Kubwerera kuntchito pambuyo pa Mwana

Bwererani kuntchito pambuyo pa tchuthi cha amayi

Bwerani, zindikirani izo. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mukufunikira kupeza dziko lachikulire, ofesi yanu, anzanu, makina a khofi, adrenaline, pamene nthawi yomaliza ikuyandikira, kupanikizika kumawonjezeka. Kubwerera kuntchito pambuyo pa tchuthi cha amayi kapena abambo kuli ngati kubwerera kusukulu. Kuyambika koyimitsidwa, komanso, monga nkhani zomwe zimafika ku koleji, popeza enawo akhala akusamba kwakanthawi.

Kulekana ndi mwana wanu

Choyamba, tikudziwa kuti nthawi iyi ya miyezi yoyambirira yomwe mumakhala nokha ndi mwana wanu imayimira mphindi yapadera m'moyo, kuthawa padziko lapansi, kusambitsidwa mwachifundo, chodziwika ndi kudyetsa, matewera, kugona, nthawi yomwe ife tiri. nostalgic chifukwa tisanatulukemo. Kubwerera ku dziko la ntchito kumafuna khama la kukonzanso kuti ayambirenso nyimbo yatsopano. Zimapangitsanso kulira kulira kokulirapo. Ndipo mwina ndizovuta kwambiri masiku ano, panthawi yamavuto, pomwe akatswiri padziko lapansi, okhazikika, achiwawa, samakupatsani chikhumbo chachikulu, pomwe kufunika kwa ntchito sikufanananso ndi kukwaniritsa. "Aliyense amene anganene 'kubwezera' akuti 'wasiya chinachake', amakumbukira Sylvie Sanchez-Forsans, katswiri wa zamaganizo. Kuyambira pamene mwasiya, n’kwachibadwa kukhala ndi mantha. Kupsinjika kumapangitsa kuti athe kudziteteza, kuchitapo kanthu. Chomwe chimatifooketsanso, ikafika nthawi yobwerera ku mizere yakutsogolo, mwachiwonekere kulekanitsidwa ndi khanda lathu, kuyesa kwa mgwirizano watsopanowu. Ngakhale akakhala okondwa kuyambiranso ntchito yawo yaukatswiri, amayi ambiri amadzimva kukhala aliwongo ponena za kusiya mwana wawo kwa woyamwitsa kapena ku nazale.

Chinsinsi cha kuchira bwino: kuyembekezera

Njira yabwino yochepetsera nkhawa ndikuwongolera kubwerera ndikudikirira, makamaka posamalira kunyamuka kwake. Mudzakhala osangalala kwambiri kuti mubwererenso chifukwa mudzakhala mutakonza mafayilo anu musananyamuke. Ngati chiyeso chingakhale chachikulu chofuna kutenga nthawi yoyembekezera mpaka kumapeto popanda kusokonezedwa ndi gawo la akatswiri, ndi kukana pulojekiti yochuluka kwambiri, kungakhale kulakwitsa. M'malo mwake, yesani a chikhalidwe kupita patsogolo. Sylvie Sanchez-Forsans akufotokoza kuti: Mukayang'anizana ndi mkhalidwe wowopsa, mwasayansi, pali njira zitatu zochitira: kuyang'ana pa vuto kuti lilithetse, kugwidwa ndi malingaliro omwe angakulepheretseni, kapena kuchita china chake kuthawa. Chochitika choyamba ndicho mwachiwonekere chosonyezedwa kwambiri. Choncho ndibwino kuti musapewe kuchira komwe kukuyandikira ndikupitirira pang'onopang'ono. Titha kutumiza maimelo angapo, ganizirani chakudya chamasana ndi anzathu, zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi wodziwa zambiri, ngakhale kudziwa miseche yaposachedwa. Kuwerenga zosindikizira zamalonda m'gawo lathu la ntchito kungakhalenso kothandiza.

Khalani mu chikhalidwe, kusangalala

Kubwerera kusukulu sikungotanthauza kutha kwa tchuthi… Kumatanthauzanso kugula kobwerera kusukulu, zikwama zakusukulu ndi zovala zatsopano. Kwa kubwereranso kwa tchuthi cha amayi, ndizofanana. Kuti mukhale bwino, musazengereze kukonza zovala zanu, chotsani zovala zomwe mukudziwa kuti simudzavalanso, chifukwa zachoka mu mafashoni, chifukwa sizikukwanira. ku chikhalidwe chathu chatsopano. Ngati mungathe, dzigulireni chovala chimodzi kapena ziwiri zobwerera kusukulu, pitani kwa ometa tsitsi… Mwachidule, bwezeretsani thupi lanu ndi udindo wanu monga mkazi wokangalika, valani suti yanu yantchito. Sylvie Sanchez-Forsans anati: “Chifukwa n’kofunikanso kudzipereka kwa ife eni ndi kwa ena chikhumbo chofuna kugwira ntchito nafe. Amayi ena, panthawi yochira, amakhala opanda chilakolako, zilakolako za akatswiri, kuti azingowona gawo loletsa la ntchito yawo. Ndikofunika kuti musatsekedwe mumtundu uwu wa neurasthenia. Sipadzakhalanso ntchito yabwino, akatswiri onse amapereka gawo lawo la ntchito zosayamika. Onse a iwo alinso ndi mbali zawo zabwino.

Makampani awa omwe amathandizira kubwerera kwa amayi

Makampani ena amvetsetsa kuti kuwona amayi omwe ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri akubwerera kutchuthi chawo choberekera kungakhale kopanda phindu. Kwa zaka ziwiri, Ernst & Young akhazikitsa zokambirana ziwiri, amayi asananyamuke komanso atabwerako kuti akasinthe bwino. Kampaniyo imaperekanso antchito, mkati mwa sabata yoyamba, kuti azigwira ntchito ganyu, amalipira 100%. Dokotala wa ana, Dr Jacqueline Salomon-Pomper, amabwera kumalo a Ernst & Young kuti alandire, mwazofunsana mwachinsinsi kapena mwachinsinsi kapena m'magulu othandizira, antchito omwe akufuna. ” Ndikofunika kuti amayi achichepere amve kulandiridwa ndi abwana awo, amalemba. Mkazi yemwe ali ndi chidaliro m'tsogolo akhoza kungowonjezera phindu ku kampani. Ayeneranso kufotokoza zomwe akumva, kuti asadziyese okha. Umayi ndi chipwirikiti kotero kuti sitingathe kuyembekezera chirichonse. Simuyenera kudzitsekera nokha, musazengereze kupempha thandizo. “

Siyani Mumakonda