Zamkatimu
Chizindikiro chowonjezera pakuyezetsa mimba, kuyesa kwa magazi. Ndi zimenezotu, moyo wathu wasanduka mpaka kalekale. Timadzifunsa mafunso ambiri, ndipo ndi zachilendo! Ndi kukonzekera pang'ono ndi malangizo ochepa awa, mudzatha kulimbana mwangwiro ndi chisokonezo chachikulu cha mimba yoyamba.
Mimba yoyamba: zovuta bwanji!
Chimwemwe, chisangalalo, kukayikira ... kuchokera ku chitsimikizo cha mimba yoyamba, malingaliro amasakanikirana ndi kusakanikirana. Ndipo pazifukwa zomveka: kukhala ndi mwana ndizovuta kwambiri, kuyambira ndi a kusintha kwa thupi, zosokoneza. Kwa miyezi isanu ndi inayi, thupi lathu limasinthidwa kuti likhale bwino ndi mwana wathu. Ndi zodabwitsa zina zomwe zili pafupi: kusinthasintha kwamalingaliro, zilakolako zosagwirizana, maloto oseketsa ...
Chithunzi chatsopanochi chikutsagananso ndi a kusokonezeka kwama psychic "Mimba ndi mphambano m'moyo yomwe imatikakamiza kusiya malo athu amwana kukhala kholo m'malo athu: si kanthu!", Kutsindika Corinne Antoine, katswiri wa zamaganizo. Miyezi isanu ndi inayi ndiyofunika kwambiri kuti muchepetse zomverera zatsopanozi. “Zimatenga nthawi kuti mupange kumverera kwa amayi, ndipo perekani malo kwa mwana ameneyu pamutu pake ndi mu ukwati wake", Akupitiriza Corinne Antoine. “Palibe zaka zokhala mayi. Kumbali ina, malingana ndi ubwana umene takhala nawo, ndipo makamaka ubale umene tili nawo ndi amayi athu, ukhoza kukhala wovuta kwambiri. “
Mimba imasokonezanso banja lathu. Kaŵirikaŵiri, monga mayi woyembekezera, wina amasangalala ndi chisamaliro chonse cha awo amene ali pafupi ndi atate wake, amene nthaŵi zina angadzimve kukhala wotsalira, monga ngati sanachitepo kanthu m’nkhaniyo. Choncho samalani kuti musasiye. Chotero timagawana naye zonse zimene timamva, kuti nayenso ayambe ulendowu ndi kutenga malo ake monga atate.
Nkhawa (zachibadwa) za mimba yoyamba
Kodi ndidzakhala mayi wabwino? Kodi kutumiza kudzayenda bwanji? Kodi ndimva ululu? Kodi mwana wanga adzakhala wathanzi? Kodi kukonzekera tsogolo? … Mafunso omwe timadzifunsa ndi ochuluka komanso abwinobwino. Kubereka koyamba kumatanthauza kuchita kulumpha kwakukulu kupita kosadziwika ! Dziwani kuti tonsefe tinali ndi nkhawa zofanana, kuphatikizapo zomwe zakhalapo kale, khanda lachiwiri, lachitatu kapena lachisanu!
Chinsinsi chomvetsetsa kubwera kwa mwana wathu komanso momwe tingathere ndichoyembekezerani kusintha, makamaka pa mlingo wa okwatirana. Ndani amati mwana, amati nthawi yocheperako komanso yocheperako kwa wina. Choncho timakonzekera kuyambira pano kuti tithandizidwe ndipo timasungira mphindi ziwiri pambuyo pobadwa. Titha kulankhula kale pang'ono za maphunziro (mayi, chifundo, kugona limodzi kapena ayi ...) ngakhale zonsezi sizikudziwika ... pewani kusamvetsetsana kwina.
Khalani bwino ndi mimba yathu yoyamba
«Choyambirira dalirani nokha ndi mwana wanu", akutero Corinne Antoine. «Mayi wobadwa yekha ndi amene amadziwa zomwe zili zabwino kwa iye ndi mwana wake.Timathawa nkhani zoopsa zobereka komanso amayi omwe amatiopseza zamtsogolo. Tidawerenga nkhani zakubadwa zopambana ngati izi zokambidwa apa ndi mayi wina!
Timakonzekeretsa chipinda cha mwana wathu ndi zinthu kuti tisamugwire modzidzimutsa ngati wasankha kufika msanga. Timapezanso nthawi yochita zinthu zathu. Timapumula popanda kudziimba mlandu, timasangalala povomera, bwanji osagula pang'ono pa intaneti… Kudekha uku ndikofunikira kuti tithane ndi zovuta zomwe zikutiyembekezera. Ifenso timadalira mzathu, mudzaona kuti zingati ndi zolimbikitsa kukonzekera zosintha zonsezi pamodzi : Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yowonetsetsa kuti zonse zikuyenda bwino!
Mayeso : Ndi mkazi wapakati uti?
Kukhala ndi pakati ndi miyezi isanu ndi inayi yachisangalalo… koma osati kokha! Pali omwe amawopa nthawi zonse zochitika, omwe amadzikonzekeretsa kuti azilamulira chilichonse ndi omwe ali pansi pamtambo! Ndipo inu, mukukhala bwanji ndi mimba yanu? Yesani mayeso athu.