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Pofunafuna bambo wokhala pakhomo
Lembani "abambo okhazikika" mu Google ndipo mudzauzidwa kuti mukonze ndi "amayi okhala pakhomo". Ngakhale pa Net, sititsutsa dongosolo lokhazikitsidwa popanda chilango! Ndi ochepa kwambiri (kapena akuyenera kukhala) abambo anthawi zonse, kotero kuti ziwerengero za iwo sizikhalapo. Ku France, samawerengedwa. Tili ndi ziwerengero zapaternity leave. Koma, ziyenera kukumbukiridwa, tchuthi ichi ndi masiku 11. Ndi nthawi yochepa yopuma pantchito. Kuchoka kwa makolo kumakhalabe, komwe kumatha mpaka zaka 3. Mu 2004, anali apainiya 238 kuti atenge, 262 mu 2005, 287 (ikukwera!) Mu 2006. Amuna amaimira 1,2% ya tchuthi cha makolo chaka chilichonse. Onaninso nkhani yathu pa tchuthi cha makolo.
Ziwerengero zochepa za mayi wapakhomo
Kusowa kwa ziwerengero ndi kafukufuku wamkulu wa chikhalidwe cha anthu ali ndi zotsatira zomvetsa chisoni kuti n'zosatheka kukhazikitsa mbiri ya abambo kunyumba ndi zifukwa zomwe, poyamba, zimalimbikitsa chisankho ichi. Amuna onse osagwira ntchito sakhala fairies a nyumba nawo 100% m'banja mayendedwe, izi sizikutanthauza kusakhulupirika kusankha zoikamo ndi mmene moyo. Monga mmene Frédéric, bambo wa ana aŵiri, anachitira umboni kuti: “Pamene ndinalingalira zosiya ntchito yanga yaumisiri kuti ndisamalire mwana wanga wamwamuna, bizinesi yanga inapambana. Bruno *, yemwe wakhala panyumba kwa zaka 8, ankadziwa kale ali ndi zaka 17 kuti akufuna kulera ana ake, “monga momwe amayi anga anachitira”.
Bambo wokhala pakhomo: malingaliro akusintha
Ngakhale pamene chisankhocho chiganiziridwa, ngakhale kunenedwa, maonekedwe akunja ndi ovuta kukhala nawo. Kwa Frédéric, tinamuuza kuti: “Chotero, ndiwe amene umapanga mkazi? "Bruno, mwiniwake, anakumana ndi kusamvetsetsa kwa omwe anali pafupi naye:" Chabwino, mukhala kunyumba koma mwinamwake mukufunafuna ntchito? Akukhulupirira, komabe, kuti malingaliro akusintha mwachangu. “Oulutsa nkhani ndi amene anathandizapo. Timadutsa zochepa pamasewera osamvetseka. “
Mawu a bambo wokhala pakhomo
Bruno, 35, abambo a Leïla, Emma ndi Sarah, ali kunyumba kwa zaka 8.
"Nthawi zonse ndimadziwa kuti kugona kwa metro-work sikunali kwanga. Ndili ndi dipuloma yothandizira unamwino komanso chiphaso cha mbiri yakale. Sikuti ulova unandikakamiza kusamalira ana anga koma kusankha moyo. Mkazi wanga ndi namwino wachangu, wokonda kwambiri ntchito yake, ngakhale wogwira ntchito! Ine, ndimakonda kusamalira ana anga aakazi, kuphika. Sindimachita chilichonse kunyumba, timagawana ntchito. Ndipo ndimakhala ndi moyo kunja, zochita zambiri, apo ayi sindingasiye. Choncho ndandanda yanga imakhala yotanganidwa kwambiri. Tinayenera kufotokoza posachedwapa kwa ana athu aakazi osakhulupirira kuti inde, nthaŵi zina abambo amagwira ntchito. Ndipo zimachitikanso kuti makolo onse awiri ali ndi ntchito. ”
* Imawonetsa tsamba la "pereaufoyer.com"