1. Mphatso kwa aliyense. M'nyengo ya tchuthi isanayambe, n'zosavuta kuti mukhale ndi alendo ambiri kuposa momwe munakonzera, kapena kulandira mphatso kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe simunamuyembekezere. Kuti mupewe kusamvana, onetsetsani kuti pali mphatso zabwino zokongola zomwe zakonzekera - kwa iwo omwe amatsika patchuthi chanu, kapena kwa omwe mumakumana nawo mukampani imodzi. Gwirizanani, zimakhala zochititsa manyazi ngati wina ali ndi mphatso, ndipo wina amasiyidwa. Komanso, ndi mwayi wodziwana bwino.
2. Zikuwoneka ngati zodziwikiratu, komabe, zochitika nthawi zina zimachitika. Onani ngati mwachotsa mtengo wa mphatsoyo. Kupatulapo ndizochitika pamene mphatso yomwe ikuperekedwa ikuperekedwa ndi ntchito yotsimikizira (chiphaso chingafunikirenso).
3. Nthawi ndi malo. Mukamayendera, musathamangire kukapereka mphatso m'kholamo, ndi bwino kuti muzichita momasuka pabalaza kapena m'chipinda chochezera alendo.
4. Popereka mphatso, yang’anani m’maso mwa wolandirayo, kumbukirani kumwetulira ndi kumukulunga mokondwera ndi mowona mtima. Ndipo ngati mukumangirira khadi ku mphatsoyo, lembani mawu ochepa pamanja.
5. Pewani mawu akuti “Ndinayendayenda mumzinda wonse ndisanaupeze” kapena “Pepani chifukwa cha mphatso yaing’ono ngati imeneyi.” Kulozera pamavuto okhudzana ndi kupeza ndi kugula mphatso kungathe kusokoneza wolandirayo mosavuta. Perekani mokondwera.
6. Osavutitsidwa ndi mafunso pambuyo pa “Chabwino, mumaigwiritsa ntchito bwanji? Monga?"
7. Kuyika kwachikondwerero ndi chimodzi mwazofunikira za mphatso. Zovala zonyezimira, nthiti zowala, mauta amitundu - izi ndizomwe zimapanga mpweya wosangalatsa wamatsenga - kwa mwana ndi wamkulu. Ndipo ndithudi, kumasula mphatso ndi chisangalalo chapadera.
8. Luso lopereka mphatso likhoza kukhala luso lenileni pamene simungosankha chikumbutso, koma mukamva za zokonda za munthu, zokhumba zachinsinsi kapena zowonekera pokambirana, mumalowa m'bwalo la ng'ombe. Komabe, iwo omwe amatsogoleredwa ndi mfundo yothandiza ndikusankha "mphatso yofunikira pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku" ayenera kukumbukira kuti zophika, miphika ndi ziwiya zina zakukhitchini ziyenera kuperekedwa pokhapokha ngati "dongosolo lapadera".
9. Mphatso Zoyenera Kupewa: Magalasi, mipango, mipeni ndi zinthu zina zoboola ndi kudula. Pali zikhulupiriro zambiri zokhudzana ndi zinthu izi.
10. Polandira mphatso, musazengereze kutsegula phukusi ndikufufuza mosamala - ndi chophweka ichi, koma chofunika kwambiri, mumasonyeza chidwi ndi kuzindikira kwa munthu amene akupereka mphatsoyo. Ndipo malingaliro anu okondwa ndikuthokoza kwambiri kwa woperekayo.
11. Onetsetsani kuti mukuthokoza chifukwa cha mphatso iliyonse. Kumbukirani, Mulungu alibe manja ena koma manja a munthu wina.
12. Ndipo potsiriza, nsonga yomwe ingakuthandizeni kupanga ubale weniweni pakati panu: ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito mphatso, munaikonda ndipo ndinu okondwa kuti muli nayo - tengani mphindi zingapo kuti mugawane izi ndi munthu. amene anakupatsani chinthu ichi. Ingoyimbirani kapena kutumiza meseji. Ndikhulupirireni, adzasangalala kwambiri. Ndipo inunso. Fotokozani zakukhosi kwanu.
Chikondi, zikomo ndi kusangalala!