Zamkatimu
"Chovuta kwambiri ndi maso a ena".
Hélène ndi Fernando, makolo a Lisa, wa miyezi 18.
“Tili pachibwenzi kwa zaka khumi, ndife akhungu, mwana wathu wamkazi akuwona. Ndife ngati makolo onse, tasintha moyo wathu kuti ugwirizane ndi kubwera kwa mwana wathu. Kuwoloka misewu nthawi yachisangalalo ndi msungwana wodzaza ndi mphamvu, kugula m'sitolo yodzaza anthu, kuphika, kusamba, kuthana ndi zovuta… Tapeza bwino kwambiri kusintha kwa moyo uku, limodzi, mumdima.
Kukhala ndi mphamvu zanu zinayi
Matenda obadwa nawo akutipangitsa kuti tisamaone bwino tili ndi zaka 10. Ubwino wake. Chifukwa kuwona kale kumayimira zambiri. Simungathe kulingalira kavalo, kapena kupeza mawu ofotokozera mitundu mwachitsanzo, kwa munthu yemwe sanawonepo m'moyo wawo, akufotokoza Fernando, wazaka zake makumi anayi. Labrador wathu amasinthasintha kutiperekeza kuntchito. Ine, ndikuyang'anira njira ya digito ku Federation of the Blind and Ammblyopes of France, Hélène ndi woyang'anira laibulale. Ngati kumuika mwana wanga wamkazi m’choyendamo kungatsitsimutse msana wanga, akutero Hélène, sichosankha: kugwira choyendetsa ndi dzanja limodzi ndi ndodo yanga ya telescopic ndi inayo kungakhale koopsa kwambiri.
Tikadatiwona, tikanakhala ndi Lisa posachedwa. Pokhala makolo, tinadzikonzekeretsa ndi nzeru ndi nzeru. Mosiyana ndi okwatirana amene angasankhe kukhala ndi mwana mwamwambo, sitikanatha kukwanitsa, akuvomereza motero Hélène. Tinalinso ndi mwayi wokhala ndi chithandizo chabwino panthawi yomwe ndinali ndi pakati. Ogwira ntchito za amayi amaganiziradi nafe. "Pambuyo pake, timapitilira ndi kamwanako m'manja mwathu ... monga wina aliyense!" Fernando akupitiriza.
Mtundu wokakamiza anthu
“Sitinkayembekezera kuti zinthu zidzatiyendera bwino. Mtundu wokakamiza anthu, wofanana ndi kubereka ana, watifikira, "atero Fernando. Chovuta kwambiri ndi kuyang'ana kwa ena. Pamene Lisa anali ndi masabata ochepa okha, malangizo ambiri anali atapatsidwa kale kwa ife ndi anthu osawadziŵa: “Samalani ndi mutu wa mwanayo, kulibwino muugwire chonchi…” tinamva poyenda. Ndizodabwitsa kwambiri kumva alendo akukufunsani mopanda manyazi udindo wanu monga kholo. Chowonadi chosawona sichikufanana ndi kusadziwa, akutsindika Fernando! Ndipo kwa ine, palibe funso la kunyozedwa, makamaka pambuyo pa zaka 40! Ndikukumbukira nthaŵi ina, m’njanji yapansi panthaka, kunali kotentha, kunali kwachangu, Lisa anali kulira, pamene ndinamva mkazi akulankhula ponena za ine: “Koma bwerani, adzam’tsekereza mwanayo. , chinachake chiyenera kuchitika! ” iye analira. Ndinamuuza kuti zimene ananena zinalibe kanthu kwa aliyense ndipo ndinkadziwa zimene ndikuchita. Zinthu zowawa zomwe zimawoneka kuti zimatha pakapita nthawi, komabe, popeza Lisa akuyenda.
Timadalira makina opangira nyumba
Alexa kapena Siri zimapangitsa moyo wathu kukhala wosavuta, ndizowona. Nanga bwanji za kupezeka kwa akhungu: ku France, 10% yokha yamasamba ndi omwe timapeza, 7% ya mabuku amasinthidwa kwa ife ndipo mwa makanema 500 omwe amatuluka m'malo owonetsera chaka chilichonse, 100 okha ndi omwe amafotokozedwa *… Sindikudziwa ngati Lisa amadziwa kuti makolo ake ndi akhungu? Fernando akudabwa. Koma anazindikira kuti kuti “asonyeze” chinachake kwa makolo ake, ayenera kuchiika m’manja mwawo!
* Malinga ndi Federation of the Blind and Amblyopes of France
Ndasanduka quadriplegic. Koma kwa Luna, ndine bambo ngati wina aliyense!
Romain, bambo wa Luna, wazaka 7
Ndinachita ngozi yapa skiing mu January 2012. Mnzangayo anali ndi pakati pa miyezi iwiri. Tinkakhala ku Haute Savoie. Ndinali katswiri wozimitsa moto komanso wothamanga kwambiri. Ndinkachita masewera a ice hockey, kuthamanga kwa njira, kuwonjezera pa kumanga thupi komwe aliyense wozimitsa moto ayenera kugonjera. Pa nthawi ya ngoziyi, ndinali ndi dzenje lakuda. Poyamba, madokotala sankadziwa za matenda anga. Sipanapite ku MRI pamene ndinazindikira kuti msana wawonongeka kwenikweni. Modzidzimuka, khosi langa linathyoka ndipo ndinadwala quadriple. Kwa mnzanga, sizinali zophweka: anayenera kupita kuchipatala kumtunda wa maola oposa awiri kapena kupita kumalo ochiritsira. Mwamwayi, achibale athu ndi mabwenzi anatithandiza kwambiri, kuphatikizapo kupanga maulendo. Ndinatha kupita ku ultrasound yoyamba. Aka kanali koyamba kuti ndikhale pansi osagwera mumdima. Ndinalira mokhudzidwa mtima panthawi yonse ya mayeso. Kuti ndichiritsidwe, ndinadziikira cholinga chobwereranso panthaŵi yake kudzasamalira mwana wanga wamkazi akadzabadwa. Ndinachita bwino… mkati mwa milungu itatu!
"Ndikuyang'ana zinthu zowoneka bwino"
Ndinakhoza kupezekapo pakubweretsa. Gululo lidatipangitsa kuti titambasulire khungu ndi khungu motalikirapo pomukweza Luna ndi pilo. Ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe ndimakonda kukumbukira! Kunyumba, zinali zovuta pang'ono: sindinathe kumusintha, kapena kumusambitsa ... . Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, ndinapeza kudzilamulira: mwana wanga wamkazi ankadziwa chinachake, chifukwa sanasunthe pamene ndinamusintha, ngakhale zitatha mphindi 15! Kenako ndinapeza galimoto yoyenera. Ndinayambiranso ntchito yanga m’ndende zaka ziwiri ngoziyo itachitika, kuseri kwa desiki. Pamene mwana wathu wamkazi anali ndi zaka 3, tinasiyana ndi amayi ake, koma tinagwirizana kwambiri. Anabwerera ku Touraine komwe timachokera, ndinasamukanso kuti ndipitirize kulera Luna ndipo tinasankha kukhala limodzi. Luna ankangondidziwa ndi chilema. Kwa iye, ndine bambo ngati wina aliyense! Ndimapitiliza zovuta zamasewera, monga zikuwonetsedwa ndi akaunti yanga ya IG *. Nthawi zina amadabwa ndi maonekedwe a anthu mumsewu, ngakhale atakhala achifundo nthawi zonse! Kulumikizana kwathu ndikofunikira kwambiri. Tsiku ndi tsiku, ndimakonda kuyang'ana zinthu zowoneka bwino: pali zinthu zambiri zomwe ndingathe kuzisintha kuti ndizichita naye. Nthawi yake yomwe amakonda? Loweruka ndi Lamlungu, ali ndi ufulu wowonera zojambula zazitali: tonse timakhala pa sofa kuti tiwone! ”
* https://www.instagram.com/roro_le_costaud/? hl = ndi
Tinafunika kusintha zipangizo zonse zolerera ana. “
Olivia, wazaka 30, ana aŵiri, Édouard, wazaka 2, ndi Louise, wa miyezi itatu.
Ndili ndi zaka 18, madzulo a December 31, ndinachita ngozi: Ndinagwa kuchokera pakhonde pansanjika yoyamba ya nyumba ya alendo ku Haute-Savoie. Kugwa kunathyoka msana wanga. Patangopita masiku ochepa kuchokera pamene ndinalandira chithandizo kuchipatala cha ku Geneva, ndinazindikira kuti ndinali wolumala ndipo sindidzayendanso. Komabe, dziko langa silinagwe, chifukwa nthawi yomweyo ndinadziwonetsera ndekha m'tsogolomu: ndithana bwanji ndi zovuta zomwe zinkandiyembekezera? Chaka chimenecho, kuwonjezera pa kukonzanso kwanga, ndinachita maphunziro anga omaliza ndipo ndinapambana laisensi yanga yoyendetsa galimoto m'galimoto yosinthidwa. Mu June, ndinali ndi digiri yanga ya maphunziro ndipo ndinaganiza zopitiriza maphunziro anga ku Ile-de-France, kumene mlongo wanga, wazaka khumi ndi zitatu, anakhazikika. Kusukulu ya zamalamulo komwe ndinakumana ndi mnzanga yemwe takhala naye kwa zaka khumi ndi ziwiri.
M'mamawa kwambiri, wamkulu wanga anaimirira
Tinaganiza zokhala ndi mwana woyamba pamene ntchito zathu ziŵiri zinali zokhazikika. Mwayi wanga ndi wotsatiridwa kuyambira pachiyambi ndi bungwe la Montsouris, lomwe limagwira ntchito yothandizira anthu olumala. Kwa akazi ena, sizophweka! Amayi ena amandipeza pabulogu yanga kuti andiuze kuti sangapindule ndi kutsata kwa amayi kapena kukhala ndi ultrasound chifukwa gynecologist wawo alibe tebulo lotsitsa! Mu 2020, zikumveka zopenga! Tinayenera kupeza zipangizo zoyenera zosamalira ana: pabedi, tinapanga chitsanzo chokwezeka chopangidwa ndi khomo lolowera! Kwa ena onse, tinatha kupeza matebulo osinthira ndi bafa losasunthika lomwe ndimatha kupita ndimpando kukasamba ndekha. M’maŵa kwambiri, mwana wanga wamkulu anaimirira kotero kuti ndikhoza kum’gwira mosavuta kapena kukhala ndekha pampando wake wagalimoto. Koma popeza anali mchimwene wake wamkulu ndipo adalowa mu "zowopsa ziwiri", amachita ngati ana onse. Iye ndi waluso kwambiri popanga mop ndikakhala naye ndekha ndi mlongo wake wamng'ono kuti ndisamugwire. Mawonekedwe mumsewu ndi abwino kwambiri. Sindikukumbukira mawu osasangalatsa, ngakhale ndikuyenda ndi "wamkulu" ndi ang'onoang'ono m'chonyamulira ana.
Chovuta kwambiri kukhala nacho: kusachita bwino!
Kumbali ina, kusachita bwino kwa ena kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kukhala nako tsiku ndi tsiku. M’maŵa uliwonse ndimayenera kunyamuka mphindi 25 molawirira kupita ku nazale komwe kuli mtunda wa mphindi 6 zokha pagalimoto. Chifukwa chakuti makolo amene amasiya mwana wawo amapita pampando wolumala “kwa mphindi ziwiri zokha”. Komabe, malowa sali pafupi, komanso ndi otakasuka. Ngati ali wotanganidwa, sindingathe kupita kwina kulikonse, chifukwa sindingakhale ndi malo otuluka, ngakhale chikuku changa, kapena ana anga. Ndiwofunika kwa ine ndipo inenso ndiyenera kufulumira kukagwira ntchito ngati iwo! Ngakhale kuti ndine wolumala, sindidziletsa chilichonse. Lachisanu, ndimakhala ndekha ndi awiriwa ndipo ndimapita nawo ku library library. Loweruka ndi Lamlungu, timayenda panjinga ndi banja lathu. Ndili ndi njinga yosinthidwa ndipo yayikulu ili panjinga yake. Ndizopambana ! “