Psychology


Masewera kuchokera ku maphunziro "Sukulu ya Makolo Osangalala"

Pa maphunziro (ndipo tsopano - maphunziro pa webinars) "Sukulu ya Makolo Osangalala" Marina Konstantinovna Smirnova akuitana makolo kuchita masewero a "Sinthani Maudindo" ndi ana awo. Tangoganizani kuti ndinu mwana, ndipo iye ndi amayi anu kapena abambo anu (ngakhale angakhale agogo, amalume, ngati akufuna).

Mutu wa masewerawo ukhoza kukhala chirichonse. Ndikofunika kuti zigwirizane ndi zochitika za moyo wanu ndipo ndizosangalatsa kwa nonse. Mutha kukhala ndi gawo latsiku munjira iyi, kapena nkhomaliro chabe, kapena theka la ola mutabwerera kunyumba kuchokera koyenda. Mutha kuphika chakudya chamadzulo limodzi, kapena kusewera ndi zoseweretsa, kapena kungolankhula (kambiranani mosinthana zinthu zofunika kwa mwana).

Nthawi yamasewera ikhoza kukhala iliyonse, motsogozedwa ndi luso lanu komanso chidwi chanu. Monga lamulo, mwana wamng'ono, ndi wamfupi masewerawo. Koma ngati mutengeka ndikuwona tanthauzo lake, ndiye kuti mutha kubwereza zomwe zafotokozedwa pansipa.

SA, sketch kuchokera ku moyo

Madzulo. Kukonzekera tulo. Polina ali ndi zaka 4,5, amaika zidole zake pabedi, kukumba kwa nthawi yayitali. Amayang'ana zofunda za zidole zonse, amatenga mipango yoyera. Ndimayang'ana izi «kukwiya» kwa nthawi yayitali, osatha kupirira, ndimapereka dongosolo.

Polina, vala chovala chako chausiku. Tiyeni tigone mwachangu. Ndikufuna kugona.

Mwana wanga wanzeru kwambiri, akupitiriza kukwaniritsa ntchito yake yodalirika, amandiyankha modekha motere:

"Amayi, chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuchita zomwe mukufuna nthawi zonse?"

Sindinathe kumuyankha. Ichi ndi choyamba. Kenako ndinaganiza kuti ana anzeru kwambiri nthaŵi zina amabadwa kuchokera kwa makolo anzeru kwambiri.

Mawa linali tsiku lopuma, ndipo ndinamuuza kuti:

- Chabwino, ndiye mawa ndi TSIKU LANU - timakhala momwe mukufunira.

Mawa kuyambira pomwe tidatsegula maso athu nthawi imodzi, ndipo funso linanditsatira:

Polina, ndigone kapena kudzuka?

Mtsogoleri wanga wamng'ono, akuwunika momwe zinthu zilili, nthawi yomweyo "anatenga ng'ombe ndi nyanga", makamaka popeza ng'ombeyo inafunsa.

Ndikufotokoza mwachidule:

M'mawa usanakwane chakudya chamasana chinali chachilendo kwa ine: adandisankhira momwe ndingachitire masewera olimbitsa thupi (kuthamanga cham'mbali kuzungulira nyumbayo, ndikudumphira mmbuyo ndi mtsogolo pakuthamanga, kunali koyambirira m'mawa). Anandisankhira zomwe ndingadye chakudya cham'mawa (pano ndinali wokondwa ndekha pamene mwana wanga wamkazi anasankha phala la mpunga ndi mkaka, ngakhale kuti atha kukhala ndi masangweji ndi soseji, koma zinali zoonekeratu kuti tsopano akudzisamalira yekha). Pamapeto pa kupeleka kwanga, ndinapatsidwa gawo la zojambulajambula (zimene ndinazipewa ndi malingaliro ochapira zovala za kusukulu ya ana a sukulu, zomwe mtsogoleri wanga wachifundo anavomereza modzichepetsa). Tsiku lonselo, ndinayenera kutsimikizira kwa woyang'anira wanga kuti timangofunika kuyeretsa nyumba, phula ndi kutsuka galimoto. Kuyenera kudziŵika kuti ndinali wosaganiza mwayi, kasamalidwe sanali «ng'ombe» ndipo kwenikweni anagwirizana nane. Madzulo, ndithudi, ndinayenera kupereka msonkho: kusewera m'nyumba ya pulasitiki, kumene tidole ta Winx tinkakhala, omwe anapita kukachezerana. Ndiye zonse zinali zachikhalidwe, otsogolera ankakonda zachikale - nkhani yogona, yomwe tinasankha pamodzi.

Nchiyani chimapereka masewera oterowo?

  1. Zimakhala zothandiza kwa kholo kukhala “pakhungu” la mwana wake, kumva chitsogozo chake kuti amvetsetse bwino momwe mwanayo alili, momwe angamvetsetse kapena kusamvetsetsa malamulo anu.
  2. Ndikosavuta kuwona machitidwe anu omwe adaphunzitsidwa kale ndi mwanayo. Kusangalala ndi chinachake: mwana wanga amadziwa kale izi!
  3. Mwanayo amadziwa udindo wa mtsogoleri, pambuyo pake amamvetsa bwino zovuta za akuluakulu. Ndikofunika kuti musapereke ntchito zovuta kwambiri. Ngati mayi abweza mwana wake pamene wapenga kotheratu, mwanayo amangolira kuti: “Sindikudziwa choti ndichite nawe!” ndipo sindiseweranso masewerawa.

Siyani Mumakonda