Pemphero la mikangano m'banja: mphamvu ya chikhulupiriro imatha kukonza ubale

Kodi mwasiya kuzindikira banja lanu lomwe poyamba linali laubwenzi? Kodi kusamvana kwawonekera muubwenzi, mikangano yakhala ikuchulukirachulukira? M'chikhulupiriro cha Orthodox, banja limakhala lofunika kwambiri, choncho pemphero kuchokera ku mikangano m'banja lingathe kuchita zodabwitsa, kubwezera chiyanjano ku ubale wanu ndi okondedwa anu.

Kutembenukira ku Mphamvu Zapamwamba kudzakuthandizani osati kusintha ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu, komanso kuteteza ana anu ku mikangano yanu, chifukwa amavutika kwambiri ndi izi.

Kodi pemphero lingaperekedwe kwa ndani kuchokera ku mikangano ya m’banja?

Mutha kupempha mtendere mnyumba kwa Woyera aliyense. Mu Orthodoxy, oyang'anira banja ndi awa:

• Mayi Woyera wa Mulungu. Iye ndi chitsanzo cha kuleza mtima pokumana ndi zinthu zopanda chilungamo komanso mavuto. Ndi Theotokos Woyera Kwambiri yemwe nthawi zonse adzabwera kudzapulumutsa pa mtendere ndi mtendere m'banja, ubwino wa ana;
• Angelo oyera, angelo akulu. Kutembenukira kwa iwo kudzakuthandizani kuphunzira kugwirizana ndi mavuto mosavuta, perekani kudzichepetsa. Mwachitsanzo, oteteza banja ndi Mngelo wamkulu Varahiel, Mkulu wa Angelo Raphael;
• Xenia wa ku Petersburg - wochita zozizwitsa, yemwe ndi woyang'anira banja;
• Oyera Peter ndi Fevronia. Anakhala moyo wawo wonse mu mtendere, chikondi ndi chiyanjano, ndipo anafa tsiku lomwelo ndi ola limodzi;
• Oyera Joachim ndi Anna, omwe anali makolo a Mfumukazi ya Kumwamba. Iwo anali chitsanzo cha okwatirana abwino, kotero iwo ali osamalira banja idyll;
• Yesu Khristu. Mwana wa Mulungu wokhululuka anadziŵa kukhululuka ndi kukonda, ngakhale pamene anthu anam’pandukira, ndipo iye amatiphunzitsanso.

Zithunzi zonsezi zikhoza kuyankhulidwa m'pemphero, osati ndi mikangano yafupipafupi, komanso ngati zikuwoneka kuti chisudzulo kuchokera ku soulmate chiri pafupi.

Kodi kuwerenga pemphero kuchokera mikangano m'banja?

Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti kukopa kwa Akuluakulu Akuluakulu sikungowonjezera mawu omwe muyenera kunena "kuti muwonetsere", ndipo pambuyo pake moyo wa banja lanu udzakhala wabwino, ngati kuti ndi matsenga. Muyenera kuwerenga pemphero kuchokera ku mikangano m'banja ndi chikhulupiriro mu mtima mwanu, ndi kumvetsa kuti osati mnzako wa moyo ndi amene amachititsa mikangano ya m'banja. Mwina zina ndi zolakwa zanu.

Kuti Amphamvu Zapamwamba amve pempho lanu ndikukuthandizani, chitani izi:

• Kuchokera pansi pamtima, khululukirani wosankhidwa wanu, pemphani chikhululukiro kwa Atetezi a Kumwamba kwa inu nonse;
• Werengani pemphero m'kachisi kapena pamaso pa mafano, ngati muli nawo kunyumba;
• Palibe kapena palibe chomwe chiyenera kusokoneza pempho lanu kwa Akuluakulu Amphamvu - pezani malo abata, obisika;
• Pakupemphera, ganizirani zochita - zonse za inu nokha komanso zochita za wokondedwa wanu;
• Pambuyo pa pemphero, pemphaninso chikhululuko kwa Atetezi a Kumwamba pa mikangano ya m'banja mwanu;
• Mukamawerenga pempheroli, lankhulani ndi banja lanu, pemphaninso chikhululuko kwa iwo.

Mapemphero ogwira mtima ochokera ku mikangano m'banja akhoza kuperekedwa kwa oyera mtima osiyanasiyana, kwa Amayi a Mulungu, kwa Ambuye - mumangofunika kusankha mawu omwe amamveka m'moyo wanu. Zoonadi, m’pemphero, monganso m’chikhulupiriro chonse, chikhumbo ndi kuona mtima n’zofunika kwambiri kuposa mawu amodzi.

Pemphero kuchokera ku mikangano m'banja kwa Vera, Nadezhda, Chikondi ndi amayi awo Sophia

Oyera mtima ndi aulemerero ofera Vero, Nadezhda ndi Lyuba, ndi ana aakazi olimba mtima a amayi anzeru Sophia, tsopano ndi parishi kwa inu ndi pemphero lochokera pansi pa mtima; chinanso chimene chingatipembedzere ife pamaso pa Ambuye, ngati si chikhulupiriro, chiyembekezo ndi chikondi, makhalidwe atatuwa mwala wapangondya, mwa iwo chifaniziro cha otchulidwa, inu mumaonekera mwa uneneri wanu kwambiri! Pempherani kwa Ambuye, kuti mu chisoni ndi tsoka atiphimbe ndi chisomo chake chosaneneka, kutipulumutsa ndi kutisunga, monganso Wokonda anthu ali wabwino. Ku ulemerero uwu, monga dzuŵa silikulowa, tsopano liwala ndi lowala, tifulumizitseni m’mapemphero athu odzichepetsa, Ambuye Mulungu atikhululukire machimo athu ndi mphulupulu zathu, ndipo atichitire chifundo ife ochimwa ndi osayenerera zabwino zake. Mutipempherere ife, ofera chikhulupiriro oyera, Ambuye wathu Yesu Khristu, kwa amene tikutumiza ulemerero ndi Atate wake wopanda chiyambi ndi Mzimu Wake Woyera ndi Wabwino Kwambiri ndi Wopatsa Moyo, tsopano ndi nthawi zanthawi za nthawi. Amene.

Pemphero kuchokera ku mikangano m'banja kupita kwa Mngelo wamkulu Varchiel

O Mngelo wamkulu wa Mulungu, Mngelo wamkulu Barahieli! Titaimirira pamaso pa Mpando Wachifumu wa Mulungu ndipo kuchokera pamenepo ndikubweretsa madalitso a Mulungu ku nyumba za akapolo okhulupirika a Mulungu, pemphani kwa Ambuye Mulungu kuti atichitire chifundo ndi madalitso panyumba zathu, Ambuye Mulungu atidalitse ndi kuonjezera kuchuluka kwa zipatso za dziko lapansi, ndi kutipatsa thanzi ndi chipulumutso, kufulumira kwabwino mu chirichonse, ndi pa adani chigonjetso ndi kugonjetsa, ndipo adzatisunga kwa zaka zambiri, nthawizonse.

Tsopano ndi nthawi za nthawi ndi nthawi. Amene.

Pemphero kuchokera ku mikangano m'banja kwa Namwali Wodala Maria

Dona Wodala, tengani banja langa pansi pa chitetezo Chanu. Khazikitsani m’mitima ya mwamuna kapena mkazi wanga ndi ana athu mtendere, chikondi ndi kusakangana pa zonse zabwino; musalole aliyense wa m’banja langa kupatukana ndi kulekana kovuta, ku imfa ya msanga ndi yadzidzidzi popanda kulapa.

Ndipo pulumutsani nyumba yathu ndi ife tonse okhala mmenemo kuti zisapse ndi moto, ziwawa za akuba, zoyipa zilizonse, inshuwaransi zosiyanasiyana komanso kutengeka kwa mdierekezi.

Inde, ndipo palimodzi komanso padera, momveka bwino komanso mobisa, tidzalemekeza Dzina Lanu Loyera nthawi zonse, tsopano ndi nthawi zonse, kwanthawi za nthawi. Mayi Woyera wa Mulungu, tipulumutseni! Amene.

Pemphero kwa Xenia wa Petersburg kuchokera mikangano m'banja

O, wosavuta m'njira ya moyo wake, wopanda pokhala padziko lapansi, wolowa nyumba wa atate wakumwamba, wodala wodalitsika Xenia! Monga ngati kale, mudagwa mu matenda ndi chisoni pa manda anu ndi kudzaza izo ndi chitonthozo, tsopano ifenso, atathedwa nzeru ndi zoipa zochitika, tikubwera kwa inu, tikupempha ndi chiyembekezo: pempherani, mayi wabwino wakumwamba, kuti mapazi athu awongoledwe. molingana ndi mawu a Yehova pakuchita malamulo ake, ndipo inde kukana Mulungu kolimbana ndi Mulungu kudzathetsedwa, kumene kwalanda mzinda wanu ndi dziko lanu, kutigwetsera ife ochimwa ambiri mu udani wachibale wakufa, kudzikweza kodzikuza ndi kutaya mtima mwamwano. .

O, odala kwambiri, chifukwa cha Khristu, mutachita manyazi ndi zachabechabe za dziko lapansi, pemphani Mlengi ndi Wopereka madalitso onse kuti atipatse kudzichepetsa, kufatsa ndi chikondi m'chuma cha mitima yathu, chikhulupiriro m'kulimbitsa pemphero, chiyembekezo cha kulapa. , mphamvu m'moyo wovuta, machiritso achifundo a moyo ndi thupi chiyero chathu muukwati ndikusamalira anansi athu ndi owona mtima, kukonzanso kwa moyo wathu wonse mu kusamba koyeretsa kwa kulapa, ngati kuti tikuyimba molemekeza kukumbukira kwanu, tiyeni tilemekeze zodabwitsa mwa inu, Atate ndi Mwana ndi Mzimu Woyera, Utatu Consubstantial ndi Indivisible kwanthawi za nthawi. Amene.

Pemphero lamphamvu kwambiri kuchokera ku mikangano m'banja

Pemphero lamphamvu kwambiri lomwe lingathandize kupewa mikangano m'banja ndikukhala mwamtendere, chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa limatengedwa kuti ndi pemphero kwa Yehova. Ndiutali ndiponso wovuta kwambiri kuposa zakale, koma zimene zachitika zaka mazana ambiri zachipembedzo zimati palibe chofanana nacho.

Yesetsani kuwerenga pempheroli kuti muthetse mikangano ndi mavuto onse m’banjamo – zili bwino ngati simungathe kuloweza pamtima, chifukwa mawu athu amafikabe kwa Yehova ngati alankhulidwa kuchokera mu mtima woyera komanso mwa kulamulidwa ndi mzimu.

Pempherani kwa Ambuye kuchokera ku zonyansa ndi mikangano m'banja

Pali pemphero lachikale, mawu opatulika omwe angathandize kudziteteza ku mikangano ndi zokhumudwitsa za m'banja. Mukangomva kuti "mkuntho" ukubwera, pumulani nthawi yomweyo ndikuwerenga pempheroli, ndikudutsa katatu pambuyo pake. Ndipo tsiku lililonse amayamba bwino ndikutha bwino. Mphamvu zake ndi zazikulu.

Mulungu wachifundo, Atate wathu wokondedwa! Inu, mwa kufuna kwanu kwachisomo, mwa chitsogozo Chanu Chaumulungu, mwatiyika ife mu chikhalidwe cha ukwati woyera, kotero kuti ife, monga mwa kukhazikitsidwa Kwanu, kukhalamo. Timakondwera ndi mdalitso Wanu, wonenedwa m'mawu Anu, akuti: Amene wapeza mkazi wapeza zabwino, ndipo walandira madalitso kwa Yehova. Ambuye Mulungu! Shikaho katwatela kwikala namuchima wenyi wosena muvyuma vyakushipilitu mukuyoya chenu, kaha Kalunga eji kwivwililanga kuwaha hakuyoya chenyi, kaha eji kwivwanga kuwaha kushipilitu.

Mbewu yake idzakhala yamphamvu padziko lapansi, mbadwo wa olungama udzadalitsidwa. Tsimikizirani kuti iwo amakonda mawu anu koposa zonse, akumvetsera mwaufulu ndi kuwaphunzira, kuti tikhale ngati mtengo wobzalidwa pa kasupe wa madzi, umene ubala zipatso zake m’nthawi yake, ndipo tsamba lake silifota; kukhala ngati mwamuna amene amachita zinthu bwino. Chitaninso kuti tizikhala mwamtendere komanso mogwirizana, kuti m'banja lathu timakonda chiyero ndi kuwona mtima, osachita nawo, kuti mtendere umakhala m'nyumba mwathu ndipo timasunga dzina loona mtima.

Tipatseni chisomo chowalera ana athu mu mantha ndi chilango ku ulemerero Wanu waumulungu, kuti kuchokera mkamwa mwawo mukonze matamando anu. Apatseni mtima womvera, chikhale chabwino kwa iwo.

Tetezani nyumba yathu, chuma chathu ndi chuma chathu kumoto ndi madzi, matalala ndi mphepo yamkuntho, kwa akuba ndi achifwamba, popeza mwatipatsa zonse zomwe tili nazo, chifukwa chake, chitirani chifundo ndi kuzipulumutsa ndi mphamvu zanu. osalenga nyumba, ndiye akuimanga agwirira ntchito pachabe, ngati Inu, Ambuye, simusunga nzika, ndiye mlonda sagona pachabe, Mutumiza kwa wokondedwa wanu.

Mumakhazikitsa chilichonse ndikulamulira chilichonse ndikulamulira aliyense: mumalipira kukhulupirika ndi chikondi chonse kwa inu ndikulanga kusakhulupirika konse. Ndipo pamene Inu, Ambuye Mulungu, mwafuna kutitumizira masautso ndi madandaulo, ndiye tipatseni chipiriro kuti tigonjere momvera ku chilango Chanu cha Utate ndi kutichitira chifundo. Ngati tagwa, musatikane, mutithandize ndi kutidzutsanso. Tifewetseni zisoni zathu ndi kutitonthoza ife, ndipo musatisiye ife mu zosowa zathu, tipatseni ife kuti iwo asakonde zanthawi zonse kuposa zamuyaya; chifukwa sitidatenga kanthu polowa m’dziko lino lapansi, sitidzatulukamo kanthu.

Musatilole kuti tigwiritsire ntchito chikondi cha ndalama, muzu uwu wa masoka onse, koma tiyeni tiyese kuchita bwino m’chikhulupiriro ndi chikondi ndi kupeza moyo wosatha umene tinaitanidwa. Mulungu Atate akudalitseni ndi kutisunga. Mulungu Mzimu Woyera atembenuzire nkhope yake kwa ife ndi kutipatsa mtendere. Mulungu Mwana aunikire ndi nkhope yake ndi kutichitira chifundo, Utatu Woyera utitetezere kulowa ndi kutuluka kwathu kuyambira tsopano ndi nthawi za nthawi. Amene!

Pemphero kwa Amayi a Mulungu kuti ayanjanenso ndi wokondedwa

Ngati mukufuna kupemphera osati kuthetsa mikangano nthawi zonse ndi mikangano m'banja, koma kuti muyanjanitse mwamsanga ndi wokondedwa wanu, mukhoza kusankha pemphero lotere lopita kwa Amayi a Mulungu.

Mayi Wathu Woyera Kwambiri, Namwali Mariya, Amayi a Mulungu! Ndipatseni ine, mtumiki wa Ambuye (dzina), chisomo chanu! Ndiphunzitseni mmene mungalimbitsire mtendere m’banja, kunyada kodzichepetsa, kugwirizana. Pemphani Ambuye kuti atikhululukire akapolo ake ochimwa (mayina ndi amuna). M’dzina la Atate ndi la Mwana ndi la Mzimu Woyera. Amene!

Pemphero lalifupi la mtendere ndi chikondi m'banja

Ambuye Yesu Khristu! Nthawi Zonse-Namwali Mariya! Inu mukukhala kumwamba, tiyang’anireni ife ochimwa, thandizani m’masautso a dziko lapansi!

Iwo anavekedwa korona ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi, analamulidwa kukhala mwamtendere, kusunga nkhunda kukhulupirika, konse kulumbira, musataye mawu akuda. Tamandani inu, kondwerani angelo akumwamba ndi kuyimba, kubala ana ndi kuchita nawo nthawi yomweyo. Mawu a Mulungu kunyamula, kukhala pamodzi mu chisoni ndi chisangalalo.

Tipatseni mtendere ndi bata! Kotero kuti chikondi cha nkhunda sichidutsa, koma chidani, chilakolako chakuda ndi mavuto sizipeza njira yolowera m'nyumba! Ambuye titetezeni kwa munthu woyipa, diso loyipa, zochita za mdierekezi, malingaliro olemetsa, zowawa zopanda pake. Amene.

Pemphero kwa Daniel waku Moscow

Woyera uyu amapemphereredwanso nthawi zambiri kuti azikhala mwamtendere m'banja, makamaka ngati mikangano yakhala ikuchulukirachulukira:

Kutamandidwa kwakukulu kwa Mpingo wa Khristu, mzinda wa Moscow ndi khoma losagonjetseka, mphamvu za Chitsimikizo Chaumulungu cha Russia, M'busa Kalonga Daniel, kuthamangira kumtundu wa zotsalira zanu, tikupemphera mowona mtima kwa inu: yang'anani kwa ife, omwe tikuyimba. kukumbukira kwanu, kukhetsa kupembedzera kwanu kwachikondi kwa Mpulumutsi wa onse, ngati kukhazikitsa mtendere m'dziko lathu, mizinda yake ndi midzi yake ndi nyumba ya amonke idzasunga ubwino, kubzala umulungu ndi chikondi mwa anthu anu, kuthetsa nkhanza, mikangano yapachiŵeniŵeni ndi makhalidwe abwino; kwa ife tonse, zonse zimene ziri zabwino ku moyo wosakhalitsa ndi chipulumutso chosatha, perekani ndi mapemphero anu, monga ngati tilemekeza Khristu Mulungu wathu, wodabwitsa mwa oyera ake, kwa nthawi za nthawi. Amene.

Pemphero kwa Mtumwi Simoni Mzelote

Mngelo wamkulu ameneyu amathandiza pa nkhani za m’banja. Pemphero kwa iye lidzakuthandizani kuchoka ku mikangano m'banja, ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi:

Mtumwi Woyera waulemelero ndi wotamandika wa Kristu Simone, woyenera kulandira m’nyumba mwanu ku Kana wa ku Galileya Ambuye wathu Yesu Kristu ndi Amayi Ake Oyera Kwambiri, Mayi Wathu Theotokos, ndi kukhala mboni yowona ndi maso chozizwitsa chaulemerero cha Khristu, chowonekera pa inu. mbale, kusandutsa madzi kukhala vinyo! Tikupemphera kwa inu ndi chikhulupiriro ndi chikondi: tikupempha Khristu Ambuye kuti asinthe miyoyo yathu kuchoka ku kukonda uchimo kukhala kukonda Mulungu; tipulumutseni ndi kutisunga ndi mapemphero anu ku mayesero a mdierekezi ndi kugwa kwa uchimo ndipo tipempheni kuchokera kumwamba kuti atithandize pa nthawi yachisoni ndi kusowa thandizo, tisapunthwe pa mwala wa mayesero, koma tiyende mokhazikika njira yopulumutsa ya malamulo. wa Kristu, kufikira titafika kumalo okhala paradaiso, kumene tsopano mukukhazikika ndi kusangalala . Hei, Mtumwi wa Mpulumutsi! Musatichititse manyazi ife, olimba mwa inu amene timakhulupirira, koma khalani mthandizi wathu ndi woyang'anira m'miyoyo yathu yonse ndipo mutithandize mwaumulungu ndi mokondweretsa Mulungu kuthetsa moyo wosakhalitsa uno, kulandira imfa yabwino ndi yamtendere yachikhristu ndikulemekezedwa ndi yankho labwino pa Chiweruzo Chomaliza cha Khristu, koma titatha kuthawa mayesero amlengalenga ndi mphamvu ya wosunga dziko lapansi woopsa, tidzalandira Ufumu wa Kumwamba ndi kulemekeza Dzina laulemerero la Atate ndi la Mwana ndi la Mzimu Woyera kwamuyaya. Amene.

Malangizo a amuna anzeru

Tonse ndife osiyana, aliyense ali ndi zizolowezi zake, ubwino ndi kuipa kwake, ndipo izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa cha kusagwirizana m'banja. Koma ichi si chifukwa chokhulupirira kuti gulu lanu la anthu lidzawonongeka.

Musaiwale kuti mapemphero okhawo sangakhale okwanira kukonza vutolo - nthawi zambiri mnzanuyo amadikiriranso njira zenizeni, zakuthupi zomwe zingathandize kulimbikitsa banja.

Mpingo umapereka malangizo ofunikira kuti athandizire kulimbikitsa ubale wabanja ndikupewa mikangano:

• Chotsani mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo pa mnzanu wa moyo, musamadzudzule "wotsutsa" pa chirichonse;
• Chotsani zosayenera kwa inu, pewani chipongwe, chipongwe kwa mnzanu wapamtima;
• Yendani pa kunyada kwanu - iyi ndi sitepe yoyamba yomvetsetsana;
• Uzani wosankhidwa wanu pafupipafupi za momwe mukumvera, osasintha zokambirana zotere kukhala chiwonetsero, chomwe chingathetse mkangano wina;
• Mapemphero ochokera ku mikangano m'banja ayenera kuwerengedwa kangapo. Ndi bwino kuchita zimenezi kangapo patsiku.

Langizo lomaliza likukhudza kulumikizana ndi Akuluakulu ankhondo ambiri.

Kutembenukira kwa Othandizira Kumwamba kudzakuthandizani m'njira zambiri:

• Mudzayamba kuona osati zolakwa ndi zolakwa za soulmate wanu, komanso anu, ndipo iyi ndi sitepe yoyamba yolimbana nawo;
• Mudzayamba kumvetsetsa bwino wosankhidwa wanu, kuwona zabwino zake;
• Mudzakhala wachifundo, wachilungamo, woleza mtima;
• Amphamvu Apamwamba adzakupatsani nzeru kuti muchite dala, molondola.

Banja lanu ndi thandizo lanu, chithandizo chanu. Kumanga kwake ndi kusungitsa mtendere ndi kutukuka mmenemo ndi ntchito yaikulu, ndipo nthaŵi zina, yolimba. Pemphero kuchokera ku mikangano m'banja lidzathandiza kuti pakhale mtendere m'nyumba, koma musaiwale kuti mamembala ake onse ayenera kuyesetsa.

Kodi mwawapempha abwenzi akumwamba kuti mukhale ndi mtendere m'nyumba mwanu? Tiuzeni za izo mu ndemanga.