“Ndakhazikitsa bungwe lokhazikika! “
Sarah, mayi wa ana 2 wazaka 1 ndi 3
“Ndili wosakwatiwa kwa miyezi isanu ndi iwiri, ndili ndi mwayi kuti ndasunga nyumba yanga, chifukwa wakale wanga adachoka ndi mnzake watsopano. Komabe, ngakhale kuti nyumbayo inali m’maina athu onse awiri, ineyo ndi amene ndinkalipira lendi ndi mabilu. Pokhala ku RSA, ndimakhala wokonzeka: mwezi uliwonse, ndimapatula theka la ndalama za lendi, ndalama za gasi, inshuwaransi ya kunyumba ndi canteen ya ana. Ndi zina zonse, ndimagula zinthu, ndimalipira intaneti ndikudzilola kuchita zosangalatsa ngati nkotheka… Ndikuganiza kuti ndi bungwe loyenera kukhala nalo. Koposa zonse, tisalole kuti mabilu atifooketse. “
“Ndinapeza bwino. “
Stéphanie, mayi wa mwana wazaka 4
“Lero, pambuyo pa zaka zitatu zopatukana, bungwe linakhazikitsidwa ndipo ndapeza kulinganiza. Chifukwa cha mphamvu iyi kuyesa kupereka zabwino kwa mwana wanga, tsopano ndikhoza kunena kuti moyo wa mayi yekha ndi wokongola! Ndakhala ndi nthawi zovuta, zomwe akazi olekanitsa okha angamvetse. Ndife osiyana pamaso pa abwenzi paubwenzi kapena anzathu ena. Njira yokhayo yothetsera vutoli ndiyo kupeza mabwenzi amene ali mumkhalidwe wofananawo, komanso makolo olera ana okha. ”
“Ana anga ndi zofunika zanga. “
Chrystèle, mayi wa anyamata awiri, wazaka 9 ndi 5 ndi theka
“Chomwe chimavuta kwambiri ukakhala mayi wekha ndi kusadalira munthu, ngakhale kupuma mpweya wabwino, kapena kugona ... Ndiwe wodalirika, maola 24 patsiku. Chiyambireni kulekana, ndinali pa mlatho kusunga muyezo womwewo kwa ana anga: moyo wachimwemwe, wachimwemwe, wodzaza ndi mabwenzi ndi nyimbo. Ntchito yapambana! Sindinawapangitse kumva mafunde anga ku moyo. Chaka chatha thupi langa linathadi. Ndinayikidwa patchuthi chodwala, kenako pang'onopang'ono ndinayambiranso ntchito yachirengedwe cha theka la nthawi: udindo wodzisamalira ndekha! Kupatukanaku kunandibweretsera zowawa pang'onopang'ono… Patatha chaka ndikunama, ndinazindikira kuti mwamuna wanga wakale anali pachibwenzi ndi wogwira naye ntchito zomwe zidakhalapo kuyambira ndili ndi pakati. Ndinalemba chisudzulo ndikusunga nyumbayo. Anali ndi makiyi obwereza kuti apitirize kupita ndi wamkulu kusukulu m'mawa. Cholinga chake chinali kusunga ubale wa atate ndi mwana wawo ngakhale kuti m’banja munali chipwirikiti. Zazachuma, ndine wothina pang'ono. Mpaka Seputembala, wakale wanga amandilipira 24 € pamwezi, ndiye 600 yokha popeza adapempha kuti azisunga limodzi; zomwe zimalipira ndalama za canteen kwa ana awiriwa. Kuofesi, sindinawerenge maola anga, nthawi zonse ndimalemekeza mafayilo anga. Koma mwachiwonekere, pokhala mayi wosakwatiwa, ndinafunikira kusiya ntchito atangodwala kapena chirichonse. Kuntchito, zopezeka zochepa zoyendetsera ndale, ndinadzipeza ndekha mu "chipinda chagolide", osaphatikizidwa ndi maudindo ena. Ndizochititsa manyazi kuti, pamwamba pa china chirichonse, makampani amatisala ngati amayi osakwatiwa, pamene matekinoloje a digito amachititsa kuti zitheke kugwira ntchito kutali (zili zotheka kuntchito yanga). Chomwe ndimanyadira nacho ndi chisangalalo chokhala ndi moyo wa ana anga aamuna, kupambana kwawo pamaphunziro: ali okhazikika komanso athanzi labwino. Mfundo zanga zamaphunziro: zambiri ndi chikondi chochuluka… ndi mphamvu. Ndipo ndakula kwambiri, ndikusunga moyo wanga wachibwana! Ana anga aamuna ndi ofunika kwanga, koma chidziwitso changa cha chikhalidwe cha anthu chawonjezeka. Ndimachita nawo mayanjano osiyanasiyana, ndipo ndithudi, ndimathandiza mmene ndingathere anthu amene amabwera kwa ine. Kotero kuti pamapeto pake, ndikuyembekeza, nzeru zina zimapambana!