Zamkatimu
Kodi ndinu chitsanzo cha kukhulupirika ndipo simunalole khalidwe losamveka bwino, ndipo mnzanuyo akupitiriza kuchitira nsanje mzati uliwonse? Mwinamwake mukufuna kukonza. Koma kodi n’koyenera? Tiyeni tiganizire.
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi funso: kodi pathological nsanje ndi chifukwa chiyani izo zikuwoneka?
Izi, monga momwe mwadziwira kale, sizikhala za nsanje yoyenerera, pamene mukukopana poyera ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pamaso pa mnzanu, koma pazochitikazo pamene palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa.
Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe nsanje yowononga ingabuke.
1. Kudziona kuti ndine wosakwanira
Munthu amene amakumana ndi nsanje ya pathological nthawi zambiri amakhala ndikumverera kuti sali wabwino mokwanira, kuti sali woyenera kukondedwa. Mkhalidwe umenewu kwa iyemwini umakula, monga lamulo, muubwana.
Nthawi yoyamba imene mwana amamva zimenezi ndi pamene ayamba kupikisana ndi chikondi cha amayi ake. Amatha kupikisana ndi abambo ake, abale ndi alongo, ngakhale mabwenzi a amayi.
Lingaliro "Iye ndi wabwino kuposa ine. Amayi amamukonda kuposa ine. sindikufunikanso” kumabweretsa chokumana nacho chowawa kwambiri, makamaka ku psyche ya mwanayo, ndipo chikhoza kukhala mantha okana kukanidwa. Akakula, muubwenzi ndi anthu ena, mwamuna kapena mkazi wotere amabwereza izi. Munthu wina aliyense akhoza kuopseza "chikondi changwiro" ndi bwenzi lake.
2. Nsanje ngati njira yosungitsira ubwenzi
Ndipo izi sizokhudza ubwenzi wapamtima, koma za uzimu. Muubwenzi weniweni, timakhala pachiwopsezo. Zofooka zathu zonse zimawululidwa, ndipo amene ali pafupi ndi ife akhoza kutipweteka kwambiri.
Ngati munthu ali ndi malingaliro akuti "Musakhulupirire Munthu", adziteteza poyang'anira wokondedwa wawo. Tinganene kuti nsanje pankhaniyi imakhala njira yotetezera.
3. Nsanje ngati njira yopewera ubwenzi
Apa chifukwa chomwecho - chiopsezo. Pokhapokha chifukwa cha kupwetekedwa mtima kwa kukanidwa. Pamenepa, mantha okana kukanidwa ndi amphamvu kwambiri moti nsanje idzakhala chida chopewera.
Nsanje imapangitsa kuti muwone mnzanuyo kukhala wopanda ungwiro, choncho woopsa. Ichinso ndi chifukwa chabwino cholekana. Malingaliro amakhala mu chikomokere cha munthu woteroyo: "Ndili bwino kukusiyani kusiyana ndi kundisiya", "Sindiwe munthu yemwe ndingamukhulupirire."
Ziyenera kumveka kuti mulimonse, nsanje ya mnzanuyo imadalira inu. Zifukwa zonse zomwe zili pamwambazi ndi zotsatira za zochitika zake zaubwana, zomwe zimachokera pa ubale wake ndi makolo ake.
Ngati mumvetsetsa izi, ndiye kuti chikhumbo chofuna kutsimikizira kukhulupirika kwanu ndi kudzipereka kwanu chidzakhala chochepa kwambiri. Mudzamvetsetsa kuti mnzanu yekha ndi amene angasinthe zomwe zikuchitika. Kuti achite izi, adzafunika kuzindikira mavuto ake ndikutembenukira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Ponena za nsanje ya pathological, ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuchuluka kwa matendawo. Zikafika povuta, imatha kuyankhula za matenda amisala. Izi zikuphatikizapo neurosis, personality pathology, schizophrenia, mowa kapena mankhwala ena osokoneza bongo. Zotsatira za kunyanyira koteroko, mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri zimakhala nkhani zaupandu. Pankhaniyi, katswiri wa zamaganizo yekha ndi amene angathandize munthu.