Katswiri wa zamaganizo Brian Little: "Makhalidwe athu ndi osinthika kuposa momwe timaganizira"

Kukula, timadziwa dziko lapansi ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa momwe tingakhalire momwemo - choti tichite, kukondana ndi ndani, kupanga naye mabwenzi. Timayesa kudzizindikiritsa tokha m'malemba ndi mafilimu, kuti titsatire chitsanzo cha anthu otchuka. Mitundu ya umunthu yopangidwa ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo ndi akatswiri a chikhalidwe cha anthu amakonda kupangitsa ntchito yathu kukhala yosavuta: ngati aliyense wa ife ali m'modzi mwa mitundu khumi ndi isanu ndi umodzi, zimangokhala kuti tidzipeze tokha ndikutsatira "malangizo".

Kodi kukhala wekha kumatanthauza chiyani?

Malinga ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Brian Little, njira imeneyi siiganiziranso mphamvu za munthu. M'moyo wonse, timakumana ndi zovuta, timaphunzira kuthana ndi zovuta ndi zotayika, kusintha zomwe tikuwona komanso zomwe zimafunikira patsogolo. Tikazoloŵera kugwirizanitsa mkhalidwe uliwonse wa moyo ndi khalidwe linalake, tikhoza kutaya mphamvu zothetsera mavuto mwaluso ndikukhala akapolo a ntchito imodzi.

Koma ngati tingasinthe, ndiye mpaka pati? Brian Little akufuna kuti ayang'ane umunthu ngati zomangamanga zambiri, zomwe zimakonzedwa molingana ndi mfundo ya "matryoshka".

Woyamba, wozama kwambiri komanso wosanjikiza wocheperako ndi biogenic. Ichi ndi dongosolo lathu la majini, momwe zina zonse zimapangidwira. Tinene kuti ngati ubongo wathu sunalandire bwino dopamine, timafunikira kukondoweza kwambiri. Chifukwa chake - kusakhazikika, ludzu lazachilendo komanso ngozi.

Gawo lotsatira ndi la sociogenic. Zimapangidwa ndi chikhalidwe ndi kakulidwe. Anthu osiyanasiyana, m’mikhalidwe yosiyana ya anthu, otsatira zipembedzo zosiyanasiyana ali ndi maganizo awoawo pa zimene zili zofunika, zovomerezeka ndi zosavomerezeka. Gulu la sociogenic limatithandiza kuyenda m'malo omwe timawadziwa bwino, kuwerenga ma signature ndikupewa zolakwika.

Wachitatu, wosanjikiza wakunja, Brian Little amatcha ideogenic. Zimaphatikizapo chilichonse chomwe chimatipanga kukhala apadera - malingaliro, zikhalidwe ndi malamulo omwe tadzipangira tokha komanso omwe timawatsatira m'moyo.

Zothandizira kusintha

Maubale pakati pa zigawozi si nthawi zonse (ndipo osati) zogwirizana. Pochita izi, izi zingayambitse zotsutsana zamkati. “Kukonda kwachibadwa kwa utsogoleri ndi kuuma khosi kungasemphane ndi mkhalidwe wa chikhalidwe cha anthu wa kufanana ndi kulemekeza akulu,” Brian Little akupereka chitsanzo.

Chifukwa chake, mwina, ambiri amalota kuthawa m'manja mwabanja. ndi mwayi womwe wayembekezeredwa kwa nthawi yayitali kuti usinthe mawonekedwe a sociogenic ku maziko a biogenic, kuti apeze kukhulupirika kwamkati. Ndipo apa ndipamene "Ine" yathu yolenga imabwera kudzathandiza.

Sitiyenera kudzizindikiritsa tokha ndi khalidwe lililonse la umunthu, akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ngati mugwiritsa ntchito njira imodzi yokha (mwachitsanzo, introverted) pazonse zomwe zingatheke, mumachepetsa zomwe mungathe. Tinene kuti mukhoza kukana kulankhula pamaso pa anthu chifukwa mukuganiza kuti "si chinthu chanu" ndipo ndinu bwino ntchito chete ofesi.

Kuphatikizira gawo lathu la ideogenic, timatembenukira ku mikhalidwe yomwe ingasinthidwe. Inde, ngati ndinu munthu wongolankhula, n’zokayikitsa kuti mmene zinthu zilili muubongo wanu zimangochitika mwachisawawa mukaganiza zodziwana ndi anthu ambiri paphwando. Koma mukhozabe kukwaniritsa cholinga chimenechi ngati n’chofunika kwa inu.

Inde, tiyenera kuganizira zimene sitingathe kuchita. Ntchito ndikuwerengera mphamvu zanu kuti musasochere. Malinga ndi a Brian Little, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mudzipatse nthawi yopumula ndikuwonjezeranso, makamaka mukamachita chinthu chachilendo kwa inu. Mothandizidwa ndi "dzenje" zotere (kutha kukhala kuthamanga kwa m'mawa mwakachetechete, kumvetsera nyimbo yomwe mumakonda kapena kuyankhula ndi wokondedwa), timadzipatulira ndikumanga mphamvu za jerks zatsopano.

M'malo kusintha zilakolako zathu okhwima yomanga wathu «mtundu», tingayang'ane kwa zipangizo kuzindikira awo tokha.

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