kulondola. Sindikufuna kuzilingalira, ndikufuna kuti ndalama zanga zikule.

Mlangizi : Chabwino, koma bwanji, mukuganiza kuti izi zichitike bwanji?

Wothandizira: Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti ndaimirira, osatukuka. Ndiyenera kudziwa choti ndichite kuti ndisayime.

Osati bwanji kulabadira gu.e.sti awo?

Mwana wanga wamkazi ali ndi zaka 13 ndipo wakhala akuvutika kuyankhulana kuyambira giredi yoyamba, amangonyalanyaza, ali ngati munthu wamba. Zikuoneka kuti sachita chilichonse choipa, koma amaopa kale kunena chinachake kwa wina, kuti asamunyozenso. Ndinalankhula ndi atsikana a m’kalasimo, koma sanganene motsimikiza. Nthawi zonse amakhala wokhumudwa, ndipo inenso ndimakhala chifukwa cha iye. Ndikufuna malangizo amomwe ndingamufotokozere kuti aphunzire kuti asawazindikire, asakhumudwe, osalabadira gu.e.sti zawo.

Kodi mungasiye bwanji kukhala parasite?

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Wokondedwa Nikolai Ivanovich, momwe mungasinthire kukhala PARASITE, ndadwala kale (((Ndimagwira ntchito, ndimadzipatula kwambiri, IMHO, koma ndimakonda kuchita zomwe ndimakonda, osati zomwe ndizofunikira kwambiri ntchito, ndi zodabwitsa (koma, mwachiwonekere, osati kwa tiziromboti), pamene chinachake sichiyeneranso kuchita, ine kachiwiri kuthengo ndikufuna kuchita izo, kumene mizu ya chodabwitsa kudzikonda, mmene kudzipatula ndi kuwononga iwo, kapena tiyenera kusintha "dongosolo" lonse ndikuchita mwachindunji ndi izi palibe chifukwa?

Funso lina, mungandiuze momwe ndingathetsere mantha opusa "Ndidzapita ku masewera (mpaka pano ndikuwoneka kuti ndine wochepa thupi komanso wathanzi, koma sindikusamala), ndimadwala mwadzidzidzi, ndi khama lonse. zawonongeka, palibe chomwe chingachitike, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti musayambe, koma kukhala ndi nthawi yochita zinthu zofunika kwambiri ndikulipidwa nthawi yomweyo, monga mabuku”? Zowona, mantha awa alipo, uku ndi kugula, chabwino? amamenyana bwanji?

Kodi kuchotsa kudzikonda kukumba?

Kuyambira zaka 13, kumverera kwakudziwikiratu sikuchoka, zomwe zalembedwa m'nkhani yanu zikufotokozera momveka bwino za chikhalidwe changa, chirichonse chimadzibwereza ngati bwalo. Kodi kuchotsa izo? Kodi mungasiye bwanji kudzifananiza ndi anthu ena, kusiya kuchita nsanje komanso kuchita zinthu mwanzeru? Chifukwa chiyani? Maganizo amenewa mukuwatenga kuti???

Siyani Mumakonda