Njira ya Option® (Option Process®) ndi njira yakukula kwamunthu yomwe idapangidwa ndi American Barry Neil Kaufman yomwe ikufuna kukhetsa machitidwe ake oyipa ndikusankha chisangalalo. Patsambali, mupeza kuti njirayo ndi chiyani, mfundo zake, mbiri yake, maubwino ake, nthawi ya gawo komanso maphunziro ofunikira kuti muyesere.

Njira ya Option imatanthauzidwa pamwamba pa zonse ngati njira yakukula kwa munthu. Njira zake zosiyanasiyana zimafuna, mwachidule, kupeza njira zosiyanasiyana zopezera chisangalalo m'malo movutikira, m'mikhalidwe yambiri. Iwo ali ndi mbali yochizira. Amati mapindu awo amakhudza mkhalidwe wamaganizo ndi thupi.

Malinga ndi njira imeneyi, chimwemwe ndicho kusankha, ngakhale kuti “kusautsika” ndi chisoni zimakhala zosapeŵeka. Barry Kaufman ndi othandizira njira ya Option amateteza lingaliro lakuti kudwala sikulinso kapena kucheperapo kuposa njira imodzi yopulumutsira munthu. Nthawi zambiri timatha kuona kuvutika ndi mawonetseredwe ake osiyanasiyana (kupanduka, kugonjera, chisoni) monga gawo losapeŵeka la moyo wathu. Komabe, malinga ndi iwo, zingatheke kuchotsa malingaliro akalewa ndikukhala ndi njira yatsopano yopulumutsira. Munthu “angasankhe” mtendere wamumtima ndi chimwemwe m’malo movutikira, ngakhale pamene ali wachisoni kapena wokwiya.

Mfundo zazikuluzikulu

Munthu atha kufikira njira yachisangalalo pozindikira zikhulupiriro zake ndi nthano zaumwini - zomwe aliyense wapanga kuyambira ali mwana m'malingaliro, malingaliro ndi machitidwe kuti adziteteze kudziko lakunja - makamaka powasintha. M’mawu ena, pamene tizindikira kuti kupsinjika maganizo sindiko kokha njira yochotsera ululu, timatsegula chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo.

Zowonadi, njira ya Option ili ndi njira zingapo zophunzirira chisangalalo (kapena "kusaphunzira" kusasangalala…) zomwe kugwiritsa ntchito kwake, kutengera momwe zilili, kumatha kukhala kophunzitsa, kuchiza kapena kutengera kukula kwamunthu.

Mwachitsanzo, njira ya zokambirana, yomwe imalimbikitsidwa ndi njira ya "galasi", imatilola kuti tibwerere ku magwero azovuta. Potengera kutengeka maganizo - chidani, mkwiyo, chisoni - zosonyezedwa ndi munthuyo, mlangizi amakayikira zikhulupiriro zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi izo, kuti amuthandize kudzimasula yekha kwa izo.

Mafunso ena odziwika

Mukumva chisoni Chifukwa chiyani? Kodi mukukhulupirira chifukwa chake? Kodi chingachitike n’chiyani ngati simunakhulupirire? Kodi mukuganiza kuti chisoni chimenechi n’chosapeŵeka? N’chifukwa chiyani mumakhulupirira zimenezi? Kodi chingachitike n’chiyani ngati simunakhulupirire?

Potsegula chitseko cha zotheka zina, ndi kufotokozera nkhanizo, timakhala ndi cholinga chomvetsetsa bwino za kusapeza bwino, chikhalidwe chofunikira kuti tipeze mtendere wamkati. Njirayi imadziwika ndi kulemekeza kwambiri maganizo a munthu amene amamuyitanira komanso kutseguka kwakukulu kwa wothandizira, nthawi zambiri amaperekedwa ngati "kuvomereza kopanda malire". Lingaliro lakuti munthuyo ndi katswiri wake ndipo ali ndi mphamvu zake kuti athe kulimbana ndi vuto lililonse (nkhanza, kuferedwa, kupatukana, kulemala kwakukulu, etc.) alinso pakati pa ndondomekoyi. Udindo wa mlangizi wofunsa mafunso ndi galasi ndi wofunikira, koma womalizayo ayenera kukhala wothandizira, osati wotsogolera.

Bungwe la Option Institute lakhazikitsanso pulogalamu ya mabanja omwe ali ndi ana omwe ali ndi autism kapena omwe ali ndi vuto linalake lachitukuko (monga Asperger's syndrome). Pulogalamuyi, yotchedwa Son-Rise, yathandizira kwambiri kutchuka kwa bungweli. Makolo omwe amatengera pulogalamu ya Son-Rise sakusankha njira yokhayo yothandizira, koma kwenikweni njira yamoyo. Kudzipereka koteroko kumaphatikizapo ndalama zambiri, nthawi ndi ndalama zonse: pulogalamuyo imachitikira kunyumba, mothandizidwa ndi abwenzi ndi odzipereka, nthawi zambiri nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zina amatha zaka zingapo. .

A Kaufman amanena lero kuti mwa kuchotsa nthano zaumwini, munthu angayambe kuvomereza ndi kukonda munthu kotheratu, ngakhale mwana wotalikirana kwambiri ndi dziko lakunja. Choncho, chifukwa cha chikondi chopanda malire ichi, kholo likhoza kugwirizanitsa dziko la mwanayo, kuyanjana naye m'dziko lino, kumuweta, ndiyeno kumuitana kuti abwere kwathu.

Pa webusaiti ya Option Institute, tikhoza kuwerenga maumboni ambiri ochokera kwa anthu omwe akulimbana ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana, monga mantha a mantha, kuvutika maganizo, ndi matenda osiyanasiyana a psychosomatic, omwe adapezanso thanzi lawo chifukwa cha njirayo. . Chifukwa chake, zopindulitsa zomwe zanenedwa pano sizinakhalepo zamaphunziro aliwonse asayansi mpaka pano.

Imalimbikitsa chitukuko chaumwini

Ndikuchita bwino kutengera mkhalidwe wa chikondi chopanda malire, kwa iwo eni komanso kwa ena, "athanzi" amatha kuchiritsa mabala awo amkati, ndikuweta ndikusankha chimwemwe. Iwo adzachita, kumlingo wina, njira yofanana ndi ya anthu autistic omwe amayambiranso kugwira ntchito.

Kuthandiza ana omwe ali ndi autism kapena zolemala zina zazikulu

Kafukufuku mmodzi yekha akuwoneka kuti adasindikizidwa pa nkhaniyi ndikuyang'ana umoyo wamaganizo wa mabanja omwe akugwira nawo ntchitoyi m'malo mochita bwino. Ananenanso kuti mabanjawa ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri ndipo ayenera kudalira chithandizo chowonjezereka, makamaka panthawi yomwe njirayo ikuwoneka kuti siigwira ntchito. Posachedwapa, nkhani yomwe idasindikizidwa mu 2006 idanenanso zotsatira za kafukufukuyu, nthawi ino ikuwonetsa zofunikira pakuwunika kwa ana omwe ali ndi autism. Komabe, palibe zatsopano zomwe zaperekedwa zokhudza kugwira ntchito kwa pulogalamuyi.

Phunzirani kupanga zisankho zabwino 

Njira yothetsera vutoli imapangitsa kuti zisankho zomveka komanso zanzeru zipangidwe

Pangani chidaliro

Limbikitsani zinthu zomwe muli nazo: njira yomwe mungasankhire ingakuthandizeni kudziwa zomwe muli nazo pozindikira ndikuchotsa zikhulupiriro zolakwika.

Option Institute imayang'anira mapulogalamu omwe ali ndi mitu yambiri ndi ma formula: Njira Yachisangalalo, Kudzipatsa Mphamvu, Maphunziro a Maanja, Mkazi Wapadera, Wodekha Pakati pa Zisokonezo, ndi zina zambiri. Zambiri mwazo zimaperekedwa ngati nthawi yotalikirapo pasukulupo. (yomwe ili ku Massachusetts).

Institute imaperekanso pulogalamu yophunzitsira kunyumba (Kusankha kukhala mosangalala: mawu oyamba a Njira Yosankha) yomwe imakulolani kuphunzira za njirayo popanga gulu lanu lakukula. Pankhani ya Option dialogue, foni imaperekedwa.

Alangizi ochokera ku njira ya Option ndi ophunzitsa ochokera ku pulogalamu ya Son-Rise amadziyeserera pawokha m'maiko ochepa aku Europe komanso ku Canada. Onani mndandanda womwe uli patsamba la Institute 3.

Ku Quebec, bungwe la Option-Voix Center limapereka zina mwamathandizo okhudzana ndi njirayo: kukambirana pa tsamba kapena pafoni, magawo a maphunziro a Njira Yosankha, kukonzekera kapena kutsata mabanja omwe akukhudzidwa ndi pulogalamu ya Son-Rise (onani Zizindikiro).

Katswiri

Iyenera kukhala yovomerezeka kwathunthu ndi Option Institute popeza njira yosankha ndi chizindikiro cholembetsedwa.

Njira yophunzitsira

Pamacheza omwe mungasankhe, kukambirana kumatenga pafupifupi ola limodzi ndipo kumachitika maso ndi maso kapena pafoni. Pambuyo pa magawo angapo, munthuyo nthawi zambiri amaphatikiza mfundo zamtundu uwu wa zokambirana, ndiyeno amazigwiritsa ntchito paokha. Akhoza kuyitaniranso mlangizi nthawi ndi nthawi, chifukwa muli ndi chida chonoledwa nthawi ndi nthawi.

Khalani sing'anga

Maphunziro amaperekedwa kokha ku sukulu. Zitsimikizo ziwiri zimaperekedwa: Njira Yopangira kapena Son-Rise. Palibe chofunikira kusukulu chomwe chimafunikira; kusankhidwa kwa ofuna kusankhidwa kumatengera kumvetsetsa kwawo kwanzeru zoyambira komanso momwe angakhalire pachibwenzi.

Barry Kaufman ndi mkazi wake Samahria adapanga pulogalamu ya Son-Rise potengera zomwe adakumana nazo. Nkhani ya a Kaufmans ndi mwana wawo wamwamuna Raun, yemwe adapezeka ndi autism ali ndi zaka chimodzi ndi theka, akufotokozedwa m'buku lakuti A Miracle of Love komanso mu kanema wa TV wopangidwa ndi NBC wotchedwa Son-Rise: A Miracle. wa Chikondi. Popeza palibe chithandizo chamankhwala wamba chomwe chimapereka chiyembekezo cha kuchiritsa, kapena kusintha kwa mwana wawo, a Kaufmans adatengera njira yozikidwa pa chikondi chopanda malire.

Kwa zaka zitatu, usana ndi usiku, ankasinthana naye. Iwo akhala magalasi enieni a mwana wawo, mwadongosolo kutsanzira manja ake onse: kugwedezeka m'malo, kukwawa pansi, kufufuza zala zake pamaso pa maso ake, etc. Njira wabala zipatso: pang'onopang'ono, Raun watsegula kwa. dziko lakunja. Tsopano ndi wamkulu, ali ndi digiri ya kuyunivesite mu biomedical ethics ndi maphunziro padziko lonse lapansi pa pulogalamu ya Son-Rise.