Kodi sizingakhale zabwino ngati mutayamba tsiku lililonse nokha, kuyang'ana nyanja ndi kapu ya khofi, kusinkhasinkha mwakachetechete m'munda mwanu, kapena mwinamwake kuŵerenga magazini, kukhala pabedi ndi kapu ya tiyi? Ngati ndinu mayi, nthawi yanu yam'mawa mwina siyiyamba motere. Mmalo mwa bata - chisokonezo, m'malo mwa mtendere - kutopa, m'malo mokhazikika - mofulumira. Ndipo ngakhale sikophweka, mukhoza kubweretsa chidziwitso ku tsiku lanu ndikuchita luso lokhalapo.
Khalani ndi cholinga choti mukhale oganiza bwino lero komanso sabata ino. Zindikirani (popanda chiweruzo) momwe thupi lanu limamvera mukadzuka. Ndi kutopa kapena kupweteka? Kodi ndikumva bwino? Tengani mpweya pang'ono mkati ndi kunja mapazi anu asanagwire pansi. Dzikumbutseni kuti tsiku latsopano latsala pang'ono kuyamba. Ziribe kanthu kuti mwatopa bwanji komanso ngakhale mndandanda wa zochita zanu ndi wautali bwanji, mutha kutenga mphindi zochepa kuti muwone moyo wanu ndikungodziwa zomwe zikuchitika.
Samalani maonekedwe a m'mawa pa nkhope ya mwana wanu. Zindikirani kutentha kwakumwa koyamba kwa khofi kapena tiyi. Samalani kumverera kwa thupi la mwana wanu ndi kulemera kwake m'manja mwanu. Imvani madzi ofunda ndi sopo pakhungu lanu pamene mukusamba m'manja.
Mukalowa mumayendedwe a amayi masana, yang'anani mwana wanu kudzera m'maso mwachidwi. Kodi akufuna kukhala pafupi nanu kapena kusewera yekha? Kodi akuyesera china chatsopano kapena akudikirira kuti mumuthandize? Kodi nkhope yake imasintha akaika maganizo ake pa chinachake? Kodi maso ake amachepera pamene akutsegula masamba pamene mukuwerengera limodzi mabuku? Kodi mawu ake amasintha akakhala kuti wasangalala ndi zinazake?
Monga amayi, timafunikira luso loganiza bwino kuti tithe kuwongolera chidwi chathu pomwe chikufunika kwambiri. Pa nthawi zovuta, imani ndi kudzifunsa kuti, “Kodi ndili pano? Kodi ndikukumana ndi nthawiyi? Zoonadi, zina mwa mphindizi zidzaphatikizapo mapiri a mbale zonyansa ndi ntchito zosamalizidwa kuntchito, koma mukadzakumana ndi moyo wanu wonse, mudzaziwona mumsinkhu watsopano wakuya ndi kuzindikira.
Kusinkhasinkha Kwamakolo
Chidwi chanu chikhoza kuyendayenda ndipo mutha kuyiwala mchitidwewu, koma ndichifukwa chake umatchedwa chitani. Nthawi iliyonse yatsiku, mutha kubwereranso pano ndikukhala ndi mwayi watsopano wogwiritsa ntchito nthawi zamtengo wapatali za moyo wanu ndi ana anu. Tengani mphindi 15 patsiku kuti muyime kaye ndikusangalala ndi izi, pozindikira chozizwitsa chomwe ndi moyo wanu.
Pezani malo okhala kapena kugona pansi pomwe mungakhale omasuka. Khalani pansi kwa sekondi imodzi ndiyeno yambani ndi kupuma mozama katatu kapena kanayi. Tsekani maso anu ngati mukufuna. Dziloleni inu kuyamikira chete. Taonani ubwino wokhala wekha. Tsopano gwirani ndi zokumbukira. Bwererani ku mphindi yomwe mudawona nkhope ya mwana wanu koyamba. Dziloleni nokha kumva chozizwitsa ichi kachiwiri. Kumbukirani momwe mudadzinenera nokha: "Kodi izi ndi zoona?". Ganizirani mmbuyo pamene mudamva mwana wanu akunena "Amayi". Nthawi izi zidzakhala nanu mpaka kalekale.
Pamene mukusinkhasinkha, lingalirani zodabwitsa ndi matsenga a moyo wanu ndikungopuma. Ndi mpweya uliwonse, pumani kukongola kwa zikumbukiro zabwino ndikugwira mpweya wanu kwa mphindi ina, kuzisangalatsa. Kupuma kulikonse, kumwetulira mofewa ndikulola mphindi zamtengo wapatalizi kukukhazika mtima pansi. Bwerezani, pang'onopang'ono pokoka mpweya ndikutulutsa mpweya.
Bwererani ku kusinkhasinkha uku nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukumva ngati mukutaya matsenga a umayi. Bwezeraninso zokumbukira zodzaza ndi chisangalalo ndikutsegula maso anu kuti muone zochitika zatsiku ndi tsiku zodabwitsa zomwe zikuzungulirani. Matsenga amakhalapo nthawi zonse.