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- "Lingaliro logawana thupi langa ndi munthu wina limandivutitsa. »: Pascale, wazaka 36, amayi a Rafaël (miyezi 21) ndi Emily (miyezi 6)
- “Kudziimba mlandu kunandilemera panthaŵi imene ndinali ndi pakati. »: Maylis, wazaka 37, amayi a Priscille (wazaka 13), Charlotte (wazaka 11), Capucine (wazaka 8) ndi Sixtine (wazaka 6)
- “Sindinathe kupirira kuuzidwa nthaŵi zonse zimene ndiyenera kuchita! »: Hélène, wazaka 38, amayi a Alix (wazaka 8) ndi Zélie (wazaka 3)
"Lingaliro logawana thupi langa ndi munthu wina limandivutitsa. »: Pascale, wazaka 36, amayi a Rafaël (miyezi 21) ndi Emily (miyezi 6)
“Anzanga onse ankaopa kubereka komanso kukhumudwa. Ine, zimenezo sizinandidetse ine ngakhale pang’ono! Kwa miyezi isanu ndi inayi, ndinali kungoyembekezera kubadwa. Mwamsanga, lolani mwanayo atuluke! Ndili ndi malingaliro odzikonda kwambiri ponena izi, koma sindinakonde mkhalidwe uwu wa "kukhala pamodzi". Kugawana thupi lanu ndi munthu nthawi yonseyi ndizodabwitsa, sichoncho? Ndiyenera kukhala wodziyimira pawokha kwambiri. Komabe, ndinkafunadi kukhala mayi (komanso, tinayenera kuyembekezera zaka zinayi kuti tikhale ndi Rafaël), koma kuti ndisakhale ndi pakati. Izo sizinandipangitse ine kulota. Ndikamva kusuntha kwa kamwanako sikunali matsenga, kumvako kumandikwiyitsa.
Ndinkakayikira zimenezo sizikanandisangalatsa ine
Ngakhale lero, ndikaona mayi woyembekezera, sindimasangalala ndi mawu akuti “wow, zomwe zimakupangitsani kufuna! Mode, ngakhale ndili wokondwa naye. Kwa ine, ulendowu umathera pamenepo, ndili ndi ana awiri okongola, ndinagwira ntchitoyo… Ngakhale ndisanatenge mimba, ndinkakayikira kuti sindingakonde. Mimba yayikulu yomwe imakulepheretsani kunyamula kugula kwanu nokha. Khalani ndi nseru. Ululu wammbuyo. Kutopa. Kudzimbidwa. Mlongo wanga ndi bulldozer. Amachirikiza zowawa zonse zakuthupi. Ndipo amakonda kukhala ndi pakati! Ine ayi, kusokoneza pang'ono kumandisokoneza, kumawononga chisangalalo changa. Zokhumudwitsa zazing'ono zimatenga malo. Ndikumva kuchepa. Ndine mosakayikira chikhalidwe chaching'ono! Palinso mu mkhalidwe wa mimba lingaliro lakuti ine sindirinso kwathunthu wodziyimira pawokha, sindilinso pamwamba pa luso langa, ndipo amakwiyitsa ine! Kaŵirikaŵiri ndinafunikira kuchepekera kuntchito. Kwa Rafaël, ndinali kugona pabedi mofulumira kwambiri (pa miyezi isanu). Ine, yemwe nthawi zambiri ndimakonda kukhala ndi ulamuliro pa moyo wanga wa ntchito ndi ndondomeko yanga ... Dokotala yemwe amanditsatira yekha adanena kuti ndinali mkazi "mwachangu".
Chiwopsezo chogwira ntchito msanga sichinathandize ...
Kukumbatirana pambali, Nil ndi ine, tinayenera kusiya zonse zakufa pa mimba yoyamba, chifukwa panali chiopsezo cha kubadwa msanga. Sizinathandize kundisangalatsa. Ndinabereka msanga kwambiri (pa miyezi isanu ndi iwiri) chifukwa cha matenda a mkodzo. Kwa mwana wanga wamkazi Emily, sinalinso nthawi yosangalatsa. Nil ankaopa kuchita zoipa, ngakhale kuti kulibe ngozi. Komabe… Chinthu chokhacho chomwe ndimakonda ndili ndi pakati chinali kuyezetsa kuti ndili ndi pakati, kuyezetsa magazi ndi mabere anga owolowa manja… Koma zonse zidanditaya! Koma ndi moyo basi, ndithana nazo ...
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“Kudziimba mlandu kunandilemera panthaŵi imene ndinali ndi pakati. »: Maylis, wazaka 37, amayi a Priscille (wazaka 13), Charlotte (wazaka 11), Capucine (wazaka 8) ndi Sixtine (wazaka 6)
"Ndikuganiza kuti malingaliro anga olakwika amagwirizana kwambiri ndi chilengezo cha mimba yanga yoyamba. Kwa wamkulu, zimene makolo anga anachita zinandikhumudwitsa kwambiri. Ndinali nditanyamula mitsuko ya chakudya cha ana kuti ndiwadabwitse. White, potsegula mapaketi! Sanali kuyembekezera nkhani imeneyi nkomwe. Ndinali ndi zaka 23 ndipo azichimwene anga (ndife ana asanu) akadali achinyamata. Makolo anga anali asanakonzekere kukhala agogo.
Nthawi yomweyo iwo ananena kuti ine ndi Olivier sitingathe kukhala ndi mwana. Tinkayamba moyo waukatswiri, ndi zoona, koma tinali kuchita lendi nyumba, tinali okwatirana komanso otsimikiza kuti tikufuna kukhala ndi banja! Mwachidule, tinali otsimikiza mtima kwambiri. Ngakhale zinali choncho, zimene anachita zinandikhudza mtima kwambiri: Ndinali ndi maganizo akuti sindingathe kukhala mayi.
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Pamene mwana wathu wachinayi anabadwa, ndinafunsira kwa munthu wocheperako amene anandithandiza kuona bwino lomwe ndi kudzichotsera liwongo m’magawo angapo. Ndikadayenera kupitako chifukwa ndidakoka kusapeza bwino panthawi yomwe ndinali ndi pakati anayi! Mwachitsanzo, ndinadziuza ndekha kuti “ngati a PMI atadutsa, apeza kuti nyumbayo siinali aukhondo mokwanira!” M'maso mwa ena, ndinkadzimva ngati "mwana wamkazi", munthu wopanda udindo komanso wosadziŵa kalikonse. Anzanga anapitiriza maphunziro awo, anapita padziko lonse ndipo ine ndinali mu matewera. Ndinadzimva kuti ndalephera. Ndinapitirizabe kugwira ntchito koma ndinali ndi madontho. Ndinasintha ntchito, ndinayambitsa kampani yanga. Sindinathe kwenikweni kudzigawa bwino pakati pa ana anga ndi ntchito yanga. Zinali zamphamvu kwambiri kwa yomaliza yomwe idafika mwachangu kuposa momwe amayembekezera… Kutopa, kusowa tulo, kudziimba mlandu kudakula.
Sindinathe kuyimilira kuwona mawonekedwe anga m'mawindo asitolo
Ayenera kunena kuti ndinali kudwaladi ndi pakati. Pa mimba yanga yoyamba, ndimakumbukira ndikuponyera pawindo lakumbuyo lagalimoto ndikugona pamwamba pa kasitomala paulendo wantchito ...
Kunenepako kunandikhumudwitsanso kwambiri. Nthawi zonse ndinkalemera pakati pa 20 ndi 25 kg. Ndipo ndithudi sindinataye chirichonse pakati pa kubadwa. Mwachidule, ndinali ndi nthawi zovuta pamene sindinkatha kupirira ndikuwona chithunzithunzi changa m'mawindo a sitolo. Ndinaliranso. Koma ana awa ndinawafuna. Ndipo ngakhale ndi awiri, sitikadakhala amphumphu. ”
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“Sindinathe kupirira kuuzidwa nthaŵi zonse zimene ndiyenera kuchita! »: Hélène, wazaka 38, amayi a Alix (wazaka 8) ndi Zélie (wazaka 3)
“Sindinkada nkhawa ndili ndi pakati, koma enawo! Choyamba, mwamuna wanga Olivier, yemwe ankayang'anira zonse zomwe ndinkadya. Zinkayenera kukhala zogwirizana bwino kuti "kukulitsa zokonda za mwana!". Madokotala amenenso anandipatsa malangizo ambiri. Achibale amene ankada nkhawa ndi kamayendedwe kanga kakang'ono "Osavina kwambiri!". Ngakhale kuti mawuwa anachokera ku malingaliro abwino, anandipatsa lingaliro lakuti chirichonse chinali chokonzedwera kwa ine nthaŵi zonse. Ndipo siziri muzochita zanga ...
Ziyenera kunenedwa kuti zinayamba molakwika ndi mayeso a mimba. Ndinachita m'mawa kwambiri, ndikukankhidwa pang'ono ndi Olivier, yemwe anapeza mimba yanga "yosiyana". Linali tsiku laphwando langa la bachelorette. Ndinayenera kuuza anzanga makumi asanu ndisanazindikire. Ndipo ndimayenera kuchepetsa kumwa champagne ndi ma cocktails ... Kwa ine, mimba ndi nthawi yoipa kukhala ndi mwana, ndipo ndithudi si yosangalatsa yomwe ndinapezerapo mwayi. Zili ngati ulendo wopita kutchuthi!
Mimba yayikulu imakulepheretsani kukhala momasuka. Ndinagunda m'makoma, sindinathe kuyika masokosi anga ndekha. Sindinamveponso mayendedwe a anawo chifukwa anali pampando. Ndipo ndinavutika kwambiri ndi nsana wanga ndi kusunga madzi. Pamapeto pake, sindinathe kuyendetsa galimoto kapena kuyenda kwa mphindi zoposa khumi ndi zisanu. Osatchulanso miyendo yanga, mitengo yeniyeni. Ndipo sizinali zovala za umayi zomwe zimandisangalatsa ...
Palibe amene anamvera chisoni botolo langa ...
Ndipotu, ndinali kuyembekezera kuti chidutse, kuyesera kuti ndisasinthe kwambiri moyo wanga. Malo ogwirira ntchito omwe ndimagwira ntchito ndi amuna. Mu dipatimenti yanga, akazi akhoza kuwerengedwa pa zala za dzanja limodzi. Zokwanira kunena kuti palibe amene adasunthidwa ndi chitini changa kapena kundifunsa momwe ndidayendera maulendo anga azachipatala. Zabwino kwambiri, ogwira nawo ntchito ankanamizira kuti sanaone kalikonse. Mucikozyanyo, ndakali kukonzya kuyeeya kuti, “Leka kukkomana mumbungano, ulabeleka! Zomwe zidandikwiyitsa kwambiri. ”…