Ubwino wowerengera ana

Kuwerenga ndi zambiri kuposa zosangalatsa, chizindikiro cha msinkhu wa chitukuko ndi chizindikiro cha maphunziro. Zonse ndi zakuya kwambiri.

“Pamene ndinali ndi zaka ziŵiri, ndinadziŵa kale zilembo zonse! Ndipo pa atatu - ndinawerenga! ” – akudzitamandira mnzanga. Ngakhale ndisanayambe sukulu ya ana aang’ono, ndinaphunzira kudziŵerenga ndekha. Ndipo mwana wanga wamkazi anaphunzira kuŵerenga msanga. Kawirikawiri, amayi amayesa kuika lusoli m'mutu mwa mwanayo mwamsanga. Koma nthawi zambiri iwowo sanganene chifukwa chake. Ndipo vuto ndi chiyani ndi luso limeneli? Ndibwino kuti mwana azitha kudzisangalatsa yekha, osayang'ana pazenera la chida, koma akuyang'ana pa kutembenuza masamba a bukhuli.

Izi, mwa njira, ndilo vuto lonse ndi zipangizo zamakono: zimakhala bwino kwambiri polimbana ndi ntchito yosangalatsa mwana kuposa mabuku. Koma ndi bwino kuyesetsa kuphunzitsa mwana wanu kuti azikonda kuwerenga. Chifukwa chiyani? Tsiku la Akazi linayankhidwa ndi mphunzitsi, woyang'anira mabuku a ana, mphunzitsi wa zaluso ndi katswiri wa chitukuko cha ana Barbara Friedman-DeVito. Ndiye kuwerenga…

… zimathandiza kutengera maphunziro ena

Kafukufuku wochuluka wasonyeza kuti ana amene amaŵerengera nawo limodzi asanapite kusukulu ndi amene ayamba kale kuŵerenga pang’ono, adzapeza kukhala kosavuta kudziŵa bwino maphunziro ena. Koma ngati palibe luso la kuŵerenga, ndipo malemba a masentensi oposa aŵiri kapena atatu ali owopsa, kudzakhala kovuta kwa iye kupirira programuyo. Mwamwayi, mwana sakufunika kuti azitha kuwerenga pofika nthawi ya ulendo woyamba wopita kusukulu, adzaphunzitsidwa m'kalasi yoyamba. Koma zoona zake n’zakuti mwana amayenera kugwira ntchito ndi mabuku paokha nthawi yomweyo. Kuphatikiza apo, kuwerenga kunyumba kumakulitsa mikhalidwe yothandiza monga kulimbikira, luso losunga chidwi, lomwe, ndithudi, limathandizira kuzolowera kusukulu.

Zomwe mungawerenge: "Tsiku loyamba kusukulu".

… kumawonjezera mawu ndikuwongolera luso lachilankhulo

Kuwerenga ndi chida chabwino kwambiri chokulitsa mawu. Ngakhale makanda amene amangotengera kuŵerenga mwa kumveketsa mawu a nyama zojambulidwa pa chithunzi kapena kubwereza mizere ya otchulidwawo amayi awo atakulitsa luso la matchulidwe, katchulidwe kolondola, ndi kumvetsetsa kuti mawu amapangidwa ndi masilabo ndi kamvekedwe kosiyana.

Kuchokera m'mabuku, mwanayo amaphunzira osati mawu atsopano, komanso tanthauzo lawo, zilembo, momwe amawerengera. Komabe, yotsirizirayi ndi yoona kwa ana okhawo amene amawaŵerengera mokweza. Ana amene adziŵerengera kwambiri angaike mawu ena molakwika, kapena samvetsa tanthauzo lake.

Mwachitsanzo. M'giredi yoyamba, mwana wanga wamkazi wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi adawerenga zochitika za bwalo la chidole chofewa. Mukumvetsetsa kwake, bwalo ndi chomwe mutu wa chidole chofewa udzasokedwa. Mwa njira, iyi ikadali nthabwala ya banja lathu: "Pita ukapese tsitsi lako." Koma kenako ndinagwidwa ndi chibwibwi, kuyesera kufotokoza tanthauzo la mawuwo, omveka kwa ine, koma osamvetsetseka kwa mwanayo.

Zomwe mungawerenge: "Tibi pa famu."

… kumakulitsa luso lazidziwitso ndi kulankhulana

Izi sizikuwoneka ndi maso. Koma chifukwa cha kuwerenga, mwanayo amaphunzira kumvetsetsa kugwirizana pakati pa zochitika zosiyanasiyana ndi zochitika, pakati pa chifukwa ndi zotsatira zake, kusiyanitsa bodza ndi choonadi, kumvetsetsa mozama. Izi ndi luso lachidziwitso.

Kuonjezera apo, kuwerenga kumakuphunzitsani kumvetsetsa maganizo ndi zifukwa za zochita za anthu ena. Ndipo kuchitira chifundo ndi ngwazi za m’mabuku kumathandiza kukulitsa chifundo. Kuchokera m’mabuku mungaphunzire mmene anthu amalankhulira ndi mabwenzi ndi anthu osawadziŵa, mmene amaperekera mabwenzi kapena kusonyeza mkwiyo, mmene amachitira chifundo m’mavuto ndi kusangalala, kukwiya ndi kuchita nsanje. Mwanayo amakulitsa malingaliro ake okhudza malingaliro ndikuphunzira kuwafotokozera, kufotokoza momwe akumvera ndi chifukwa chake, m'malo modandaula mwakachetechete, kulira kapena kukuwa.

Zomwe mungawerenge: Possum Peak ndi Forest Adventure.

Sizikambidwa kaŵirikaŵiri, koma pali chinachake chofanana ndi kusinkhasinkha pakuŵerenga molunjika ndi mwachidwi. Timasiya kuchitapo kanthu ndi dziko lotizinga ndi kumizidwa kwathunthu m'nkhani yomwe timawerenga. Kawirikawiri, pamenepa, mwanayo amakhala pamalo opanda phokoso pomwe palibe amene amamusokoneza, amakhala womasuka. Ubongo wake umapumanso - pokhapokha chifukwa safunikira kuchita zambiri. Kuwerenga kumapereka chizoloŵezi chopumula komanso chodziletsa chomwe chimachepetsa nkhawa za tsiku ndi tsiku ndikuthandizira pazovuta.

Zomwe mungawerenge: "Zverokers. Kodi woyimba ng'oma anapita kuti? “

Izi sizokhudza ana okha, komanso akuluakulu. Pamsinkhu uliwonse, kupyolera mu kuwerenga, tikhoza kukumana ndi zomwe sizidzatichitikira zenizeni, kuyendera malo odabwitsa kwambiri ndikumva m'malo mwa anthu osiyanasiyana, kuchokera ku zinyama kupita ku robot. Titha kuyesa zamtsogolo za anthu ena, nyengo, ntchito, zochitika, titha kuyesa malingaliro athu ndikupanga malingaliro atsopano. Titha popanda chiwopsezo chilichonse kukhutiritsa chilakolako chathu chaulendo kapena kubweretsa wakupha, titha kuphunzira kunena kuti "ayi" kapena kutenga udindo pazochita zathu pogwiritsa ntchito zitsanzo zolembedwa, titha kudziwa bwino mawu achikondi kapena akazonde njira zothetsera mikangano. . Mwachidule, kuwerenga kumapangitsa munthu aliyense, ngakhale wamng'ono, kukhala wodziwa zambiri, wanzeru, wokhwima komanso wosangalatsa - kwa iye yekha ndi kampani.

Zomwe mungawerenge: "Leelu akufufuza. Kodi mnansi wathu ndi kazitape? “

Siyani Mumakonda