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Khwerero 77: "Mukafuna kusintha m'moyo wanu, yembekezerani kulephera kwakanthawi"
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Mutu uno wa «Njira 88 za anthu achimwemwe» Ndikukupemphani kuti mukhale pafupi ndi cholinga chanu osaleka poyeserera
Iyi ndi nkhani ya Yosefe, mwana wa ku Canada wodula mitengo komanso mdzukulu wa odula mitengo, ndi mwana wake Filipo. Tsiku lina Filipo ataona kuti wakula, anapempha chilolezo kwa bambo ake kuti adule mtengo wake woyamba. Anapita kunkhalango yekhayekha ndipo masana anabwera kunyumba ali wokhumudwa. “Bambo, sindine wokhoza kugwetsa mitengo,” anamuuza motero.
“Nditandimenya kwambiri ndi nkhwangwa, mtengowo sunapunthwe n’komwe. Khama lonselo linali lopanda ntchito, “anafuula bwinja. Bambowo anamvetsera mwachidwi pamene akufotokoza zimene anakumana nazo koyamba ali wogwetsa mitengo ndipo anamulimbikitsa kuti afotokoze zimene wakhumudwa nazo, kuti zimenezi zimuthandize kusonyeza kukhumudwa kwake. Ataulula chisoni chake chonse, bambo ake anamufunsa mafunso awiri: mtengowo unali wokhuthala bwanji komanso kuti wamenya nkhwangwa zingati. Atamvetsera yankho la mwanayo, mawu ake anali akuti: “Wokondedwa Filipo, pa zonse zimene ukundiuza ndiponso zimene ndakumana nazo, ndinganene kuti mtengowo unagwetsedwa ndi mikwingwirima 90 mpaka 100. Ndipo mudapereka 70. Sikuti khama lanu linali lopindulitsa, koma kwenikweni, munali ochepa chabe kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu. Kuwerenga kumene mudachita ndi kuti ngati mtengo sugwa, ndi chifukwa nkhwangwa sizigwira ntchito. Koma yolondola ndi yosiyana: nkhwangwa zikamaoneka ngati zopanda ntchito, mtengowo umayandikira kwambiri kugwa. Vuto linali loti munangotaya mtima msanga. Kodi chinakulepheretsani kuchita chiyani kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu? Kufunitsitsa kwanu kuti mukwaniritse.
Mfundo zitatu zachokera m’nkhaniyi. Choyamba ndi: nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukufuna kuphatikiza kusintha kwatsopano m'moyo wanu, yembekezerani kulephera kwakanthawi, koma mvetsetsani kuti kuyesa kulikonse kolephera, osati kukhala kolephera, kukubweretsani sitepe imodzi pafupi ndi cholinga chanu. Chachiwiri ndi chakuti, podziwa kuti sikuyesa, koma kuyesa, mukhoza kudzimasula nokha ku chikakamizo cha kufunafuna zotsatira mwamsanga. Mukungoyang'ana pa chop chotsatira, ndikudzikumbutsa kuti chop chinanso nthawi zonse chikutanthauza kuti muli ndi sitepe imodzi yotsalira. Ndipo chachitatu ndi kukhulupirira ndi kumvetsetsa.
Chidaliro chimabwera podziwa kuti kuthyolako, ngakhale simukuwona mtengowo ukugwa, ndiyo njira yoyenera kuti ugwere. Kumvetsetsa kumabwera chifukwa chodziwa kuti nthawi iliyonse kugunda sikugwetsa mtengo, ndichifukwa choti sichinali chomaliza pamndandandawu kuwugwetsa.
Kodi inu ndi wokondedwa wanu mwakhala mukukalipirana kwa zaka makumi awiri ndipo lero mwalonjeza kuti simudzachitanso? Mvetsetsani kuti zaka makumi awiri ndi mtengo wokhuthala kwambiri kuti mudulidwe, ndikuti mudzalephera nthawi makumi atatu kapena makumi anayi musanathe kuthetseratu chizolowezi chakale ndikupangitsa mtengo wanu kugwa. Koma mvetsetsaninso kuti zolephera zonsezi ndi kugunda kwa nkhwangwa komwe, kutali ndi kukusunthani kutali ndi cholinga chanu, kumakufikitsani pafupi.
Kodi mwalonjeza kuti simunyoza wogwira naye ntchito kapena wachibale ndipo lero mwatero? Kumwetulira. Mwatsala pang'ono kukwaniritsa cholinga chanu ndipo nkhwangwa imodzi yatsala pang'ono kugwetsa mtengo wanu.
Kodi mwakhala mukuchita zodziwonera nokha kasanu osatha kuwongolera Black Bag yanu ndikufuna kunena kuti kudziwonera nokha kwa Gawo 10 kuli kopanda phindu? Tsatirani mfundo zotsatirazi…
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