Kugonana popanda orgasm - ndi zabwinobwino?

Kugonana sikutha nthawi zonse mu orgasm. Pali nthawi pamene mkazi alibe chilakolako chotero: lero, tsopano, pa nthawi ino simukufuna. Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti chinachake chalakwika ndi inu, katswiri wa zamaganizo-sexologist akutsimikizira.

Pulogalamu yofunikira?

Pali nthano yodziwika kuti kugonana popanda orgasm kuli ngati phwando lopanda chisangalalo. Ndipo ngati mmodzi wa abwenzi sanafike pamapeto osangalatsa, ndiye kuti zonse zinali zosangalatsa. Chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro chonyengachi, pamakhala zovuta: mwina akazi amayenera kunamizira orgasm, kapena amuna ayenera kudziimba mlandu.

Amakhulupirira kuti tiyenera kufika pachimake chapamwamba kwambiri panthawi iliyonse yogonana. Koma sichoncho! Ngati zowombera moto sizinachitike pamapeto, izi sizitanthauza kuti m'modzi mwa ogwirizanawo adalephera. Ndizothekanso. Pogonana, palibe malingaliro akuti "zolondola" ndi "zolakwika", "zotheka" ndi "zosatheka". Chinthu chachikulu chomwe amapereka kwa onse awiri ndi zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Ndipo momwe mumawakwanitsira ndi bizinesi yanu.

Aliyense ali ndi nkhani yake

Orgasm ndi chinthu chochuluka, ndipo tonse ndife apadera, kotero timapeza kumasulidwa kwa kugonana m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Nthawi ina, iyi ndi nkhani yowala kwambiri mpaka misala, ndipo ina, ndikumverera kosangalatsa, koma izi ndizokwanira.

Physiology imagwira ntchito yayikulu pano. Pakugonana, zonse zimafunikira: momwe mkazi amakhalira ndi mitsempha mu nyini, kuchuluka kwa chidwi cha minofu, kupeza mfundo zosangalatsa kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, malo a G ndi osiyana kwa aliyense: akhoza kukhala okwera, otsika, kapena apakati. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kudziwa thupi lanu ndikumasuka kulifufuza.

Kuseweretsa maliseche kumathandiza amayi ena kudziwa madera omwe ali ndi erogenous: ndi chithandizo chake n'zosavuta kumvetsetsa momwe ziwalo zosiyanasiyana za thupi zimachitira zikakhudza, pa liwiro lanji komanso mwamphamvu. Ndipo podziwa thupi bwino, mutha kupereka malingaliro kwa mnzanu, osati ndi mawu. Akhoza kutsogoleredwa mwakachetechete - ingoika dzanja lake m'njira yoyenera. Chotero awiriwo pamodzi akuyang’ana zinthu zofanana.

Kuphatikiza pa physiology, mbali yamalingaliro ndiyofunikanso. Zomwe zimachitika m'maganizo a mwamuna ndi mkazi zimapatsa chidwi, ndipo kusakhalapo kwa chitsiriziro chowoneka ngati chofunikira, m'malo mwake, kumasangalatsanso, kumasangalatsa abwenzi, zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi womva zomveka bwino nthawi ina.

Choncho n’zothekanso!

Kugonana nakonso ndi ntchito, ngakhale kosangalatsa kwambiri. N’chifukwa chake sitikhala okonzeka nthawi zonse. Kuti mukwaniritse chisangalalo chachikulu ndi kumasuka, ndikofunikira kwa mkazi kuti "nyenyezi zonse zigwirizane": nthawi, malo, mlengalenga, thupi - zonsezi ndizofunikira.

Mtsikana wina wazaka 35, dzina lake Galina, ananena kuti: “Nthawi zina ndimaona kuti chibwenzi n’chochepa. - Kupsompsona, kukumbatirana, kubetcherana mopepuka - izi ndizokwanira kuti ndikhale ndi malingaliro abwino. Koma izi zimakwiyitsa mwamuna wanga: nthawi zonse amayesera kundibweretsa komaliza. Sindikudziwa momwe ndingamufotokozere kuti izi ndizosankha. Kenako ndimapeka orgasm kuti ndisamukhumudwitse."

Orgasm nthawi zambiri imakhala ngati chizindikiro cha amuna: ngati mkazi adakumana nazo, ndiye kuti amakhutira, ngati ayi, ndiye kuti walephera. Kumbali ina, kudera nkhaŵa koteroko kwa chikhutiro cha mnzako kuli koyamikirika. Kumbali ina, zimangovulaza ngati zikugwirizana mwachindunji ndi kudzidalira kwa mwamuna. Izi ziyenera kuti zinayambira kale kwambiri, pamene anthu ankakhulupirira kuti amuna amafunikira kugonana kwambiri kuposa akazi.

Ndiye palibe chifukwa choyankhula. Mosamala kwambiri, komabe ndi bwino kupereka lingaliro ili kwa wokondedwa wanu: ngati simunakonzekere kuwulukira kumwamba kwachisanu ndi chiwiri pamapeto, izi sizikutanthauza kuti simungakhutire kapena chinachake cholakwika ndi iye. Ndipo musaiwale kuwonjezera: simusamala konse ngati atsimikiza kufika pachimake. Zomverera zomwe mkazi amamva akabweretsa mwamuna wake kumaliseche omwe akufuna amatha kukhala amphamvu ngati panthawi yomwe ali pachiwopsezo.

"Sindikukudziwabe, wokondedwa"

Nkhani yosiyana ndi chiyambi cha ubale. Ndi zachilendo ngati, pa siteji yozindikirana wina ndi mzake, kugonana kumadutsa popanda chojambula chowala chomaliza. Mpaka pano, thupi ndi psyche ya onse awiri ali mu kupsinjika maganizo. M'malo mwake timayang'ana kwambiri mawonekedwe, momwe timawonekera kumbali, momwe timawonekera achigololo komanso momwe mnzako watsopano amachitira zonsezi - timamvetsera, timayang'ana, timayesa kuwerenga zizindikiro. Ndikovuta kuyang'ana pa zomverera, ndipo koposa zonse kuti mukwaniritse orgasm. Zonse zimadalira momwe mungathetsere mwamsanga ndikudalira mnzanuyo.

Siyani Mumakonda