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Makolo: Munafuna kukhala ndi mwana liti?

Maud: Patatha mwezi umodzi tikucheza pa intaneti, ine ndi Clem timakumana ndipo ndi chikondi poyang'ana koyamba. Timawonana kumapeto kwa sabata, timakhala ndi makolo athu. Mu 2011, tinatenga studio. Mu 2013, nyumba yaikulu. Zochitika zathu zamaluso ndizokhazikika (ndine mlembi ndipo Clem amagwira ntchito yosindikiza). Timangoyenda pang'onopang'ono, timayamba kuganiza za mwana komanso kudziwa zambiri pa intaneti ...

Nchifukwa chiyani mumasankha mapangidwe a "artisanal"?

Kutseguka kwa chithandizo chothandizira kubereka kwa onse, takhala tikulankhula za izi kuyambira 2012 ku France koma, mwatsatanetsatane, muyenera kupita ku Belgium kapena ku Spain kuti mukapindule nazo! Sitinafune kutenga sitepe iyi. Ndi mankhwala kwambiri. Ndipo muyenera kukhala kutali “nthawi yake ikakwana”, kapezeni dokotala wachikazi yemwe amapangira mankhwala apa, kuwamasulira… Muyeneranso kudutsa muzoyankhulana zamaganizidwe. Ndipo masiku omalizira ndi aatali. Mwachidule, kuchokera kumabwalo kupita ku mabungwe, timakonda kuyang'ana kwambiri pa wopereka mwaufulu ku France.

Ndiye patadutsa zaka zisanu kuti Solal abadwe ...

Inde, sitinasunge nthawi. Komabe, tidapeza woperekayo mwachangu. Mukakumana naye, madzi amapita bwino. Pa mbali ya bwana, palibe nkhawa. Ndipamene chimakhuthala. Anaganiza kuti ndibereke mwana. Koma ndinapita padera ndili ndi pakati pa mwezi umodzi. Zimatikwiyitsa ndipo timafunikira chaka kuti chikhumbo cha ana abwerere. Koma ndinapezeka ndi endometriosis ndi polycystic ovary syndrome. Mwachidule, ndizovuta. Kenako Clem akudzipereka kunyamula mwanayo. Poyamba, ndimavutika ndi lingaliro ili, ndiye ndikudina, "nsembe" imasandulika "mpumulo". Clem, yemwe adatuluka ngati trans man, atenga mimba kachiwiri.

Kodi maulalo anu ndi otani?

Timamupatsa nkhani za Solal nthawi ndi nthawi. Koma iye si bwenzi. Sitinkafuna kulera limodzi ndipo anagwirizana ndi mfundo imeneyi. Sitinafunenso kuyanjana naye. Pamayesero aliwonse mwana, ankabwera kudzamwa khofi kunyumba. Nthawi yoyamba, zimamveka zodabwitsa. Kenako idamasuka. Iye anali kuchita zimene ankayenera kuchita pa yekha. Tinali ndi mphika waung'ono wosabala wotengera umuna ndi pipette kuti tilowetsedwe. Izo sizinali zowopsya konse.

Kodi muyenera kutenga Solal?

Inde, imeneyo inali njira yokhayo yokhalira kholo lake. Ndinayamba ndondomeko ndili ndi pakati ndi loya. Solal anali ndi miyezi 20 pamene khoti la ku Paris linalamula kuti atengere mwana wakeyo. Muyenera kubweretsa zikalata, kupita kwa notary, kutsimikizira kuti ndinu oyenera, kuti mumadziwa mwanayo, zonsezi pamaso pa apolisi. Osanenanso za miyezi yomwe palibe malamulo pomwe Clem anali kholo yekhayo… Ndi nkhawa bwanji! Mwamphamvu kuti lamulo limasintha.

Kodi anthu ena amaliona bwanji banja lanu?

Makolo athu ankayembekezera mwachidwi kukhala ndi mwana. Anzathu amasangalala nafe. Ndipo m’chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera, gululo linali lachifundo. Mzamba adandiphatikiza pokonzekera kubadwa ndi kubadwa kwa Solal. Ine pafupifupi “ndinachitulutsa” ndekha ndi kuchiyika pa mimba Clem. Kwa ena, nthawi zonse timaopa maso a ena tisanakumane nawo, koma mpaka pano, sitinakhalepo ndi vuto.

Kodi mumatani mukadzakhala makolo?

Poyamba, zinali zovuta, makamaka popeza tinkakhala ku Paris. Tinagwira ntchito yaganyu kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Moyo wathu unasintha, kuphatikizapo kutopa kwa usiku ndi nkhawa. Koma tidapeza yankho mwachangu: pitani mukawone abwenzi, mukadye ku lesitilanti ... Kuyambira pamenepo, tapeza bwino: tinasamukira ku nyumba yokhala ndi dimba, ndipo tinali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi malo osungira ana nazale ndi mayi wamkulu. wothandizira.

Kodi mumakonda nthawi ziti ndi Solal?

Clem amakonda kuyenda kumidzi Lamlungu m'mawa ndi Solal, ndikuphika zakudya zazing'ono! Atatu a ife timakondanso kudya chakudya chamadzulo, kunena nthano, kumuwona Solal akukula ndi amphaka athu awiri ...

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