Kubwerera kutchuthi chakumayi: kusankhana kumafa kwambiri

Kubwerera kutchuthi chakumayi: lamulo limati chiyani?

Lamuloli limateteza amayi oyembekezera ndi amayi akabwerako kutchuthi choyembekezera. Mafunso ndi Valerie Duez-Ruff, loya, katswiri pa tsankho.

Kubwerera kuntchito pambuyo pa tchuthi cha amayi nthawi zambiri amawopedwa ndi amayi achichepere. Pambuyo pa miyezi yokhala ndi mwana wawo, amadabwa momwe angabwerere ku ntchito zawo, ngati zinthu zidzasintha pamene palibe. Ndipo nthawi zina amakhala ndi zodabwitsa zodabwitsa. Kafukufuku wonse akuwonetsa kuti kukhala mayi kumakhudza kwambiri ntchito za amayi, koma zomwe sitinena, kapena zochepa, ndizo. nthawi zina, zovuta zimayamba mukangobwera kuchokera kutchuthi chakumayi. Kukwezedwa kukana, kuchulukitsidwa komwe kumadutsa m'mbali mwa njira, maudindo omwe amasokonekera mpaka atachotsedwa ntchito ... njira zatsankho zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa amayi achichepere zikuchulukirachulukira molingana ndi. Kubereka kapena kutenga pakati ndi gawo lachiwiri la tsankho lomwe limatchulidwa ndi ozunzidwa (20%) atangotha ​​kumene okhudzana ndi kugonana. Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa wa Journal des femmes, Amayi 36 pa XNUMX aliwonse amakhulupirira kuti sanapezenso ntchito zonse zomwe amakhala asanakhale mayi. Ndipo chiwerengerochi chikukwera mpaka 44% pakati pa akuluakulu. Ambiri apeza kuti adapatsidwa udindo wocheperapo atabwerera kuntchito ndipo adafunikira kutsimikiziridwanso. Komabe, amati amayi amatetezedwa ndi lamulo akabwerera kuntchito. 

Ndi maufulu ndi zitsimikizo zotani zomwe amayi amasangalala nazo akadzabwera ku tchuthi choyembekezera? Kodi ndizofanana patchuthi cha makolo?

Pamapeto pa nthawi ya uchembere, utate, kulera mwana kapena tchuthi cha makolo, ogwira ntchito ali ndi ufulu wobwerera ku ntchito yawo yakale, kapena ntchito yofananira ndi malipiro ofanana ndipo sayenera kuchitiridwa tsankho. Konkire, kubwezeretsedwa kuyenera kuchitidwa ngati chinthu choyambirira mu ntchito yapitayi ikapezeka, kulephera, mu ntchito yofananira.. Mwachitsanzo, bwana sangafune kuti wogwira ntchitoyo abwerere kuntchito m'mawa m'malo mwa masana kapena kumupatsa ntchito yomwe imaphatikizapo kugwira ntchito pamene anali kugwira ntchitoyo asananyamuke. mlembi wamkulu. Kuyimitsa kutsata kukana kwa wogwira ntchitoyo kumabweretsa ufulu wowonongeka chifukwa chochotsedwa ntchito mopanda chilungamo ngati kufunikira kwa kusinthidwa sikunakhazikitsidwe ndi abwana.

Kodi angakanidwe kukweza ndalama atapatsidwa kwa anzake?

Pamapeto pa tchuthi chakumayi kapena kulera mwana, malipirowo ayenera kuyesedwanso, ngati kuli kofunikira, poganizira za kuwonjezeka kwa malipiro omwe antchito a gulu limodzi la akatswiri apindula panthawi yopuma. Kusintha kotsimikizika kwamalipiro koperekedwa ndi lamulo kuyenera kutsatiridwa. Kuonjezera apo, mayi amene ayambiranso ntchito yake ali ndi ufulu wokambirana ndi abwana ake ndi cholinga cha ntchito yake.

M'masabata anayi otsatizana ndi kutha kwa tchuthi chakumayi, wogwira ntchitoyo angachotsedwe chifukwa cha kulakwa kwakukulu kapena zifukwa zachuma? Ndi chiyani?

A derogation kuchokera chiletso pa kuchotsedwa ntchito, pa nthawi ya 4 masabata pambuyo kutha kwa tchuthi laumayi, amaloledwa ngati abwana kulungamitsa: mwina vuto lalikulu pa mbali ya wantchito, zosagwirizana ndi mimba kapena kulera . Zofanana ndi zachiwawa kapena zokhumudwitsa, kusakhalapo popanda chifukwa, kulakwa kwakukulu kwa akatswiri komanso osati kusasamala, kapena kuchita zinthu mwachibwanabwana, kubera kapena kukhazikitsidwa kwa zolemba zabodza kuti apeze ntchito zosayenera. Kapena zosatheka kusunga mgwirizano, pazifukwa zosagwirizana ndi mimba, kubereka kapena kukhazikitsidwa. Kusatheka koteroko kungalungamitsidwe kokha ndi mikhalidwe yosadalira khalidwe la munthuyo. Ndiko kuti: nthawi yodzitchinjiriza pakuthetsedwa kwa mgwirizano wantchito wa milungu inayi imayimitsidwa pomwe wogwira ntchitoyo atenga tchuthi cholipidwa pambuyo pa tchuthi chake chakumayi.

Kodi chingachitike n’chiyani pakachitika tsankho? Adilesi iti?

Mukangoganiza kuti ndinu ozunzidwa ndi tsankho, musachite mantha kuyankhula za izo mofulumira kwambiri kwa wokondedwa kuti asonkhanitse chithandizo chomwe chidzafunika kupirira vutoli, makamaka popeza wogwira ntchito ndi mayi wamng'ono. kufooka m'maganizo. Ndiye funsani loya mosazengereza kuti khazikitsani njira yosungira umboni (makamaka maimelo onse) musanachitepo kanthu ngati kuli kofunikira. Pankhani ya chipinda, padzakhala kofunika kupyolera mu mtolo wa zizindikiro kusonyeza kufunitsitsa kwa abwana kuika wantchito pambali. Kuchepetsedwa kwa maudindo omwe apatsidwa kwa wogwira ntchito ndi chizindikiro chothandiza pankhaniyi. Woteteza Ufulu atha kulumikizidwanso pakachitika tsankho.

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