Le kusokonezeka kwa umunthu monga tafotokozera ndi chikhalidwe chosowa. Zomwe timawona kaŵirikaŵiri m’chipatala ndi anthu amene ali ndi mikhalidwe ina kapena yambiri ya umunthu umenewu, popanda kukhala nawo onse. Monga dokotala, sindine womasuka ndi mawu oti "narcissistic perversion" kutanthauza chikhalidwe ichi.

Kukhala "wokhota", molingana ndi Robert wamng'ono, amatanthauza: “Amene amakonda kuchita zoipa, amakonda kuchita zoipa”, n’chimodzimodzi ndi “woipa”, “woipa”, “woipa”, “woipa”. Munthu yemwe ali ndi "narcissistic personality disorder" samakwaniritsa tanthauzo ili.

Ngati, mukuwerenga pepalali, mukuwoneka kuti mukudzizindikira nokha muzinthu zomwe tikufotokoza, zomwe mumachita poyamba zidzakhala kukana kuwona izi chifukwa simungavomereze kuti chinachake chingasokoneze chithunzi chanu cha mphamvu ndi ungwiro. Koma zoona zake n’zakuti mwina muli ndi mavuto m’mbali zingapo za moyo wanu, monga maubwenzi anu pakati pa anthu pamlingo wa moyo wa m’banja, m’banja ndi m’mayanjano anu, komanso kuntchito kwanu. Mutha kumva kuti ndinu omvetsa chisoni ndipo nthawi zambiri mumasokonezeka ndi malingaliro otsutsana. Mumapezanso kuti anthu amene mumacheza nawo sakuyamikiridwa kwenikweni ndi kupezeka kwanu komanso kuti maubwenzi anu ndi osasangalatsa.

Ngati izi zikugwirizana ndi zanu, ganizirani kukaonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena dokotala yemwe mumamukhulupirira. Chithandizo choyenera (payekha, banja, kapena gulu) chingapangitse moyo wanu kukhala wopindulitsa komanso wosangalatsa.

Dr Jacques Allard MD FCMFC