Mafunso athu okhudza mimba

Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani ndimamva chisoni kwambiri pamene zonse zili bwino?

Tinkaganiza kuti tinali ndi miyezi isanu ndi inayi yosangalatsa! Ndipo komabe, chikhulupiriro chathu ndi "tsiku lililonse limakwanira zovuta zake". Nkhawa, kutopa, kutopa, nthawi zambiri tikhoza kudziimba mlandu chifukwa chosadzimva ngati mtambo. Mahomoni amagwira ntchito yofunika kwambiri pa izi kukhumudwa kwakanthawi, makamaka miyezi yoyamba, pamene muli ndi zovuta zonse zokhudzana ndi mimba (nseru, nkhawa, kutopa) popanda kukhala ndi phindu. Mimba ikakula, nthawi zambiri thupi limayambitsa ululu. Mwana akukula ndipo timakhala ndi malingaliro oti tilibenso malo athu. Timamva AKULU, kulemedwa, kufika ponong'oneza bondo pokhala ndi pakati. Ndi kuchuluka kwa liwongo. Izi ndizabwinobwino. Umu ndi momwe amayi ambiri oyembekezera amakumana nawo omwe, akadalankhula, amazindikira kuti ndi imodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimadetsa nkhawa kwambiri za mimba.

Kukhala mayi, kusokonezeka kwakukulu

Psychological factor imathandizanso. Sichinthu chaching'ono kuyembekezera mwana. Mkhalidwe wa moyo wa mkazi woterewu ukhoza kudzutsa kapena kuyambitsa nkhawa zamtundu uliwonse. Amayi onse oyembekezera amawoloka kutengeka mtima zokhudzana ndi mbiri yawo. "Mimba ndi nthawi ya mikangano mopambanitsa, kukhwima ndi vuto lamaganizo", akulemba psychoanalyst Monique Bydlowski mu ntchito yake "Je rêve un enfant".

Chenjerani ndi kupsinjika maganizo

Kumbali ina, sitilola kuti mkhalidwe wosakhalitsawu ukhalepo, mayi woyembekezera sayenera kukhala wopsinjika mosalekeza. Ngati ndi choncho, ndi bwino kukambirana ndi dokotala. Amayi oyembekezera nawonso amavutika maganizo. Kuyankhulana kwa mwezi wa 4 wochitidwa ndi mzamba ndi mwayi wokambirana zovuta zake. Tikatero tikhoza kutsata chithandizo chamaganizo.

Ndimasuta pang'ono ndikubisala, ndizovuta?

Timadziwa kuopsa kwa fodya pa nthawi ya mimba! Kupita padera, kubadwa msanga, kulemera kochepa, zovuta pa nthawi yobereka, ngakhale kuchepa kwa chitetezo cha mthupi: timachita mantha ndi lingaliro la kuopsa kwa mwana wathu. Kafukufuku waposachedwapa wasonyeza kuti kusuta ali ndi pakati kungakhale ndi zotsatira kwa mibadwo iwiri. Kusuta kwa agogo aakazi ali ndi pakati kungapangitse kuti adzukulu awo azidwala mphumu, ngakhale mayiyo atakhala kuti sanasute. Ndipo komabe akazi ambiri sasiya. Amachepetsa pang'ono ndikupangitsa anthu kudzimva olakwa kwambiri. Makamaka kuyambira lero, timalimbikitsa kulekerera ziro. Palibenso "kwabwino kusuta ndudu zisanu kuposa kupsinjika kwambiri".

Nanga bwanji ngati simunasiye kusuta?

M’malo mobisala n’kudziimba mlandu. pezani thandizo. Ndikovuta kwambiri kuyimitsa kwathunthu ndipo chithandizo chingakhale chofunikira. Zigamba ndi zina zolowa m'malo mwa chikonga zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati. Zikalephera, sitizengereza kufunsa katswiri wa fodya. Kuphatikiza apo, pali chithandizo chokhazikika. Mwamuna wathu, bwenzi, munthu amene amatilimbikitsa popanda kutiweruza komanso popanda kuwonjezera kupsinjika kwanu.

Kupanga chikondi kumandizimitsa, si zachilendo?

Libido ya mimba imasinthasintha. Mwa amayi ena, ali pamwamba, ndipo ena, pafupifupi kulibe. Mu trimester yoyamba, pakati pa kutopa ndi nseru, tili ndi zifukwa zonse (zabwino) zosagonana. Ndizodziwika bwino kuti kukwaniritsidwa kwa kugonana kuli mu trimester yachiwiri. Kupatula kuti kwa ife: palibe! Osati mthunzi wa chikhumbo. Koma kukhumudwa pachimake. Komanso manyazi. Pankhani ya mnzathu. Ngakhale kuti tili ndi nkhawa, timadziuza kuti si ife tokha. Tili ndi ufulu wosafuna. Timalankhula ndi bambo wam'tsogolo zomwe timamva, timakambirana za nkhawa zake. Mulimonse mmene zingakhalire, timayesetsa kukhalabe ndi anzathu mwakuthupi. Kumukumbatirani, kugona m'malo mwake, kukumbatirana, kupsompsona komwe sikumathera ndi kugonana koma zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana.

Sitidzikakamiza tokha… koma sitiumirira.

Amayi ena amakumana ndi orgasm yoyamba pa nthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati. Zingakhale zamanyazi kuziphonya. Ndipo bwanji osayesa mafuta ngati kugonana kuli kowawa. Mukufuna upangiri, pezani maudindo a Kamasutra kwa amayi apakati.

Kodi ndimaloledwa kuseweretsa maliseche ndili ndi pakati? Kodi ndizowopsa kwa mwana wosabadwayo?

Ah, malungo otchuka a trimester yachiwiri ... Libido yanu imayambanso. Mumaona kuti ndinu wokongola komanso wofunika. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa webusaiti ya SexyAvenue, mmodzi mwa amayi awiri aliwonse amavomereza kuti ali ndi libido "zophulika" panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati. Ndipo 46% ya anzawo omwe adafunsidwa akuti apeza "theka lawo lina losatsutsika" panthawiyi. Mwachidule, ndi wokondedwa wanu yemwe ayenera kukhala kumwamba. Ngakhale… Ndili kwambiri moti nthawi zina limakhala lodzaza. Zotsatira zake, mukuchita manyazi pang'ono ndi zokhumba zanu ndikuyamba kukhumudwa. Ndiye bwanji osadzikhutiritsa? Palibe chifukwa chodziimba mlandu. Kusangalala payekha sikuvulaza mwana wanu, m'malo mwake ! Pa mimba popanda vuto lililonse, palibe chiopsezo kupanga chikondi kapena kuseweretsa maliseche. Kukokoloka kwa chiberekero komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha orgasm kumakhala kosiyana ndi "kubereka" kwa nthawi yobereka. Kuphatikiza apo, ma endorphin omwe amatulutsidwa, kuwonjezera pa kukupatsani chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo, amapangitsa mwana kukhala wokwera! Zindikirani kuti kugonana kungakhale ndi zotsatira zotetezera ku kubadwa msanga.

Adadi amtsogolo amandikwiyitsa, nditani?

Kodi adalowa muchitetezo chapafupi? Palibenso kutseka chitseko cha bafa kapena kutenga elevator nokha. Akufuna kuti muzidya leeks ndi madzi a karoti chifukwa ndi athanzi? Mwachidule, amatitopetsa ndi kulingalira kwake ndi kukoma mtima kwake. Ndipo sitifuna kumangokhalira kuseweretsa mimba nthawi zonse. Sitimadzimva kuti ndi mlandu, zimachitika kuti amayi apakati amachoka, ngakhale atakhala ndi bambo. Dziwani iziakuyesera kudutsa mimba "yake", ndipo si abambo onse amtsogolo omwe amasamala kwambiri! Kambiranani naye. Mwina sakudziwa kuti simukufunikira zonsezi.

«Pa mimba ya 2 iyi, ndimakhala "womasuka" pang'ono pazakudya. Ndikuvomereza, nthawi zina ndimadya nsomba zosuta. Mwamuna wanga sangapirire nkomwe, amangondiganizira n’kumandiuza kuti ndine wodzikonda chifukwa sindimufunsa maganizo ake. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, kuti ndimve, ndiyenera kumvetsera zonse. Kunena zoona, ndatopa kubisala kuti ndidye chidutswa cha nyama ya Grisons! Sindikudziwa choti ndichite kuti apumule pang'ono.»

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Kodi ndizabwinobwino kuti ndichite zogonana ndili ndi pakati?

Monga ngati pali chikwangwani "Oyembekezera!" Yang'anani pansi”. Mwachiwonekere, awa ndi masewera chabe okopana, koma zingakhale zovuta kuvomereza kwa aliyense kuti mukuphonya, ngakhale mutanyamula mwana wa wokondedwa wanu. Kuwonedwa ndi amuna, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale mwamuna wanu mpaka kukhumudwa kwanu kwakukulu pa nkhaniyi, mimba ndi nthawi yapadera, yodzaza ndi chisomo. Komabe, amuna ena amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chithumwa cha amayi amtsogolo. Koposa zonse, kumbukirani kuti titha kukhala ndi pakati komanso achigololo.

Bwanji ngati nditaya patebulo yobweretsera?

Kodi pali mayi wachichepere yemwe sada nkhawa kuti apatse mzamba mphatso yayikulu? Osawopa, ndizochitika zachilengedwe kwathunthu. M'malo mwake, imatha kukhala yothandiza, chifukwa mutu wa khanda ukatsitsidwa mokwanira m'chiuno, umakankhira pa rectum, zomwe zimapangitsa chidwi chofuna kutulutsa matumbo ndikulengeza kubadwa komwe kwayandikira. Ogwira ntchito zachipatala amagwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika zazing'ono ngati izi. Idzakonza vutoli popanda kudziwa, ndi zopukuta zazing'ono. Inde, ngati mukukhumudwa ndi lingaliro lodzipulumutsa nokha pamaso pa anthu osawadziwa, lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu, kapena pokonzekera kubereka. Mutha kutenga a wodwala kutengedwa musanachoke kumalo oyembekezera, kapena ngakhale ma enemas oti achite akafika. Komabe, dziwani kuti kwenikweni, mahomoni omwe amatulutsidwa kumayambiriro kwa ntchito amalola amayi kukhala ndi chimbudzi mwachibadwa.