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Zolingalira zakugonana: momwe amathandizira kukonza maubwenzi
kugonana
Kugonana kulikonse kumakhala ndi chizolowezi, onse amasangalala ndi zomwe apanga, mosasamala kanthu za kugonana
Kugonana mumsewu, kugwiritsa ntchito zikwapu kapena maunyolo pogonana kapena kutulutsa umuna kwa wokondedwa: kuganiza zogonana ndi gawo la moyo wogonana wabwino ndipo munthu aliyense ali nawo.
Zongopeka izi zikhoza kusonkhezeredwa ndi fano, chinachake chimene mumamva kapena chinachake chimene mumawerenga, ndipo kuwonjezera pa kuwongolera zosangalatsa, zingakhale zothandiza kwambiri pamene kupsinjika maganizo, mwachitsanzo, tsiku loipa kuntchito likuoneka kuti likuletsa orgasm.
Kugonana katatu ndi kumatako
Mwachiwonekere, ndipo malinga ndi maphunziro angapo, amayi ndi abambo sagawana malingaliro ofanana. Silvia Sanz, katswiri wa zamaganizo m'maubwenzi apabanja komanso wolemba "Sexamor" (Mkonzi Aguilar), akunena kuti, ngakhale kuti sizinthu zenizeni, akazi "amakonda kuganiza mozama za anthu odziwika, kuyambira kale kapena akale". Mabanja kapena anthu omwe amawaganizira monga ochita zisudzo, ndale, oimba, ndi zina zotero, ndipo zomwe zili mkati mwake zimatha kusiyana ndi “kukwapulidwa, kuyeserera. kugonana m'kamwa o maliseche, kugonana m’malo amene angaonekere, kukakamizidwa kapena kukhala okhoza kukhala mahule, kukhala ndi zibwenzi za akazi okhaokha; kuonedwa ngati wosakanizidwa ndi anthu omwe amawakopa kapena kuchita chiwerewere chambiri m'malo omwe ali ndi vuto logonana.
M'malo mwake, amakopeka ndi lingaliro lokhala ndi atatu kapena fellatio: "The kumatako ndi mkamwaKukhala wotsogola mu maubwenzi kapena, m'malo mwake, kukhala ndi mkazi kugonjera kwa iwo, ndi zina mwazongopeka mobwerezabwereza. Iwo ali okondwa kuti akuyamba kuchitapo kanthu, ndipo pali malo achilendo, monga ngati elevator, ofesi kapena m’chimbudzi cha bafa,” akutero katswiri wa zachiwerewere.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, Silvia Sanz akusonyeza kuti malingaliro a amuna ndi akazi amasiyananso: “Akazi amakonda kwambiri kugwiritsira ntchito malingaliro awo, ndi mikangano yodzutsa chilakolako chogonana kotero kuti amveke bwino, motero amakhala ndi mfundo zambiri.” Monga akufotokozera, iwo ali okondana kwambiri ndipo amatengeka kwambiri ndi malingaliro; amasonkhezeredwa kwambiri ndi zokhudzira monga kumva, kununkhiza, kukhudza ndipo, motero, zimakhala zolongosoka. Iye anati: “M’zongopeka, amakonda kusankha zochita mosasamala. Komabe, amuna amakonda kuchitapo kanthu, nkhani zowoneka bwino ndipo amakonda kukhazikika pakukondoweza kumaliseche. "Zolinga zake ndizofanana ndi makanema olaula: m'malingaliro ake mulibe zambiri, ndizowoneka bwino komanso zomveka. Palibe mkangano wochuluka ngati wa amayi, ndipo muzongopeka izi zomwe zili m'malingaliro awo ndizochitika zomwe sizikuvomerezedwa ndi anthu ", akutero.
Koma kodi maganizo amenewa amathandiza bwanji pa ubwenzi wathu ngati banja? Monga Silvia Sanz akutiuzira, amadzutsa zinthu zomwe sizingakhale zachilendo koma zomwe zimatitsogolera kukulitsa chikhumbo chathu, osati kungokonda lingaliro lochita koma chifukwa "atha kuyambitsa chibwenzi" pongoganiza. Momwemonso, imathanso kulimbikitsa kusewera ndi okondedwa wanu: «Kuphatikiza pakukuyatsa, amakulitsa chikhumbo ndikukulitsa kuyanjana mwa okondedwa wanu ngati mugawana nawo. Zimathandizanso kuti anthu azigonana komanso amalimbikitsa kuganiza mozama za kugonana. Zonsezi zitha kukuthandizani kukulitsa kuyanjana kwanu, ubale wanu komanso chikhumbo chanu muubwenzi, "akutero.
Kugonana kulikonse kumakhala ndi chizolowezi, onse amasangalala ndi zomwe apanga, mosasamala kanthu za kugonana. Choyenera ndikuvomereza ndikuzifufuza chifukwa ndi gawo la aliyense wa ife. Ndizinthu zokopa zomwe zimatha kukhala zopotoka kwambiri mpaka zosalakwa. “Kumbukirani kuti palibe malamulo, chilichonse chili m’maganizo mwanu ndipo muli ndi ufulu wochilola kuti chiwuluke,” akumaliza motero Silvia Sanz, yemwe m’buku lake lakuti ‘Sexamor’ ali ndi kabukhu kambiri komwe kungakuthandizeni kukulitsa chilakolako chanu cha kugonana ndi kukulitsa chikhumbo chanu. , kuwonjezera pa kulongosola zinsinsi za chikondi ndi zosangalatsa.