Mimba pa 20, 30 kapena 40: palibe zaka zabwino zokhala makolo
Pa chochitika chachisanu Makolo kukangana pamutu wakuti “Mimba pa 20, 30 kapena 40: kodi pali zaka zabwino kukhala makolo? Tidafunsa amayi pamabwalo athu ngati akuganiza kuti pali zaka zoyenera kukhala ndi mwana. Yankho lawo: Ayi!
"Ndili ndi zaka 20, ndidakali wamng'ono kwambiri, ku 30, ino si nthawi yoti muyambe ntchito yaukatswiri, ku 40, nthawi yatha ... ife timazimverera izo, pamene ife tikuzifuna izo. Kotero, kwa ena ndi aang'ono kwambiri (ine, kuyambira zaka 15, ndinkafuna ana, ndipo ndinadziwa kuti ndinawafuna mofulumira), kwa ena ndi pambuyo pake. Zilibe kanthu! Chodetsa nkhawa ndi wotchi yathu yachilengedwe chifukwa nthawi zina, podikirira, imakhala mochedwa kwambiri. ” Rabbi 511
“Ndikanakonda kukhala mayi ndili ndi zaka 24 koma zinthu sizinalole. Monsieur anali asanakonzekere. Payekha, ndikuganiza kuti palibe zaka zabwino. Ndi molingana ndi mbiri ya aliyense ndi mahomoni kuti titillate. Ndipo ngati tidzakhala ndi ana athanzi pambuyo pake, kuli bwino kwambiri! Timakhala nthawi yayitali, timakhalanso ndi mawonekedwe nthawi yayitali. ” Kiti 2012
“Sindikuganiza kuti pali zaka zoti munthu akhale mayi. Ine sindimakhulupirira mu “kukhala wokonzeka” ngakhale. Mumatani pokonzekera zosadziwika za mimba ndi mwana? Timafuna, koma sitingakhale “okonzeka” chifukwa sitidziwiratu mmene zinthu zidzakhalire. Ndinali ndi mwayi wowona "zoopsa" ziwiri: amayi anga anali ndi mng'ono wanga ali ndi zaka 38 ndipo mlongo wanga wamng'ono anali ndi mwana wawo wamkazi woyamba ali ndi zaka 15 (ali ndi zaka 20 tsopano ndipo akuyembekezera mwana wake wachiwiri mu September). Wina anayenera “kukhala wamng’ono” ndipo winayo anayenera “kukalamba”. Mlongo wanga waumitsidwa, amayi anga afewetsedwa… Ndimasilira onse (…). Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, zaka ndi nambala chabe! Sitisamala. ” Gigitte13
Tengani nawo gawo mumkangano wachisanu wa Makolo! Lachiwiri Meyi 3, ku Paris, kusindikiza kwachisanu kwa ” Makolo amakangana "Ndi mutu wakuti:" Mimba pa 20, 30 kapena 40: kodi pali zaka zabwino kukhala makolo? “. Kuti tikambirane nanu nkhaniyi, takuitanani: Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, psychoanalyst, ndi Mphunzitsi. Michel Tournaire, dokotala wa amayi oyembekezera komanso woyang'anira chipatala cha Saint-Vincent de Paul ku Paris. Astrid Veillon, mulungu wathu wolimba mtima, mwachionekere adzatiuza. Ngati mukufuna kutenga nawo mbali pamsonkhanowu, lembani podina apa: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription |